The Damage Has Been Done....epi 4/26 - Page 2

Originally posted by: psarada

It's really amazing how people want to selectively remember things. This actually shows that fans of one jodi want to see them together no matter what and even when the story if turned in their favor will be devoid of any logic and sensibility.

I don't want to debate on your points but I wanted to tell my POV. Sid is actually a great guy if you leave behind the AR Vs SR chants. It is very rare that you come across someone who not only changes himself for you but also becomes your sole support during your toughest times. Sid was and beyond that for Riddhima. Even then he never ever forced his wishes on her. Why is it wrong to wish that the person you love with all your heart return back the same love for you. If anyone got married and start loving their spouse then is it a big thing to expect the spouse to love them back the same way they are doing it. Why is that a crime when it comes to Sid. Why is it his biggest flaw when he said that he loved Riddhima and wanted to be happy. Of course he wanted to be happy with his wife. If anyone rewinds to the part wherein Sid and Yuvi had a conversation then Sid himself said that he himself didn't know where and when he started to like Riddhima and then he says very clearly that when there was no sign of Armaan ever returning back to their lives that's when and solely that's when Sid says he decided that maybe he and Riddhima can share a future together. So what's wrong with it. I must have seen countless topics which state that Sid is selfish blah blah because he destroyed the honor of a girl who was so madly in love with Armaan and then married her under pretext of restoring her dignity. But the truth is far from this. Sid never shouted Rape in front of Sanjeevani and that was solely Riddhima's doing. For that matter Sid needn't have disclosed the body heat thing that happened as when he did that he was doing it as a doctor and as a last resort to recover his patient. But he never hid anything from Riddhima and he even was ready to get arrested when Riddhima screamed Rape. He tells Shashank that he won't even protest the arrest. How many of us are willing to take a risk to bring a person back from death and moreover sacrifice our entire career because they think we have done some thing wrong. It takes guts for a person to do that and Sid was ready to do it for Riddhima's sake.

Now coming to the whole Armaan/DP controversy Sid always asked Riddhima what she wanted. He never forced the relationship on her. She was in fact free to walk away from Sid and to Armaan. But she didn't do it. So this can be taken in a way that she is falling for Sid. But did she ever disclose this fact to Sid. Did she ever say that yes Armaan was and is my past but I think I have come to a point that I can think of a future with you. No she never ever said this to Sid. All Madam could do and did do was to cry buckets and buckets of tears and run from the place. So what is Sid to assume. That Riddhima is getting suffocated due to her obligation to the marriage. If you were in that position you would feel terribly bad. Because here Sid is trying to love Riddhima but he knows that there is a greater chance of Riddhima going to Armaan and he losing her forever. But did he ever stop Riddhima. No. It is very rare to love a person when you know that the person may never ever love you with the same intensity. And we never choose the people we fall in love with. Same is with Sid. He never ever thought he would fall in love with Riddhima with this intensity. He was this happy go lucky person who took everything in fun way and now he sees that his love is walking off from him. Of course he was hurt. Of course he screamed. After all that is our basic way to let our grief pour out. And it is amazing that few weeks back when Armaan was letting out his grief in the same way after knowing Riddhima was married people were actually praising him. So how come Sid suddenly became villian for doing the same thing his way. This shows that people are color blind to Sid's grief. Sid has been equally hurt in the whole situation as Armaan if not more than him.

Riddhima if she understands the pain she has ever inflicted upon Sid in the beginning due to her hate mode and now due to her sorry sorry mode then I would be happy. For Riddhima to understand Sid, is gonna take ages and if Riddhima ever goes back to Armaan after what all she and Sid shared then sorry to say I would never ever have any respect for her. And I really wish that Sid gets all the happiness he deserves in his life that's because he is an angel in truest sense and if people can see it then it is solely because people are prejudiced towards him.

I know people will bash him left right center for this post but I felt I had to reply to this. If anyone wants to debate in constructive manner then they are welcome. If not please don't feel offended if I don't reply back. Peace out guys.

Originally posted by: psarada

It's really amazing how people want to selectively remember things. This actually shows that fans of one jodi want to see them together no matter what and even when the story if turned in their favor will be devoid of any logic and sensibility.

I don't want to debate on your points but I wanted to tell my POV. Sid is actually a great guy if you leave behind the AR Vs SR chants. It is very rare that you come across someone who not only changes himself for you but also becomes your sole support during your toughest times. Sid was and has been beyond that for Riddhima. Even then he never ever forced his wishes on her. Why is it wrong to wish that the person you love with all your heart return back the same love for you. If anyone got married and starts loving their spouse then is it a big thing to expect the spouse to love them back the same way they are doing it.

