kabhie kabhie sexena parivaar...

kaa bey!
Kabhie kabhie aisa lagta hain ke saxena parivaar krishna ki family ki tarha uneducated hain. What do they say 'parhay likhay jahil?'
I am saying this after watching todays episode. I felt that it was really out of manners for adarsh to talk about family's personal problem in front of roli who is a mere outsider. Komal was justified in saying that they shouldnt discuss family issues in front of an outsider. Even though Roli was with them throughout the pre marriage situation but now pratigya is married and gone to her sasural and so is adarsh married as well. So why the heck roli comes to their place
And arushi is shown as a hardworking student who studies but she is shown to lack good manners.
And i have noticed this in not only today's episode but also in previous episodes

Sorry no offence to anyone. Totally my POV. And nothing against any actor personally please :) you guys are doing great job

yea thats what i feel too... Saxena parivaar sirf educated hain.. unko asl zindagi main kya hota hai kuch nahi pata hai... bas kitaabi log hain... agar aap ke ghar main nayi bahu aayi hai toh phir maatam kyun mana rahe hain aur adarsh ko bhi kuch nahi sikhaya hai ke apni patni se kaise baat karte hain.....i don't blame komal at all.... no offense but this is the truth... half the time i jus fast forward the saxena house parts because it seems too depressing... i love the sajan singh parivaar as they atleast behave nicely with pratigya... well by nicely i mean that they welcomed her and all rituals were done with lots of celebration.... no offense once again... but this is what i feel...

Originally posted by: twice

Totally agree. How about the fact that the family is always depressed and with a new bahu, they act around depressed. They are always bad mouthing Komal. They should see that Komal is firstly very young and immature and talks like that because thats how she has been brought up. Unless they try to talk nicely to her and explain things differently, how will she learn. Komal is right in saying that no one talks to her properly in that house.
On top of it they are criticizing their damad. How will Shyam Sax feel when he comes to know both his children are knowingly harming their marriages and insulting their spouses.

Komal was loyal to her Krisna bhaiya😃. Good for her! She stepped in and got the whole family's attention in one sentence. Why badmouth the damad of the house to an outsider? Thank goodness the dadi didn't add her two cents worth with her rude comments. Arushi lacks manners. Other than Pratigya she never has a nice thing to say about anyone. She is dadi's granddaughter after all.

Adarsh is a disappointment too.😳 Ever since he and Pratigya married into the Takur family they seem to have developed an attitude. Neither are listening to their parents advice to make their marriages work for their own sakes in the long run. But the behudas are bent on revenge. What else are they doing to do in their marriages besides getting their revenge? Immature behudas!😆

In yesterday's episode, Adarsh invited Krishna to come to the house as an afterthought after he asked Pratigya. That was rude! Krishna was right to leave, after all he has his Takur pride too. The Saxena siblings are showing their insensitivity and rude behavior one too many times recently. Komal is right to stand up to them and speak up. They sure need a Takur woman to set them straight and call on their unacceptable behavior.😉😆
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Originally posted by: *queenme*

yea thats what i feel too... Saxena parivaar sirf educated hain.. unko asl zindagi main kya hota hai kuch nahi pata hai... bas kitaabi log hain... agar aap ke ghar main nayi bahu aayi hai toh phir maatam kyun mana rahe hain aur adarsh ko bhi kuch nahi sikhaya hai ke apni patni se kaise baat karte hain.....i don't blame komal at all.... no offense but this is the truth... half the time i jus fast forward the saxena house parts because it seems too depressing... i love the sajan singh parivaar as they atleast behave nicely with pratigya... well by nicely i mean that they welcomed her and all rituals were done with lots of celebration.... no offense once again... but this is what i feel...

What a contrast between the families? Saxenas are depressed when their two kids got married, Komal was right they were moping around as if something terrible had happened. They live in the past, complaining and bent on hating and wanting revenge. What a way to live!

Sajjan Singh's parivar may be illiterate and uncivilized and highly dysfunctional but we know they love baba and Komal a lot in their own ways. They live in the present moment instead of plotting to make people pay for past mistakes. They celebrated their children's weddings with joy.

At first it looked like the Sajjan parivar could learn a thing or two from the Saxenas. But recently seems like they need to teach them a few basics. Saxenas are boring to watch, Komal makes it worth watching, you never know what she is going to say next.

