Originally posted by: ginac
I totally agree with everyones comments but Simi is the only one who has done this to herself. She was quick to serve Abhi with what is right and wrong that she has forgotten that you need to practice what you preach. She has failed miserably. I am so sad to read that there will be misunderstandings and that this will possibly cause problems for simbhi but truly and honestly speaking Simi doesn't have the same passion and wanting in her eyes that Abhi has for her. There is no doubt in my mind that simi loves Abhi but its not the same intensity that Abhi has. She was a lot different before their marriage. It appeared that she would go to the ends of the earth to see Abhi but now it is as though her only focus is her family problems. Why cant she see that they need to be away from KB. Perfect example in previous episode when Abhi was trying to get close to simi while setting the table at breakfast. Her family is her family but she now has responsibilities to her husband and above all she needs to tell him about important things such as the Balla letter. The only way for simi to actually get out of her cocoon and grow up is to UNFORTUNATELY be away from Abhi. SHE MUST REALISE WHAT AN AMAZING AND WONDERFUL HUSBAND SHE HAS. I want her to see what Abhi has sacrificed for her and how when two people enter into marriage it is as it should be about two people trusting each other and loving each other as if it was there last day together. I want her to feel her love for Abhi and I would like to see her tell Abhi how wrong she was and that she loves him and cannot live a day without him. Lets wait and see what is going to happen now that Abhi comes to know the truth.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I agree with you, but her passion and intensity for Abhi disappeared the day Nakul came into their lives. Suddenly she didn't seem to care for Abhi and instead became the maha sacrificial woman. Her focus went to Neetu - her unborn kid, her family's desire to see her married to Nakul, etc.
At the breakfast table, Abhi did try to get close to her and she did respond, but she would not sit next to him because she knew he would try something and she'd be embarassed. It was not a rejection of him but rather a cute and shy approach - he could still see her and it was evident she was in love with her eyes always lowered, but glancing at him periodically. Her smiling at him being caught of guard, was also a sign to say she was responsive. It's all very subtle.
Alot of that comes from the CVs and their OWN approach to relationships. Writers write from experience and it's evident that the lack of maturity on the part of the writers, and possible their own inflated sense of arrogance has them present a woman who takes a man like Abhi for granted. All of this does not make sense considering how Simi's character was originally presented.