Why Are Parents & Families Sidelined In MJHT ??

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Posted: 15 years ago
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well read the news abt adhani quitting MJHT & frankly I think Its fine no regrets over that

to me theirs was the most haphazard story I saw in the history of TV - how they came we all know, what made them fall in love is still a mystery to me 😕

frankly if the baby track takes the top spot of the worst MJHT track ever - theirs takes the one for the most confusing ever

anyhow good luck anupriya & nishant

ok now the point of my topic - which this news started me thinking - now with suhani gone we'd see the only family member from Sam's side also bid farewell to us - thus also making me think we are not gonna see Sam's mom too - as why would have Su needed to go to London if she was coming here ?


so yup Sam' family disappears now totally - we'd never see his parents i suppose & yes we'd never see the bro sis bonding - thou they were apart for 10 years - yet not 1 scene was made out to let the have a heart to heart over it 😕😕 as they only showed some good Sam su scenes when she came but later she was with the gals or adhu all the time

and now as we know they will exit mostly by monday or sometime next week too so mostly a farewell scene if they do rem they shd have 1 will be all it will be

next Mayank - all right Shilpa aunty is loved by 1 & all for the amazing mom she is be by SGians like me or MNians of course - I think she'd d kind of mom & mom -in - law we'd all love to have - friendly, understanding, chilled , basically a parent who is a friend but alas - she' made to be a genie who appears only when the lamp is rubbed

fine they show her out of mumbai for job but darn why aren't there scenes where we see her calling up MN ?? 😕 or chatting on web ?? 😕 it's not too much right so what if she's away it doesnt mean she's broken ties with her son & DIL but we dont even see a call from her being made or vice -versa

why ? when she is such a liked character too ? why have the CV"s totally faded her away ?

GunUr - their mom is dead just like Mayu's dad - so of course they are out of the pic
but their dad - who got replaced - too has vanished - where is he or even bui for the matter - thou i dislike the woman

dia & dodo's dad - truthfully i don't even rem the actor who played dad to em & will not recognize him if he appears

Benji - other than 1 line abt his parents in morena we know zilch abt them

thou adhu may be now leaving too - but even his dad & dadi have been long gone as well

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fine i get this is a youth show - we dont wanna see nagging annoying parents much - but honestly - this is so silly that not 1 parental figure in this show is given prominence even when we like it like shilpa aunty - darn she wasnt even shown for her only son's wedding & next we saw her for 5 mins & Poof she was gone again

had it been limited perhaps to only Samrat - where they show him with a BG as now - divorced parents - father who has no time as custodian the only 1 who has no family or parents with him - I could get it as sad it may be - at times kids like Sam do exist - where parents have all d money 4 em but no time

but why are they just making all the leads as almost orphans in the show who have only 1 job romancing

i think if not the rest at least shilpa aunty shd be back for some authentication &the old MJHT flavor back in the show & yes wanna see her bond with the gang too esp Sam - if not his own mom - he can sure bond with Mayu's mom - as I am sure he'd have a crackling chemistry with her as he has with Nups too


we have always complained thou a college based show we dont see em studying, in classes attending lectures or even the teachers much - saw deodhar & shukla sir after ages & the princi is only their s a comedian too
but then even families need to be given imp as well

