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Posted: 15 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: suchitra_1



Its not like I do not understand where Krishna is coming from... its just that... I get ticked off when people support him "no matter what" types. and even that , i could be like -what ok what ever-roll eyes- ignore ...

But when they go ahead and start bashing pratigya and saying oh she should give in , she should go ahead and sleep, she should just shut up and take what ever c#$& that man is throwing agianst her. Basically blaming her for EVERYTHING really really ticks me off.

: S its just that I know what abuse is my friends have gone through this, women of family members I know personally have gone through this its not pretty.

you should hear their cries, they lack of ability to anything, thier majboori, their defeated face, and they go through this all their lives via their Fathers, Brothers, Husbands and finally their sons.

I mean they just lost hope in living. Getting emotionally abused every day, getting hit, then they have to sleep with their abusing husbands cause they want to take their right.

So some members had the audacity to say, she should have gotten kicked like how SS kicks his wife???
Some said its good he should ignore her and she will know his worth, what worth, what physical desire she is missing? seriously... People should think even if it is fake story but these characters speak out LOUDLY and narrate lives of many like them

:S

hey ok im sooo busy these days so cant come on much at all he he so late reply.
hmmm i know there are some die hard fans of krishna who just arent ready to see ANY of his flaw cuz they just blindly love him 😳 but se hun ur not seeing any of his good qualities either cuz ur blinded by hatred/dislike against krishna thats why ur callin his affection as lust.
i agree hes tareeka of showing his love and expectations might be wrong ATM but u cant call it lust cuz before marrige he had NEVER tried to touch prats ever....so how can it be lust.
i also dont agree tht just cuz ur his wife its a must tht u sllep with him...no, its about ur dignity and self respect about lettin some1 get intimate with you...you cant just let them do it cuz they are your husband, she should first love him back first too.
: S its just that I know what abuse is my friends have gone through this, women of family members I know personally have gone through this its not pretty.

you should hear their cries, they lack of ability to anything, thier majboori, their defeated face, and they go through this all their lives via their Fathers, Brothers, Husbands and finally their sons.
I mean they just lost hope in living. Getting emotionally abused every day, getting hit, then they have to sleep with their abusing husbands cause they want to take their right.

im really sorry to hear about tht,,,hmmm i know there are still so many disgusting people who do this,,,

and iv also said this soooo many times all over tht wat he did on the suhaag raat thing was dread,,,she wasnt ready yet,,,so just comfort her first man init.
but then again he did tht in a fit of rage (which i am not justifyin hands down it was completely wrong) but i also know that all prats will have to do is approach him in a childlike manner and he'll be ready to do anything for her, it'll be wrong to compare him to the horried men ur describin.
anyway its ur opinion juct want u to know not to take everything too seriously in this forum as we all get a bit carried away and blinded in krishnas love 😆
just hope krishna could soon show comething to make you beleive it really is LOVE tht he feels for prats😳

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Posted: 15 years ago
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i like the point krishna is a child who needs to be taught like a baby. from today episode i was very surprised at the sense of request in his voice rather than his threat to demand something of her. and did you guys notice he said pyar again, he didnt want anyone to make fun of his love. that is just great i thought after the honeymoon disaster he might not be saying that word for a long time to come. but it seems like he let go of his vow to not do anything for her and come back to defeated mode again.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@loveanime...agree he was kind of requesting Pratigya not to tell the family abt there affairs.....

Good he let go of his vow...he has to, else there relation is just going to be stagnated.....cause pratigya wont make a move after the nightmare episode...and i would'nt blame her either....