Her convo. with Adarsh about why his jhootha had no punkas was hilarious.😆

yea exactly.. it really is a contrast... and it also proves that education is important but not the end of the world... i mean experiences do shape a person as well..... sajan singh has way more life experience than professor sahab....and yes, i too love the komal scenes.. shes a great actress... :)

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Komal was loyal to her Krisna bhaiya😃. Good for her! She stepped in and got the whole family's attention in one sentence. Why badmouth the damad of the house to an outsider? Thank goodness the dadi didn't add her two cents worth with her rude comments. Arushi lacks manners. Other than Pratigya she never has a nice thing to say about anyone. She is dadi's granddaughter after all.

Adarsh is a disappointment too.😳 Ever since he and Pratigya married into the Takur family they seem to have developed an attitude. Neither are listening to their parents advice to make their marriages work for their own sakes in the long run. But the behudas are bent on revenge. What else are they doing to do in their marriages besides getting their revenge? Immature behudas!😆

In yesterday's episode, Adarsh invited Krishna to come to the house as an afterthought after he asked Pratigya. That was rude! Krishna was right to leave, after all he has his Takur pride too. The Saxena siblings are showing their insensitivity and rude behavior one too many times recently. Komal is right to stand up to them and speak up. They sure need a Takur woman to set them straight and call on their unacceptable behavior.😉😆
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Atleast krishna, shakti and komal listen to sajjan singh. Par arushi and adarsh especially suntay hi nahiin hain. They dont pay heed to anything! And saxena and uski aurat (lol) neh bht sar par charha rakha hain apnay bacho ko! Badtameezi kartay hain tou koi daanth bhi nahiin parti. Atleast thakur ki family main lecture milta hain krishna ya shakti ko whenver they cross the line.
Educated log learn to forget and forgive and try to adjust in the given resources magar yahan tou kuch ulta hi scene hain
In one word ' BEHOODA!!!! ' :)

Originally posted by: *queenme*

yea thats what i feel too... Saxena parivaar sirf educated hain.. unko asl zindagi main kya hota hai kuch nahi pata hai... bas kitaabi log hain... agar aap ke ghar main nayi bahu aayi hai toh phir maatam kyun mana rahe hain aur adarsh ko bhi kuch nahi sikhaya hai ke apni patni se kaise baat karte hain.....i don't blame komal at all.... no offense but this is the truth... half the time i jus fast forward the saxena house parts because it seems too depressing... i love the sajan singh parivaar as they atleast behave nicely with pratigya... well by nicely i mean that they welcomed her and all rituals were done with lots of celebration.... no offense once again... but this is what i feel...

Lol whenever i watch it on youtube i even forward their parts. Bus yehen soch kar ke ' dukh sukh ke log and all the time complaining . Jaise ke wohi duniya main sab se ziyada parhay likhay and dukh main hain. Addhi duniya ke paas khana nahiin hain and unko apni pari huwi hain! Lol ;)

Originally posted by: sarapattinson

Atleast krishna, shakti and komal listen to sajjan singh. Par arushi and adarsh especially suntay hi nahiin hain. They dont pay heed to anything! And saxena and uski aurat (lol) neh bht sar par charha rakha hain apnay bacho ko! Badtameezi kartay hain tou koi daanth bhi nahiin parti. Atleast thakur ki family main lecture milta hain krishna ya shakti ko whenver they cross the line.
Educated log learn to forget and forgive and try to adjust in the given resources magar yahan tou kuch ulta hi scene hain
In one word ' BEHOODA!!!! ' :)

Bullseye! The Saxenas wear their education like a badge of honor when they want to put down the Takurs for behaving like jaanvars. I liked it when Krishna told the Professor on two occasions .......... accused him of goonde mavali harthaken while Adarsh tried to stab him. When he lectured on calling late, he turned the table on Prof. and said a day will come when you'd want to talk to your daughter too. There was truth in both of Krishna's statements. He may be illiterate but at times he shows more common sense in his answers than behuda Adarsh and annoying Arushi.

Yesterday the convo. between Arushi and Komal was like eating halwa. Nice to see get a taste of her own medicine. Arushi doesn't think before she talks. I guess being young is her excuse. She is disrespectful and mean to Komal, never has a kind thing to say. Nainaji is the best in that household followed by the Professor. She puts Arushi in her place, lovingly.

Did anyone else find it hilarious that Nainaji dragged Adarsh by the hand and asked him to apologize to Komal like a little kid who had a playground fight and was asked to apologize and say sorry. Nainaji was the star for the day, she's the best one in the family though she cried a river a while ago. She is smiling again now that Komal is back where she belongs. Adarsh is so immature he needs to grow up soon, esp. with a wife like Komal who won't let him ignore her😆. She nags him till he gives her the attention.