as in the real world not everyone has to live w/o parents all the time with only romance as the sole work to be done
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Posted: 15 years ago
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aahana its our mjht bhul gayi kaya phir se 😆 don't stress yourself and don't use much your brain as its pointless to think much for this as this is fiction show's fiction 😕 😆 i completely agree with you that in real world none can be without parents or all that but who cares here as ppl only want to see sajan and mayur so cvs only want to show them after so much bashing abt tracks , adhiani and all that so i think may be they only want to show us our fav couple and their superb scene i am also upset with the fact but i can forgive cvs for that bcz they r giving us extra mindblowing and superb scenes of sajan not only romance and all that but their trust, mutual understanding and all that so just chill dear ye sab toh chalta rehata hai as none show is perfect actually i am not defending show but only sharing my pov as agar ham hyper ho bhi jaye toh kaya fark padega mjht ki story main nothing 😔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Time and time i say awesome post Aahana 👏
I had so much hope for Sam's mum, how would she actually be, kind and friendly or strict and sophisticated. Ya we all love these romantic dates but don't you think they have been doing it from over one year.
They could have portrayed such interesting tracks to show youth in a different limelight.
-Mayur just got married, they should be worry about, how their lifes gonna go, their goals, family planning and struggle because lifes not easy and many youngsters who marry at a young age don't have friends like Samrat or anyone from the gang to offer them a home.
-Sam's moms track would have been such a interesting track. It would have sowed us the background of Samrat and why his parents acctually split up. What was the loosing point in their marriage. She could explain to Sammy how all marriages aren't unsuccessful. We could have had loads of Sam' mom and Gunjan bonding as nupur found a mom in Shilpa aunty so maybe Gunjan can get one in terms of Sam's mom.
-Careesr planning, well they are in college where students do have to plan their careers because as a fact they can't romance 24/7. They could show what career choices you have or how to choose one, what types of pressures there are.
-EXAMSSSSSSSSSSSS! and yes tey do come every year in real lifes.
-We have absalutely no idea about Mayank's dad and i would love to know about it to have more family bonding and support,
-For Benia's love track, it would be awesome if SaJan play cupids but i really want a scene where Benji opens up to Dia while Sammy listens to his side of the story, i mean in the baby track he said my apartment is not worth living in so it would be really nice and sweet for the benia lovestory where dia consoles him, while Samrat understands his value even more.
I had also liked the RDB track but then not many people supported it. Finally who says you have to give all these tracks one by one, how about having one track going on one side for sajan and the other on mayur. This will actually show that girls do have to move on after marriage, as nupur will have to concentrate on her life now to make it heaven in a few years same goes for Gunjan. And these tracks will not be boring as we can still add the romance element and the same joking around and i wouldn't mnd prom nights, things like how to stay safe in partys as youngsters do party a lot, School trips, competitions, academic meets, Rj hunt which aparently just disappeared and all the other things that happen in colleges with a Fun element as that is a vital part of MJHT
Okay sorry i went completely off topic, it was on parents and here i'am giving serious tracks and bhashans 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayankgunur

Time and time i say awesome post Aahana 👏

I had so much hope for Sam's mum, how would she actually be, kind and friendly or strict and sophisticated. Ya we all love these romantic dates but don't you think they have been doing it from over one year.
They could have portrayed such interesting tracks to show youth in a different limelight.
-Mayur just got married, they should be worry about, how their lifes gonna go, their goals, family planning and struggle because lifes not easy and many youngsters who marry at a young age don't have friends like Samrat or anyone from the gang to offer them a home.
-Sam's moms track would have been such a interesting track. It would have sowed us the background of Samrat and why his parents acctually split up. What was the loosing point in their marriage. She could explain to Sammy how all marriages aren't unsuccessful. We could have had loads of Sam' mom and Gunjan bonding as nupur found a mom in Shilpa aunty so maybe Gunjan can get one in terms of Sam's mom.
-Careesr planning, well they are in college where students do have to plan their careers because as a fact they can't romance 24/7. They could show what career choices you have or how to choose one, what types of pressures there are.
-EXAMSSSSSSSSSSSS! and yes tey do come every year in real lifes.
-We have absalutely no idea about Mayank's dad and i would love to know about it to have more family bonding and support,
-For Benia's love track, it would be awesome if SaJan play cupids but i really want a scene where Benji opens up to Dia while Sammy listens to his side of the story, i mean in the baby track he said my apartment is not worth living in so it would be really nice and sweet for the benia lovestory where dia consoles him, while Samrat understands his value even more.
I had also liked the RDB track but then not many people supported it. Finally who says you have to give all these tracks one by one, how about having one track going on one side for sajan and the other on mayur. This will actually show that girls do have to move on after marriage, as nupur will have to concentrate on her life now to make it heaven in a few years same goes for Gunjan. And these tracks will not be boring as we can still add the romance element and the same joking around and i wouldn't mnd prom nights, things like how to stay safe in partys as youngsters do party a lot, School trips, competitions, academic meets, Rj hunt which aparently just disappeared and all the other things that happen in colleges with a Fun element as that is a vital part of MJHT
Okay sorry i went completely off topic, it was on parents and here i'am giving serious tracks and bhashans 😆