Would love to see Krishna repenting his actions soon....cause its gonna take a long time before Pratigya ever forgives him
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Posted: 15 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: suchitra_1



So... according to the above made point means that if soemone was brought up wrong hten, if he does mistakes then that has to be forgiven.
(Nooooo.................. but they shld be given a chance to redeem themselves)

So lets look at serial killers, rapists, they have been usually abused as a child and have gone through psycological trauma a LOT so
(Every one deserves a chance to be redeemed
that is why most countries have banned capital punishment. If someone does such things because mental illness they undergo treatment)

IF they RAPE and MURDER some one's Sister, Mother< Daughter its ok
because

Hey , he is

a) Handsome
B) Oh, I love the way he says I lub you muah muah kiss kiss
( Nooooo.............., I think that Krishna fans can identify the goodness in his character. If just good looks could make you luv a stalker than we would have loved John Abhram's character in Aetbaar or SRK in Darr but I don't think anyone did. There isn't an ounce of evil in Krishna and he has never done anything with an intention of hurting Pratigya)

The girls who go through this , who cares about them. THey deserve it because , why were they born beautiful in the first place.


They should realise that people who " have gone through a lot and brought up wrong" are all over the society so,

they should look at the mirror, these girls and burn their faces or , totally discard it somehow, make themselves look ugly, because such wolves will attack such girls but hey its not the wolf's fault, thats their nature. (Nooo.............. no girl don't deserve it and we sympathsize with women who have to go thro' such ordeal. Unfortunately this is one of the evils which exists in this world besides many others like homicide, drug addiction, female infanticide etc)

not to forget they are soo handsome.

WHAT THE >....



Sorry for the add ons and i hope you don't mind.
Now i have mentioned this on another post thgt i will mention it here also along the lines of what Asthuox said
Krishna didn't do the right thing yesterday and don't want to justify his act. I just understand where he is coming from. I have always stressed on one thing since i have joined this forum he was brought up in an environment where he has never seen anyone respect women.

We all know Rudyard Kipling wrote The Jungle Book on a boy who was brought up by wolves and behaved like one till he goes to the man-village. So it goes without saying nurture does make the person you are.

On top of his horrible bringing, he was treated with coldness and total disregard by a person he loves the most. He was hurt by the fact that for the person for whom he is ready to change himself , fight with his family and is even ready to die for wldn't even talk politely to him.

How wld one feel if a person has gone against everything he has has been taught and has believed in and all that is in vain (I am not saying the feeling of luv shld be reciprocated but how difficult is it to be polite to a person even if you hate him or her).




Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: suchitra_1



Seriously , its sad to see such mentality around here ( I think its a bit rude to pass judgment abt other people's mentality just because they like a charcter from a story. It will be polite if we keep our discussions to the characters)
really sad.

If we do not stand up for whats right, how can we expect fairness in this world? (Decision abt what is Right or wrong cannot be made in isolation. That is why we have court cases which just don't look into whether any deed is wrong or right but also the circumstances under which it was done and then pass the judgment.)

DO people forget how he made her and her family's lives miserable? (So Prats reciprocated it by marrying him for revenge so that she cld make is life miserable, torture him. does that make her a bigger person?)

If her dad did succeed, Krishna would have eventually done with Angad did. That is kidnap her, Rape her and say (That we will never know so i think it is wrong to make such assumptions)

I lub you.

Why didn't he do it on suhaag raat?
I say it was his house, and how would it look if people in his house in front of whom he claimed that pratigya married him cause of love, and so much drama he did in front of them to get married, if they realise that pratigya cares dirt about him. ( I think the kind of family he has who believe in might is right and women are only to bare children wld have applaused him for such an act. So I really don't think he stopped just because it wld be embarassing in front of his family

It would hurt his male ego so he tried other ways of getting her (Again any person blinded by ego finds it difficult to differentiate between good and bad so if he was egoistic he wld have raped her then and there to scar her for life).

and if he is going to ignore her and even look at her because, she hit him on the nail (No......., because he was hurting and was in pain and has self- pride not ego) She gave in... and said you are raping me. So he according to me is trying another tactic now to show her that I do not care about your body (He really doesn't care abt her body but he surely wld want to share a physical relation with the person he luvs which is quite normal)

Pratigya could have easily had a wonderful life (I doubt that. If Krishna had shown no interest in her Angad wld have raped her. Lets not forget he kidnapped her when Krish' attention was all in convincing his father to agree to the marriage)

Even if she lived with a poor guy, who respected her and loved her (What can I say Krish genuinely luvs her will soon learn to respect her once he starts reflecting on his actions. There is hope for that guy).


