Talking about bonds... - Page 4

Originally posted by: nickyashok

hmmm.......guys i just wanted to put in my honest opinion..... i see a lot of SR fans saying AR never trusted each other and they were really immature and blah blah ( no offense intended )..... but give me one example of a couple who have totally started trusting their relationship before their marriage...... lemme quote some ( ok i know all these are from american sitcoms but they have the same classic case scenario:

1. Ross and Rachel ( FRIENDS ) - never even had a 'lil trust between them, immature, but hopelessly in love. you can see that throughout the course of the series they were always on and off. but even if it meant at the end of the show they were together. Ross even got married inbtw and both of them even fell in love with others... mind you love... not just affection or respect...... i know i know marriage doesn't hold the same meaning there as it does in india but my argument was not about that. its about the issue of trust and respect...

2. Ryan and Marissa & Seth and Summer ( The OC ) - i dunno if u ppl have heard of this but these two couples were also in for a rough ride. in seth and summer's case it was seth's impulsiveness just like armaan's. he used to mess up big-time and not consult summer which is again the prob here. whatever he does with summer's best intentions at heart used to backfire on him and summer ended up mis-understanding him even more... and ryan and marissa were also like ross and rachel you know....... the same on again-off again case..... again lots of misunderstandings but only marissa's death could seperate them..... otherwise m pretty sure they would have ended up together.....

i could give you a few more examples but i guess its already become too long 😉

what m saying is : AR trusted each other enough to want to spend the rest of their lives together...
infact the coming and going of the 3 riddhimas signifies their growth in their relationship..
i would say during kajen's reign their relationship was the most mature - both of them wanting the same things in life, love, respect, trust, passion, desperation for each other........

SR do have a lot of trust and respect for each other, no denying that....... i just wanted to make my point clear that AR too trusted each other once their relationship had matured enough... though i guess to SR fans it will always feel less compared to SR....

just sharing my POV guys..... i'd welcome any constructive criticism but no bashing pls....🤗

P.S : but the unison of AR and SR fans is coming soon....... at one point we're all going to get fed up enough to say " pick one already !!! we don't care if its armaan or sid !! just end this crap now !!!
😉 😉

Originally posted by: rapunzel84

Interesting read...not gonna go into the parts i agree or disagree with...Just wanna say tht this point of urs "If SR are meant to be, why need so many cupids and external factors to bring them together?? doesnt hold much ground given the fact tht even AR needed support from other ppl to get together n come back to each other after some misunderstandings etc. Its actually quite silly to say tht if u r meant to be, then it will happen automatically n you dont need any external factors or ppl to get together...so many times, we dont realize our mistakes, shortcomings etc n it needs someone else to point it out for us...similarly many times we dont understand our feelings (e.g. armaan during the initial days cudnt understand why he was seeing ridhhima everywhere n it actually took atul n minnie to make him understand he's in love) so u cannot say tht 2 ppl get together all by themselves..u do need cupids, supporters, etc most of the times coz a third party perspective is needed!

Originally posted by: sweetshruti

Awesome post by you once again 👏👏👏

Completely agree with you. SR have time and again needed someone to help them get together. Their so called "bond" has no strong base to it.

And I have always said this and will repeat again that their bond is only based on the fact that they are "married" and thus have some obligations towards each other. Though now its not the case from Sid's side from Ridz side this is still the case. She does not Love him.

I really want all the people who say Ridz loves Sid to answer this one question.

SR were married so Ridz already had One big concrete reason to stay with Sid. If she loved him as well, as some people claim then there is absolutely no reason for any confusion in her mind and no reason in the world that would make her consider the option of leaving her husban "whom she loves". Even if Armaan came back she could have just told him that she is married and leave her alone. Why would she even be affected by Armaan's comeback if she would have moved on?? Why would she still be soooo angry with Armaan???

BUT that was not the case. She did not tell Armaan that she was married till they reached a point where she had no option but to tell him. WHY???

WHY was Ridz confused for soooooo long about who she should choose??? The fact that she was confused means that going back to Armaan IS an option that she was considering. If she "loved" Sid why would she consider this possibility in the first place??

She places Armaan n Sid at equal levels in her life. She has given them equal importance, no one person has she given more importance to till now.

So if for Ridz the thing binding her to Sid is marriage then there has to be something equally strong binding her to Armaan too. AND THAT THING IS LOVE. And no matter what Riddhima can never love anyone like she loves Armaan.

Originally posted by: krazyboutkaran

extremely well said bheegi!!!

dis is by far D most sensible post in dis forum..!!

wat uve said changed my matter of perspective.....nd now well...i can actually see dat ray of hope for AR!!!

thx a lot for dis topic....it wz really needed!!...:)

Originally posted by: bheegi

loved ur comparisons Nicky....i agree, every relationship needs time to mature and AR had reached that point till the terrorist attack.Maybe,if armaan was not back, SR would have achieved that too but now that armaan is back, it's going to be really hard for ridz to really move on and break that bond with armaan forever