what is the big hurry?

I feel that Kabir's entry in to the show 'Jyothi ' is a hasty one. What is the big hurry to bring another (3rd) man in to Jyothi's life? Her divorce with Pankaj is not even 15days old, Kabir enters. His acting and manerisms are good but his forcing himself in to jyothi's house, over freindly behaviour with elders and youngsters ignoring the mental turmoil they were undergoing , is not justified. Does Jyothi have no other work except getting involved with some guy or other ? Infact it isin a girl's hands to keep everybody at a distance. The idea is of the creatives aspiration for higher TRPs.

I normally support women being successful on their own, no man involved in their lives, and Jyoti looked like a good candidate for it @ the start of the show. However, problem w/ leaving her single is that it leaves open the door for Pankaj to re-enter when he finds out about cm & Brij, and thereby, it also leaves open the door for Jyoti to resume getting abused. And since Jyoti is pregnant, her case for not re-uniting w/ him if she didn't have anybody is actually weaker: yeah, she may not want to re-unite, but her baby too would need a father.

Given that, I like Kabir's entry. Yeah, his personality may seem strange, but not everybody in the world is cut out the way the Sharmas are - and let's face it, behind that facade of being a highly cultured family, they are really a highly dysfunctional one. They desperately need a bull in the china shop who would shake them up and point out to them (if indirectly) the errors of their ways, so that they (or at least some of them) can clean up their acts going forward.

But I'd like more parallel tracks every week, if not in every episode. Here is what I'd like to see covered:

• Jyoti & Kabir and the dance program
  
• Sushma's studies, and her interactions w/ Sarika
• Deepu & Poonam - show some romance, please
• Pankaj & Neelam - show how they get along
• Brij & Bhairavi - he didn't hesitate to visit Sushma 2 days in a row, so show him call Bhairavi @ least 3 times a week
• Uday & Sudha - please, re-start their romance, and let not every conversation b/w them be about Jyoti, CM or Pankaj, but about each other

That would surely make this more interesting. I don't want to see Padma or CM bellyache about Jyoti all the time.