The forum atmosphere as an outsider!

Hello everybody,

Before everyone pounces on me (which i know is bound to happen), I just wanted to share my feelings on the forum with everyone, hoping may be i can just go back to a silent member and just enjoy the forum posts instead of having the feeling of doing something violent to let off my feelings.

I have been a "silent" member of this forum for a LONG time. I have seen people abuse Armaan whenever they got the chance(which i NEVER liked btw) but it was a healthy debate until recently. I mean Armaan is a character and everyone has the right to either hate him or love him or have no feelings for him. Also, i have seen people abuse Ridhima to no ends. This is also understandable.

BUT now the forum is like a war zone, it's like before opening a post i have to think a million times wondering who is arguing with who today.

I completely understand the AR fans as well as the SR fans. Each set of the fans wants their pair to be THE one.

BUT what i don't understand is why does everyone attack each other? Why can't we just keep it healthy and not bash the other actors/characters.

I am merely pointing out the way forum looks to an outsider. Not to be rude or anything, but every post i have seen more bashing of the other forum members as well as the characters from the SR fans. I understand you want Sid and ridhima to be together but what is the need to throttle the other side? In almost all the posts, the use of sarcasm with EVERY word, being just plain rude, or bashing Armaan for no reason, i don't see the point in it. I am NOT saying that the AR fans are innocent angels either, it's just that it seems like they retaliate because if they don't then their favorite character/actor will just be MURDERED by the SR fans.

At least to an outsider like me, it seems like anyone who wants AR together will be prosecuted and will have to just endure a lot of rude comments.

An honest question to the SR fans, what is so wrong in wanting AR together? I respect the fact that people think SR should be together, and if that happens then be it, but why get so negative when the other side voices their opinions?

I guess from the post it's obvious i like Armaan, BUT i absolutely adore Karan Wahi as well and don't want Sid's character to be sad just because that will make me sad too because Karan wahi is sid, if someone else was Sid then i wouldn't have cared.

Once again, this post isn't about AR v/s SR, it's an honest question by an outsider/silent member of the forum to the SR fans.

ut every post i have seen more bashing of the other forum members as well as the characters from the SR fans.

agree with u there are people who speak harshly against the character named armaan. but my dear, why have closed your eyes against those umpteen posts where AR fans are bashing sid???just go thru all the posts without prejudice and you will find atleast 3 posts against one that bashes armaan.

I am NOT saying that the AR fans are innocent angels either, it's just that it seems like they retaliate because if they don't then their favorite character/actor will just be MURDERED by the SR fans.

everyone retaliates when the other party bashes their fav character irrespective of being an AR fan or SR fan. But please dont tell me AR fans NEVER open threads to bash sidma 😆 its usually them who open threads to which SR fans respond (yes with sarcasm). mind u I am not saying SR fans dont open such threads..am just responding to ur above comment 😊

The day Arman punched Sid there were 10 post of the same issue!!!!!

Originally posted by: uppaas

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The day Arman punched Sid there were 10 post of the same issue!!!!!

Then they were polls , then lot of bashers wanted to guess the no of punches Arman wld give Sid.

The best part lot of the bashers loved THE BLOOD ON SID FACE!!!

Lot of SR fans dont mind Ar but I think AR fans ore RESENTFUL TOWARDS SR fans because they dont like SR.

I am a great fan of Arman but like Sr more.

I think Armaan is a beautiful character!!!!!

agree with u yaar.. even I like armaan..its actually some of his fans who bash my fav character that makes me angry

No side is an angel but in my honest opinion one side is a wee bit more agressive than the other :) As far as I am aware there are HARDLY any SR fans who don't feel the pain of Armaan but if we try looking at AR fans who appreciate Sid - you won't find that many :)

I have always seen that SR fans are being bashed more..Maybe the way the post which top the first page are those😆

The other thing is the flow of the story which makes sense at present with a person being married and moving on !! The present is the future and that what the stroyline is focusing

But my experience is a bit diff from u..

Everybody wants AR together, and it's AR fanz who come up with posts like "Yay Armaan punches Sid" etc etc.. !

SR fanz are less rude than certain people becoz they admit proudly that Armaan is God hence can never be wrong :)

U are AR fan, so that's how u found it.. And me SR fan, so what's what I found it😳 But our cases are similar.. Everyone tends to get violent over here !

true.sidma fans is harsh as compared to AR fans

To ur honest question as to what is wrng in wanting AR,my answer is just dat I am fed up of the innumerable eye locks,the silly quarrels and the same scenes being shown in different settings.Not to mention a zillion other things.....