Why is that a crime when it comes to Sid. Why is it his biggest flaw when he said that he loved Riddhima and wanted to be happy. Of course he wanted to be happy with his wife. If anyone rewinds to the part wherein Sid and Yuvi had a conversation then Sid himself said that he himself didn't know where and when he started to like Riddhima and then he says very clearly that when there was no sign of Armaan ever returning back to their lives that's when and solely that's when Sid says he decided that maybe he and Riddhima can share a future together. So what's wrong with it. I must have seen countless topics which state that Sid is selfish blah blah because he destroyed the honor of a girl who was so madly in love with Armaan and then married her under pretext of restoring her dignity. But the truth is far from this. Sid never shouted Rape in front of Sanjeevani and that was solely Riddhima's doing. For that matter Sid needn't have disclosed the body heat thing that happened as when he did that he was doing it as a doctor and as a last resort to recover his patient. But he never hid anything from Riddhima and he even was ready to get arrested when Riddhima screamed Rape. He tells Shashank that he won't even protest the arrest. How many of us are willing to take a risk to bring a person back from death and moreover sacrifice our entire career because they think we have done some thing wrong. It takes guts for a person to do that and Sid was ready to do it for Riddhima's sake.

Now coming to the whole Armaan/DP controversy Sid always asked Riddhima what she wanted. He never forced the relationship on her. She was in fact free to walk away from Sid and to Armaan. But she didn't do it. So this can be taken in a way that she is falling for Sid. But did she ever disclose this fact to Sid. Did she ever say that yes Armaan was and is my past but I think I have come to a point that I can think of a future with you. No she never ever said this to Sid. All Madam could do and did do was to cry buckets and buckets of tears and run from the place. So what is Sid to assume. That Riddhima is getting suffocated due to her obligation to the marriage. If you were in that position you would feel terribly bad. Because here Sid is trying to love Riddhima but he knows that there is a greater chance of Riddhima going to Armaan and he losing her forever. But did he ever stop Riddhima. No. It is very rare to love a person when you know that the person may never ever love you with the same intensity. And we never choose the people we fall in love with. Same is with Sid. He never ever thought he would fall in love with Riddhima with this intensity. He was this happy go lucky person who took everything in fun way and now he sees that his love is walking off from him. Of course he was hurt. Of course he screamed. After all that is our basic way to let our grief pour out. And it is amazing that few weeks back when Armaan was letting out his grief in the same way after knowing Riddhima was married people were actually praising him. So how come Sid suddenly became villian for doing the same thing his way. This shows that people are color blind to Sid's grief. Sid has been equally hurt in the whole situation as Armaan if not more than him.

Riddhima if she understands the pain she has ever inflicted upon Sid in the beginning due to her hate mode and now due to her sorry sorry mode then I would be happy. For Riddhima to understand Sid, is gonna take ages and if Riddhima ever goes back to Armaan after what all she and Sid shared then sorry to say I would never ever have any respect for her. And I really wish that Sid gets all the happiness he deserves in his life that's because he is an angel in truest sense and if people can't see it then it is solely because people are prejudiced towards him.

I know people will bash him left right center for this post but I felt I had to reply to this. If anyone wants to debate in constructive manner then they are welcome. If not please don't feel offended if I don't reply back. Peace out guys.

Originally posted by: bheegi

2. Ridz finally showed signs of maturity:




I liked the way she respectfully asked her dad to back off and let her make her own decisions---for me that was the highlight of the episode.




My wish for future..

1. When Sid says' ex boy friend' I really want Ridz to say : Don't insult my relationship with armaan by calling him an ex boyfriend! We all know what Armaan meant for Ridz...it's way above a tag of an ex boyfriend. That tag belittles their relationship. Please CVs, don't do that to AR.

2. Ridz DOESN'T GO BACK on her decision and signs all the papers- for her sake and also for Sid's sake because if they stay married, I am afraid Sid will not be able to tolerate being the second man in his wife's life.

3. Armaan doesn't start chasing Ridz once again. He needs to give her time after the divorce (if that happens-hope it does) and let her make the first move this time.

Originally posted by: caprigurl

The best lines in your awesome post!

i love dthe way she said: kya aap apni beti ko ek normal life jeene ka haq nahin hai kya? That said it all and hope shanky got the message...she was not disrespectful but very firm and i loved it

Riddhima finally showed us she is a Independant woman if she want to be.
I guess its the actress herslef who must have thought- Hey I am not gonna act like a wallflower anymore :P

i hope so....i also wonder if they all read our posts😆

And i really want Riddhima to sign all the papers - no not becuase of my personal likes n dislikes- But because Sid will always suffer or no fault of is and feel the "second choice" , though after the tumutous and loveless relation they had i wonder whether he ever even was a second choice.
And yes Armaan needs to stay away and i guess he is doing exactly that- Notice how he maintains a distance from Riddhima, how he doesnt jump to saying anyting abt Riddhima n yesterday too he didnt feel happy abt the Divorce simply cos he is not the kind of person to be gleeful at someone else's misery- And on top of that there is the fact he believes that he really doesnt matter to Riddhima anymore- Marrriage or no marriage- A fact that Riddhima needs to shatter for her own benefit- We can see how miserable a life she has ever since she is denying her true feelings

And Sid is rightly angry at her for sending it to Armaan- but then as Riddhima says- Shuruaat tumne ki thi. He always should have known this was coming in some way or the aother!

yes, Sid should be honest to himself and to others in his life

Originally posted by: bheegi

I feel the SR relationship can never be the same now...trust and faith have been lost