The Damage Has Been Done....epi 4/26

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi everyone,

Even though there were no AR scenes or just Armaan scenes, I liked today's episode for a number of reasons:

1. Sid became a human from God today: The last few weeks we have seen Sid trying to act superhuman by first marrying a woman whom he didn't love just to save her honor, letting his wife decide whom she wants to select as a life partner, by being a silent observer to his wife's numaish in the hospital cafeteria, by letting his wife take marriage vows with Armaan, by showing his desire to sacrifice his love for Ridz's happiness, by sending the divorce papers so Ridz can be free of any bondages, by wishing Armaan a happy life with Ridz....the list goes on and on.

Now, was that all a farce? After watching today's episode, I can only conclude YES! Sid is human like anyone of us, but why this facade Sid? Why try to act mahaan when you are not?

When we all thought he married Ridz to save his honor, we were all touched, but in reality, he confessed that he married because he loved Ridz and wanted to be happy after marriage!

Ridz was right that even when he let her act as Armaan's wife for the benefit of 'other's in reality he was just testing her!

Now, he is the one who took the initiative to send the DP, then why is screaming at the top of his lungs that 'why did you do that Ridz?" Isn't he the one who told Armaan in the washroom, that Ridz will definitely sign the DP because he knows her well?

Isn't he the one who interpreted Ridz's silence to her confession that she still loves Armaan, then why have the audacity to refer to Ridz as her ex-boyfriend??

I don't know about Ridz, but for me the damage has been done Sid! I could never trust a character like you ever again in life. You are not what you seem.

I'd rather prefer a person like Armaan (even if unbiased) because Armaan never pretends to be who he is not. He still openly confesses his love for Ridz, but doesn't expect her to leave everything for him even if she loves him. If that were the case, he would have jumped with joy when Sid told him about the divorce, but instead he just quietly questioned the ways of destiny.

If Sid really wanted to stay married to Ridz, he should have confronted her way before the divorce papers, he should have told Ridz that "I love you and want to stay with you forever' Ridz as we know, had resigned to her fate, and would have willingly stayed in the marriage and tried her best to forget Armaan.

Now, even if because of extraneous factors, SR decide to stay married, the damage has been done. They were never bonded by deep everlasting type of love like spouses have, and now with shades of jealousy and mistrust creeping in their relationship, they would have the most dysfunctional marriage in the world...


2. Ridz finally showed signs of maturity:

After a long time, Ridz gave me a chance to admire her once again. She did not shed buckets of tears, she did not yell and scream, she did not blame anyone else. Instead, she acknowledged that she had taken decisions in her life just to please others and in that process had ended up hurting herself and the other person equally.

She was calm, determined and decisive. I am keeping my fingers crossed and hope that we will continue to see this determined Riddhima in future episodes. Looks like the CVs are really reading our posts lolz


I liked the way she respectfully asked her dad to back off and let her make her own decisions---for me that was the highlight of the episode.

Now, why did the Cvs repeat the terrace screaming scene with Sid...why do they force us to think of Sid as a 'me too' character every time? Why can't they give Sid his own identity and his own way of grieving?? Now is he going to imprint Ridz's names on walls or his arms or something??? Hope not because that would be against his character- he has never been a pagal deewana in love like armaan.


My wish for future..

1. When Sid says' ex boy friend' I really want Ridz to say : Don't insult my relationship with armaan by calling him an ex boyfriend! We all know what Armaan meant for Ridz...it's way above a tag of an ex boyfriend. That tag belittles their relationship. Please CVs, don't do that to AR.

2. Ridz DOESN'T GO BACK on her decision and signs all the papers- for her sake and also for Sid's sake because if they stay married, I am afraid Sid will not be able to tolerate being the second man in his wife's life.

3. Armaan doesn't start chasing Ridz once again. He needs to give her time after the divorce (if that happens-hope it does) and let her make the first move this time.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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thank god someone else obseved this and remarked on it tooo...i was made to feel a villian when i pointed this fact out in my post 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi Di, once again loved your analysis!

I didn't watch the Episode and don't indent to until they show some sense! But from reading your analysis, one thing is clear that yes Sid is a normal human being but with a hidden agenda! This has been proven many a time starting with his intention behind marrying Riddiham.

I am not saying anything about Riddhima and her decisions because she has the tendency of not sticking to them.

As for repeating the Armaan scenes with Sid, the CV have been doing this form the beginning of SR track, I am sorry to say this CV but you have failed to achieve what you wanted from doing all of this! Armaan is Armaan and cannot be replaced!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey
yeh...the damage has been done....I dont like Sid anymore and yes- beautifully written and I hope your wishes come true
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Posted: 15 years ago
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PS: the Ex-Boyfriend remark was beyond disgusting! And if I remember correctly Armaan was Riddhima's faience NOT boyfriend😕

I hope your predictions of Ridz reaction to this remark comes true!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: eveline

thank god someone else obseved this and remarked on it tooo...i was made to feel a villian when i pointed this fact out in my post 😊



well, eveline, i don't hesitate to call a spade a spade. A few days ago, i had criticized armaan also for not revealing the full truth to Ridz. Today, I cannot get over the fact that Sid has been dishonest with himself and with others for so long😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wonderfully put di...
armaan is armaan..armaan jaisa kohu nahin and he deserves every kind of his happiness in his life, and we all know his happiness is only and only riddhima...
and yeah it'd be an insult to AR relationship if Cvs ended up Riddhima accepting Armaan as her ex-boyfriend😔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey di very nice post..very beautifully written..i know di everyone here is thinking sid as villian or disguised person...byt today what i have is a different point of view...di we have always seen him trying act as mahaan but no it wasnt an act it was a way to show his wife that u can still rethink about going back to armaan...n i dont think he was acting mahaan in all this bcoz he just wanted that person's happiness...but yesterday wen he screamed out his pain,wen he said i didnt think u wud divorce me or leave me was completely natural bcoz she was the one who said she wanted to take this marriage as a sacchai...yes there are loopholes too sonewhere but yes yesterday i felt him being real n human...well i want sid to remain like this only...sid felt that she wont leave him from his heart but his mind said something else
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jaysean

Hey
yeh...the damage has been done....I dont like Sid anymore and yes- beautifully written and I hope your wishes come true



I feel the SR relationship can never be the same now...trust and faith have been lost
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaJenYaianSanju

wonderfully put di...

armaan is armaan..armaan jaisa kohu nahin and he deserves every kind of his happiness in his life, and we all know his happiness is only and only riddhima...
and yeah it'd be an insult to AR relationship if Cvs ended up Riddhima accepting Armaan as her ex-boyfriend😔



sanju, armaan never pretends to be mahaan...he has always accepted his flaws and never hidden his true feelings. That's why we admire him. Sid, by being dishonest has lost whatever respect I had for him

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