@ reeshu you took all the words from me ... exactly what u said ... me too was waiting for sam's mom and sajan bonding... i hope they bring her in near future... i still have a hope that they can get her by saying that suhani was her adopted child - daughter of a close friend and that was the main reason for their divorce or something... which both the sibling don't know.. and that might be the reason she called suhani back... i know its too late and hoping this is stupid ... but could not help it ..
anyways back to the topic...
@ aahana
MJHT has always neglected the parents part ... if CVs(parents in whatever suitation)deal it as the support system of the youth to guide, love ... they would get alot of older viewers too .
as they have youth who relate to the lead couples , they can get the youth to see the parents view point too thus can show and analyse the two sides of same coin or the two different views of the same situtations.. this will help the youth to get other side view too
Edited by aarthi.ramani - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@ Aarthi: Agree with your point, Elders do watch the show as tey see the youth today but they can't really relate to them as in their time there wasn't any BBall champ or someone really intelectual or somebody so outgoing.
And trust me the bauji they had intoduced in moreana and The type of mother shilpa aunty is portrayed as made our parents feel proud that atleast this show doesn't show evil parents and all but shows parents who do bond with their children. So ya the CV's are doing a fab job but if they show some of the tracks listed in the previous post and parents bonding with children would only make us proud to be a MJHTian and we will feel respect for them.
Also their TRPs will go up as more people will be able to relate to them and we can then watch it with family.
Of corse a little bit of romance and masti won't ruin it, as these are the elements of the show and the youth do, do these these sort of masti in colleges.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sayankgunur

@ Aarthi: Agree with your point, Elders do watch the show as tey see the youth today but they can't really relate to them as in their time there wasn't any BBall champ or someone really intelectual or somebody so outgoing.

And trust me the bauji they had intoduced in moreana and The type of mother shilpa aunty is portrayed as made our parents feel proud that atleast this show doesn't show evil parents and all but shows parents who do bond with their children. So ya the CV's are doing a fab job but if they show some of the tracks listed in the previous post and parents bonding with children would only make us proud to be a MJHTian and we will feel respect for them.
Also their TRPs will go up as more people will be able to relate to them and we can then watch it with family.
Of corse a little bit of romance and masti won't ruin it, as these are the elements of the show and the youth do, do these these sort of masti in colleges.

thats my point ... show the positive side .. that makes the life better.. we never ever try to understand a situtation from our parents point of view .. if they show this positive side its the msg that Cvs would give to the youth and also a door to the parents to view the situation from childs point of view.. and we can be more proud of being an MJHT ..
one important thing i like of this show is the positive approach to any situation ....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani

thats my point ... show the positive side .. that makes the life better.. we never ever try to understand a situtation from our parents point of view .. if they show this positive side its the msg that Cvs would give to the youth and also a door to the parents to view the situation from childs point of view.. and we can be more proud of being an MJHT ..
one important thing i like of this show is the positive approach to any situation ....

Completely agree with you Aarthi especially the bold.
No matter what the situation it shows us the positive side Such as the Mayur mariage track or the RDB and even the latest baby track. It shows us to be positive and optimistis, not that we aren't but just teaches us that if you take everything positive everything good happens to you. (my life motto)
No wonder it makes you smile

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