Jyoti tells Kabir she WON'T marry ANYBODY 2nd time

1. Obey Padma completely by stopping to see Kabir. The only way she can do that is by quitting Bhagya-da's group. Oh, and stop writing Basu's column - after all, the next time he asks her to a public forum, what will she do? Say something that's bound to offend some people, since there are people on all sides of an issue, and that'll make Padma & Poonam have a haemorrage. Of course, that way, she stops earning anything for the family, and then Padma can bitch about how she's a burden, and Poonam will question why any of Deepu's money (from his next job) would go into supporting her, the way it does Sushma. But if Jyoti does this, she should stop telling others anything, and just keep to herself. Or she can join that women's org, but the pay is still unknown, and is probably peanuts.
   
2. Read Padma the riot act. Tell her that she has to work, and Kabir is a partner of Bhagya-da, so not seeing him is out of the question. Also, there is nothing that can be done about perceptions. If Padma wants her to earn for the family, she'll have to accept this. Or else, do options 1 or 3.
3. Tell Padma that she's leaving this house again, so that she's no longer a source of embarrassment to her family, and also, Padma no longer has any jurisdiction over what she does. Move out of the house, assess Kabir and then determine how she wants to proceed in a relationship w/ him. At any rate, living alone in a new studio or something has got to be better for her than living w/ a family, where KK can only teach her idealism, while the others just carp on her.

Move out of the house.

She better do it soon. I cant believe the Sharmas creating such a drama for no reason. When they need money, they want her. Do they expect her to work in an all women organisation and wear a burkha while going out so no man would look at her and show his interest towards her? Not even one member in her own family came forward to support her friendship with Kabir. Shame on KK who is sitting there like a dumb guy.

If Jyoti sits at home, blame her as a burden..if she goes out to do work and accidentally befriend some guy, blame her for bringing shame to the family... after all, what does this money minded Padma want? Grrrr... Why cant Padma try to find a job for herself so she could support the family. She could make pasta (in a variety of shapes n sizes) and sell it just outside her house "pasta khaao mast hojao"... When a man comes to buy it , she can hide behind her ghoongat and serve it by not looking at him or talking to him .. lol.

Jyoti should leave her house. Dating Kabir is secondary. Once she is out of the house, atleast she will be free to live her life. In a society/world of criminals who have done unforgivable crimes, what Jyoti has done or doing can not even be compared to a mosquito bite . And its funny to see the neighbours/Deepu's colleagues jumping up and down for such a simple thing... Shame on those ladies who came home to ask Jyoti a favour. What right does a stranger have to ask who the visitor is.. I think , this happens only in "JYOTI"... hehehe..

Originally posted by: ojii

Even i think that jyoti should leave her family😳. and stay alone.😛 because the family members does not deserve such a caring daughter or sister except her father and sudha . no body cares about her why she is upset, why she is tensed 😡.
they only know their happiness and not hers that is why during the day of her divorce she only informed her father and no body else in the family😲