Again sorry for the add- on
Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: krishna_chalbo


Again sorry for the add- on



U sed IT ALL GAL....👏 👏 👏 👏 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: NZ_rockx



U sed IT ALL GAL....👏



Thank you, Well what can i say learnt it from Apna Baba Jo Dil ko Accha Lagta Hai Wo Bol Do 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: suchitra_1




(Sorry in advance as i will add in your post again) Based on someone's point of view hum kithna kuch keh dethay hain. (We say something based on our point of view not someone elses)

I am not against anyone.. for stating their support or reasoning for Krishna.. I am against their attitude and understanding. (I think people who like Krish's character have all condemned his act of violence and never appluased him for that. We don't blindly support every action of his. Making an assumption that most of his fan base is women i think we all feel Prats pain like you do. But along with that we just say that we understand where Krish is coming from)

So I havent disrespected anyone but definitly raised my voice agianst taht kind of mentality. (Making comments like 'it is sad to see such mentality' is showing disrespect)

Like I stated above Who cares about where he came from... and how he was raised. He is mistreating Pratigya and thats the end of the story. (Yes people do care where u come from and how you were brought up. That is why when someone does something wrong we all pass the comment : Is that what your parents have taught you? They poor guys has only seen ill-treatment towards women and a total disregard of their existence. He has been taugt women shld never be allowed to talk and a man who respects women is not man enough )

IF he ends up loving her, being nice to her what ever. That will not erase what he did. The reality is , he hurt her and made her life and her family's life miserable. (Trust me it will erase everything as they say time is a big healer. For most people as time goes on the pain fades and you end up forgiving the person who has wronged you not saying you fall in love with the person)

If people here are waiting for Pratigya to get raped and then only say , oh yeah Krishna , why did you do that,
oyu are soo bad... then I am sorry, (I don't think people who like Krish's character are sadist by nature that they will relish in Pratds pain. If they were they wld b Angads fan not his)

That is the most disgusting understanding I have come accross.

I say
Thank God she is not raped yet. (God has nothing to do with it. It was Krishna's decision)

If a woman is raped, its done with done done,... finished khalas in what ever that time span is. She can even let go of that may be ( I do not know who can ever but May be) (I agree with you a woman who has to go thro such an ordeal is scared for her life and will find it very difficult to live a normal life and it is very sad that there a many women who go throu that)

But Pratigya has to live in humiliation all her life every day under this guy whom she hates (It was her choice). She cannot get out and get a divorce casue he will kill her family (I think if he wanted to kill someone in that rage he wld want to kill Prats) and she dosen't want him to die too because, unfortunately she cares about lives. This is why she said I love you , this is why she smiled
not because she is confusing him, because he threatened to hurt others. (If she had shown such maturity and sensitivity (I am not saying she shld luv him) towards Krishna the situation wldn't have gone out of control)

So I am sorry , I do not want to... wait... until Pratigya is finally raped and 'shown her place, by Krishna' rather I want to support her saying, full swing ahead girl, (Well we all know that won't happen as Krish's has decided he will not even look at her forget touching)

Torture him (and be his equal rather than rising above the situation)

Show him hatered beyond what he has seen (and live a bitter life)

What can he do most? Rape didn't pratigya just say that to him..that fine go ahead but what you will do is rape. (I think one looses appeal even for the most beutiful thing in this world if its full of venom )


PROPS to my GIRL PRatigya 👏 👏 👏

Edited by krishna_chalbo - 15 years ago

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