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Okaay so general pointers on today's episode
-The last shot shows both Armaan and Sid tearfully staring out towards the route that Riddhima just took, leaving both of them behind. What is to come now? Obviously the guys feel sorry for Riddhima, notice the hurt equally depicted by their faces when she said the line "shayad mere naseeb mein khushi hai hi nahi"-emotional atyachar much Dr. Riddhima?
The idea of "choice" was prominent from the beginning, the choice=
2 years of true love, but alas separation sadly on the day of the engagement to symbolise their bond?
or a marriage made in obnoxious circumstances yet a compulsion to stay together actually generated genuine understanding and respect?
Hands down, both stories share the same amount of happiness and sadness but such is life...the balance again has rocked to make Riddhima's apparent decision easier where she now "realises" that both men have treated her with the same neglect...it is ironic though, you'd think
-a) Armaan left because he was mentally unstable and did not want Riddhima to have to bear the burden of treating an Armaan she was not used to seeing
-Riddhima counters that if he had enough belief in their love he would have understood that she would have stuck with him through thick and thin-touche!
b) Sidster was also lovestruck and blinded by the selflessness of his own conscience, why should I impose the marriage on her now that Armaan is back, I will do the good deed, strangle the aspirations of my own heart and send her away so that she can be happy...
-Riddhima says: nope! Wrong! We are married and we wanted to start a new life together, by sending me away you have proven that we, in fact, do not want the same thing....
Such is love, makes people do crazyyy things, and that is what was portrayed today, I remember Sant Siddhant Modi jis line:
" khabie khabie hum doosron ko mana ne ke liye bauhaut kuch karte hai, par humara bauhat kuch kisi ke liye kam hi hota hai"
..very well said. đ No matter how much SidMaan were crushed and sick with themselves over the decision they had to make concerning Riddhima, in the end she was never going to be grateful.
We as DMGians find ourselves torn between the two parties, we are Riddhima (essentially), and there exist neutral beings such as myself who stand for Team SidMaan, I feel it is a trait I get from my mother, I have always been an indecisive person, unable to choose, even if I celebrate with the winner, you will always find me giving a conciliatory hug to the loser. And the same applies here....I find it rude and selfish of Riddhima to run up to Sid and saying all these hurtful things to him, not giving a second to consider the reasoning for his actions. Admiteddly, the sense of rejection is back, the whole "he doesn't appreciate me as his wife so he falsely led me to Armaan" etc etc. I would probably feel the same....but to an extent, miscommunication is a MASSIVE fault in the DMG storyline at the minute. When one asks questions they should also be capable of listening to the answers.
Again, I feel for Armaan. And I don't agree with Riddhima's treatment of him whatsoever. The Sid-Riddhima fans out there must support. And why? I shall explain...Riddhima has every right to be angry with Armaan, he left her. twice. For her own good or not that is besides the point, he left her. I accept.
He comes back cured, fit and fine to claim his basket (haha) But alas the situation is not all that it seems. We can understand Riddhima's discomfort at the situation but she had many options of which I will illustrate the most obvious and less upsetting scenario:
a) she acts moody with Armaan for a day or two, then explains that they cannot be together because she is married.
Hard? Nope.
Instead, this is what happened- She very nearly kisses him in the FE= i.e. she is blameworty of being hypocritical. If Sid pushed Riddhima towards Armaan, Riddhima clearly failed to have willpower to stop it either, instead she pretty much strung Armaan along! It does take two to tango right?
Again, why the mistreatment after Armaan has stopped trying to pursue her? At the time she was more guilt ridden than anything hence the avoidance and insults but now? He has found out the truth does not want to intervene in her life,
Armaan clearly said "Agar usne mujhe batadiya hota ke tumhari shaadi hogayi hai, to na hi main yahaan hota aur nahi maine uspar haath uthaya hota".....
It seems that even two years with Armaan was not enough for Riddhima to win her over, it took her less time to think nothing of him. Please learn to be courteous Riddhima!
A ardent fan of DMG, I bear witness to both AR and SR's relationship, therefore the words that left Riddhima's mouth whilst she spoke about Armaan were quite horrific. She loved the guy for heavens sake, even if she was annoyed that he left her it does not justify her degrading remarks about the guy. You could tell from Armaan's one expression how stung he was upon hearing Riddhima say such things about him.
However, she has acted this way before, she has conveyed how ungracious she is of "good deeds" with the prime example of Dr. Shashank as a father who adopeted her that it was only time before Armaan was the next to face her wrath. I would say Sid was next in line, but I think the whole "hypothermia/body heat" controversy ticks the box with a "been there done that"...he saved her life and what resulted was a public exclamation of rape in the middle of the Sanjeevani. Today Sid probably experienced deja vu, doing something only for Riddhima's benefit and in return all she generates is disappointment. Ouch.
Erm........I conclude with my own opinion that I feel for SidMaan, I don't actually know which should be with Riddhima because I don't understand her today. Maybe tomorrow's episode will change my opinion of her, I sincerely pray to god. Else for me...myeah... SidMaan might aswell get together and that would be enough-they clearly share similiar (if not the same) tasteđđł
Thank you for reading! Over and out x
P.s. No bashing sil vous plait! And....I am confused with the precap, both SidMaan leave Riddhima and head in opposite directions, does this mean she is making a choice? or her choice is not to make a choice? ....(clearly puzzled)
-The last shot shows both Armaan and Sid tearfully staring out towards the route that Riddhima just took, leaving both of them behind. What is to come now? Obviously the guys feel sorry for Riddhima, notice the hurt equally depicted by their faces when she said the line "shayad mere naseeb mein khushi hai hi nahi"-emotional atyachar much Dr. Riddhima?
