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Posted: 15 years ago
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Good stuff!

Some parents need to learn to stop being selfish!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#12
Wow di kya topic banaya aap ney....

Sach mein di..... this one was very much needed..... parents can take decisoin for their childresn.. lekin asa decisoin nahi jab unki beti ya beta zindagi. ulat palat hojayi.... aur asa may.. hum jab apni zindagi ka chapter kolaingay.. we could never c our own life there instead. we would get to c our parents living our life....

Parents are important n they have the tight to take decisions.. but asa decision nahi jab yeh jantay huwa bhi ki uski beti ki kushi kisi aur ki saath hai..

I just want Armaan to hold Riddhima tight n say ki Riddhima sab teek hojaya.. jab tak mein tumara saath hoon kuch galth nahi hosaktha aur tuamy apni hirsay ka pura kushi milleyga aur woh tumay mein dooinga. baki ki zindai tumay kisi bhi cheez karney mein mein force nahi karoinga... tum apni zindagi jee sakthi hoo. woh bhi kushi kushi...



Hopefully, We will hear a dialogue from Shanky:
Mujhey aaj ehsaas hua hai ki apni beti ki khushi ka sabse badha dushman main hoon

i'll be waitng for the day to here this.


Edited by ishwariya - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
#13
Awesome post once again Di

Riddhima was first forced to get married and now forced to stay in the marriage.A forced decision never succeeds,its bound to be a failure.He is indeed the biggest enemy of Riddhima.

When she is trying to move away from all this mess and sort out things for herself,he comes back and pushes her back in the mess.What kind of father is he!

She needs someone to hug her and say everything will be alright but all her dearest father does is force her again.

Armaan is indeed the only person in this world who loves Riddhima unconditionally without expecting anything in return.Riddhima can never be happy with anyone else but Armaan.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#14
Parental pressure is something most of us have 2 suffer from n we generally succumb 2 it...mainly because we feel it's our way 2 pay back 2 our parents for their love n support....but we forget that at d end of d day our parents just want us 2 be happy...they make some decisions for us thinking about our good but if we feel it's not right then we need 2 speak up...some of us listen 2 whatever they say quietly n lead our life according 2 their wishes n at d end of d day...our life is full of regrets...n no one is happy neither us nor our parents...

coming 2 d show...Dr shashank needs 2 give Riddhima some space 2 decide for herself...first forcing her 2 marry Sid n then forcing her 2 stay in d marriage will only increase her miseries...I don't know why he is acting in this way...can't he see her pain...can't he see that she is on d verge of a mental breakdown...if not as a parent he should understand her state as a doctor...

I love d way u wrote this post...awesome👏

Love
Moni
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Posted: 15 years ago
#15
Parental pressure never works!
Agreed!!
The times have changed n now
No one should forced there childrens.
Shanky should also ask Ridz now before the time was different Armaan was not their now the time has changed n Armaan had left only becoz of Ridz happiness.
He still luv's her n even she luv's him from the Bottom of her heart.
Shanky u have pressured Ridz onces in marrying sid before but now she has a right to take her own decision n she luv's Armaan n u also know tat so y r u ruining u're daughters lyf,u being a father should think of u're daughters khushi.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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love u for this......what better an example than the 3 idiots....and what better examples from real day lives after the board results are out?...student jumped and killed herself because could not lived up to her parents expectations of getting 90%+ in exams.....boy found hanging for not clearing medical exam because father wanted him to become a doc....we have many examples in real life too !! wish the parents could understand their children and let them(the children) live their life..not live their own ambitions thru their children !!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#17
I agree beeghi Di! Parent's don't alway's know what's best for their kid's. I mean most parent's want their kid's to be happy, right? Then what kind of a parent is Shashank who forces his daughter to marry someone she doesn't love and also keep's her from getting a divorce when he clearly sees that she isn't happy?!
You're right, I hope the CV's show something different this time! I hope Shashank let's his daughter make her own decision, for once!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#18
agreed respect and love for one' s parents in its place...and care and concern in it's place...but...it is wrong to make your child's decision like this...its too controlling...and to an extent is more about shashanks ego and pride than ridhimma's happiness.... which is why it is wrong
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Posted: 15 years ago
#19
good post di

u brought very good point of it
i hope cv's understand what we feel

why don't u join them
the show will become much better and more sensible

force thing never work and that is a truth
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Posted: 15 years ago
#20
Agreed Bheegi di lovely post no doubt parents always best for kids but when society's pressure gets around it becomes tough its totally proving shashank is worried what society will think if SR gets divorced that's why he wants them to work out he really doesn't want to think about what Ridhima really wants Khandan ki izzat, parents pressure, and society's thinking won't make Ridz mahan in front of people's eyes can't believe this was the DMG we appericiated and let into our lives this is about believe in yourself and go with what your heart says not what people tell you to do wiht your life it makes me more positive about AR getting together in the end...
Edited by -PZlicious- - 15 years ago

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