this forum is losing its essence

i have been visiting this place for over two years now, and somehow at the moment, i feel the forum is seriously losing its essence, the moderators may yell at me for being all preachy once more, but i strongly feel, we are still latching onto the forum even today for no purpose whatsoever..

yeah, i know people are still talking about making petitions to get AR together, some even talk of leaving the show, while the others still cant decide which direction the story needs to take from here, amidst all this, i fail to understand just one thing...

what is that that we are still doing on this forum? has it just become a ground to vent out frustrations, and hope for a better future, though the chances are bleak??? as a habit, though things are real bad, i still come here to see whats happening, its a part of my day to day routine.. but is this why i came to the forum in the first place...??? i have no answer today...people have expectations from the creatives, and i would lie if i say, i am not one of them...day in and day out, there seem to be more reasons for us to hate the show, than to love it... the story is taking absurd turns, i.e if you consider the present happenings, a story at all....

amidst so many fights, so many arguments, and so much criticism, this place doesnt seem like the one i used to frequent at one point in time.. as a hardcore DMG lover, i would love to watch the show till its very last episode, but, what about the reason why i came here... i remember why i started visiting the forum, it was becuase i just couldnt get enough of the show even after it got over... the show wud give me so much happiness and joy, that, i used to find a joy in coming and sharing the same with many like me... but today, its no longer that... people are either talking of how bad the creatives are, about which side should win, whose better, and what needs to be done... guys, this exercise is emotionally exhausting and draining... and while, i tell myself, i dont want to do it, i still get dragged to do it... is there a way out? i am too weak hearted to say i quit, cos i know i am too attached to do it....!!

had to say it ... so i said it...!!!

love,
niha

Hey Niha , Hru? long time no see ..... hehehe 😆

Well, i know how you feel bcoz even i am in the same state. 😭Full of frustration , anger , hatred and want to kill someone. 😡

Once there was a time i used to love the show but now it has become nothing but a habit or people are just sticking around for their fav actors/actresses. 🥱

And out of those who are still here for their fav celebrities, few of them like u n me ,still get affected by the story. 😭

We have witnessed such a good time of dmg, that now it is really difficult to digest the fact that this show is going to the dogs and is beyond repair. 🤢

We cant quit , but also we cant stand it. 😕

Dmg ka ladoo khaye tho pachtaye , na khaye tho pachtaye

hi bhavi...

indeed... its been a long long long time... how you doing girl!! i am well, except for the occasional bouts of frustrations that i go thro thanks to this show!!!

i am glad you agree with me... but, how many others do... :(

Originally posted by: bhavi20_s

Hey Niha , Hru? long time no see ..... hehehe 😆

Well, i know how you feel bcoz even i am in the same state. 😭Full of frustration , anger , hatred and want to kill someone. 😡

Once there was a time i used to love the show but now it has become nothing but a habit or people are just sticking around for their fav actors/actresses. 🥱

And out of those who are still here for their fav celebrities, few of them like u n me ,still get affected by the story. 😭

We have witnessed such a good time of dmg, that now it is really difficult to digest the fact that this show is going to the dogs and is beyond repair. 🤢

We cant quit , but also we cant stand it. 😕

Dmg ka ladoo khaye tho pachtaye , na khaye tho pachtaye

well guys u nw wat i do im also a hugeeeeeeee fan of dmg i watched it from the very 1st epoi.. but nw i jst simply hated it. and i jst loove ksg sooo much but still i control myself and nt watch the show cuzzz it relly makes me upset by the end of every and each epoi.. nw. so wat i do its been a week i havent watched dmg i thought it would be hard for me to stop but after a few days u'll get used to it.i dnt watch the show i jst cm to visit the form to see wat ppl has written for the day and i dnt see any improvment so i m sooo glad i dnt watch it anymore.i will watch it once i hear AR are about to get close or close to get unite.untill then i hve relly stopped watching dmg.wat i do i hve started to watch dmg from the 1st epoi.. and im soo happy atleast i get happy watchin it nt cry or get mad at any1 and i jst cant forget the old castin sooo if it relly hurts u watchin it stop.i nw it wld be hard for a few days trust me u will get used to it or watch the old epio...

I'd say the forum is losing its essence b/c the show has clearly lost its essence. It's down in the dumps, and unless they change their ways I'm sure DMG will soon end. The fans need a medium to vent out their frustration and hence its the forum. Many are hopeless idiots like me who still hope for a change and are trying to fight for changes in the way they can. But honestly my hopes are really dwindling and even visiting this forum is becoming a headache b/c its another sour reminder of the stupidity in the show.

Originally posted by: ahanna

well guys u nw wat i do im alsoa hugeeeeeeee fan of dmg i watched it from the very 1st epoi.. but nw i jst simply hated it. and i jst loove ksg sooo much but still i control myself and nt watch the show cuzzz it relly makes me upset by the end of every and each epoi.. nw. so wat i do its been a week i havent watched dmg i thought it would be hard for me to stop but after a few days u'll get used to it.i dnt watch the show i jst cm to visit the form to see wat ppl has written for the day and i dnt see any improvment so i m sooo glad i dnt watch it anymore.i will watch it once i hear AR are about to get close or close to get unite.untill then i hve relly stopped watching dmg.wat i do i hve started to watch dmg from the 1st epoi.. and im soo happy atleast i get happy watchin it nt cry or get mad at any1 and i jst cant forget the old castin sooo if it relly hurts u watchin it stop.i nw it wld be hard for a few days trust me u will get used to it or watch the old epio...

that is exactly what i've been doing for past one month, i have been watching all my old favourite episodes
after reading the frustrating updates everyday, i watch few old episodes and i feel better...
agree with every word u said...i've watched it since 1st episode, and there is seriously no other show like DMG, but now its just unbearable!!!

Well said Niha ...👍🏼 exactly my thoughts ... I just visit the forum to know what happened in the series nowadays and really miss that joy and excitement that we used to feel after watching the episodes... yeah u guessed it right ... i did have the guts to stop watching it ... wherein I thought I could never do that... but the show has become so unbearable that had to... I miss it a lot though ... feel that something is missing from my life 😒

i know what u are talking about...i am one of the oldies too..i guess....i have been visiting this forum since 2007...since this show started and participating since..dont know...

Originally posted by: eveline

i know what u are talking about...i am one of the oldies too..i guess....i have been visiting this forum since 2007...since this show started and participating since..dont know...

it hurts...what used to be a safe haven has become something unrecognisable...all the characters have evolved into something else...most of the familiar ones are gone...the fun show is gone and its place is taken by something utterly ridiculous...and the members.....

i ask myself this question every day..why am i here ??? in the hopes that things will return to its original vintage days....its useless to hope but still some part of me is just not ready to give up ....in my own way i am trying to get it back...i know its a lost cause....guzra hua zamana aata nahin dubaara..

Eve I think we have to start accepting the fact that DMG is a lost case. I guess since its still on air, we're finding it hard to accept that and say farewell, but I'm beginning to feel that we ought to give up and move on.

Originally posted by: pooja6992

that is exactly what i've been doing for past one month, i have been watching all my old favourite episodes
after reading the frustrating updates everyday, i watch few old episodes and i feel better...
agree with every word u said...i've watched it since 1st episode, and there is seriously no other show like DMG, but now its just unbearable!!!

SO true the old epi are like stressbusters. ATleast after watching them i have a smile on my face.