The idea of "choice" was prominent from the beginning, the choice=
2 years of true love, but alas separation sadly on the day of the engagement to symbolise their bond?
or a marriage made in obnoxious circumstances yet a compulsion to stay together actually generated genuine understanding and respect?
Hands down, both stories share the same amount of happiness and sadness but such is life...the balance again has rocked to make Riddhima's apparent decision easier where she now "realises" that both men have treated her with the same neglect...it is ironic though, you'd think
-a) Armaan left because he was mentally unstable and did not want Riddhima to have to bear the burden of treating an Armaan she was not used to seeing
-Riddhima counters that if he had enough belief in their love he would have understood that she would have stuck with him through thick and thin-touche!
b) Sidster was also lovestruck and blinded by the selflessness of his own conscience, why should I impose the marriage on her now that Armaan is back, I will do the good deed, strangle the aspirations of my own heart and send her away so that she can be happy...
-Riddhima says: nope! Wrong! We are married and we wanted to start a new life together, by sending me away you have proven that we, in fact, do not want the same thing....
Such is love, makes people do crazyyy things, and that is what was portrayed today, I remember Sant Siddhant Modi jis line:
" khabie khabie hum doosron ko mana ne ke liye bauhaut kuch karte hai, par humara bauhat kuch kisi ke liye kam hi hota hai"
..very well said. đ No matter how much SidMaan were crushed and sick with themselves over the decision they had to make concerning Riddhima, in the end she was never going to be grateful.
We as DMGians find ourselves torn between the two parties, we are Riddhima (essentially), and there exist neutral beings such as myself who stand for Team SidMaan, I feel it is a trait I get from my mother, I have always been an indecisive person, unable to choose, even if I celebrate with the winner, you will always find me giving a conciliatory hug to the loser. And the same applies here....I find it rude and selfish of Riddhima to run up to Sid and saying all these hurtful things to him, not giving a second to consider the reasoning for his actions. Admiteddly, the sense of rejection is back, the whole "he doesn't appreciate me as his wife so he falsely led me to Armaan" etc etc. I would probably feel the same....but to an extent, miscommunication is a MASSIVE fault in the DMG storyline at the minute. When one asks questions they should also be capable of listening to the answers.
Again, I feel for Armaan. And I don't agree with Riddhima's treatment of him whatsoever. The Sid-Riddhima fans out there must support. And why? I shall explain...Riddhima has every right to be angry with Armaan, he left her. twice. For her own good or not that is besides the point, he left her. I accept.
He comes back cured, fit and fine to claim his basket (haha) But alas the situation is not all that it seems. We can understand Riddhima's discomfort at the situation but she had many options of which I will illustrate the most obvious and less upsetting scenario:
a) she acts moody with Armaan for a day or two, then explains that they cannot be together because she is married.
Hard? Nope.
Instead, this is what happened- She very nearly kisses him in the FE= i.e. she is blameworty of being hypocritical. If Sid pushed Riddhima towards Armaan, Riddhima clearly failed to have willpower to stop it either, instead she pretty much strung Armaan along! It does take two to tango right?
Again, why the mistreatment after Armaan has stopped trying to pursue her? At the time she was more guilt ridden than anything hence the avoidance and insults but now? He has found out the truth does not want to intervene in her life,
Armaan clearly said "Agar usne mujhe batadiya hota ke tumhari shaadi hogayi hai, to na hi main yahaan hota aur nahi maine uspar haath uthaya hota".....
It seems that even two years with Armaan was not enough for Riddhima to win her over, it took her less time to think nothing of him. Please learn to be courteous Riddhima!
A ardent fan of DMG, I bear witness to both AR and SR's relationship, therefore the words that left Riddhima's mouth whilst she spoke about Armaan were quite horrific. She loved the guy for heavens sake, even if she was annoyed that he left her it does not justify her degrading remarks about the guy. You could tell from Armaan's one expression how stung he was upon hearing Riddhima say such things about him.
However, she has acted this way before, she has conveyed how ungracious she is of "good deeds" with the prime example of Dr. Shashank as a father who adopeted her that it was only time before Armaan was the next to face her wrath. I would say Sid was next in line, but I think the whole "hypothermia/body heat" controversy ticks the box with a "been there done that"...he saved her life and what resulted was a public exclamation of rape in the middle of the Sanjeevani. Today Sid probably experienced deja vu, doing something only for Riddhima's benefit and in return all she generates is disappointment. Ouch.
Erm........I conclude with my own opinion that I feel for SidMaan, I don't actually know which should be with Riddhima because I don't understand her today. Maybe tomorrow's episode will change my opinion of her, I sincerely pray to god. Else for me...myeah... SidMaan might aswell get together and that would be enough-they clearly share similiar (if not the same) tasteđđł
Thank you for reading! Over and out x
P.s. No bashing sil vous plait! And....I am confused with the precap, both SidMaan leave Riddhima and head in opposite directions, does this mean she is making a choice? or her choice is not to make a choice? ....(clearly puzzled)
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