Siddhima deserves an applause!!!Updated on 13/4/10

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JATIN THAKKAR

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Posted: 15 years ago

Hula Guyz,

Well the truth is revealed now.

First of all,whatever drama was going of in Sanjeevani for last 4 days has come to an end.

Majority of people are bashing on Sid that he is an irresponsible & coward husband & blah blah blah.

No one is looking another side of the coin by looking the situation in a broader view.

Well friends just recall the last week episode where you seen a conversation between Sid & Dr.Keerti.

Sid said to Dr.Keerti,"Pyaar ke naam par haq jatana theek baat nahi".

Let Riddhima choose with whom see wants to live & spend her whole life.

This is what really makes Sid a gem of a person.

Everytime you can't expect Sid to be saviour of Riddhima.Some problems & situations are such that you have to fight for yourself & your relationship.

Sid wants Riddhima to take decisions herself & he is really giving space to Riddhima to take some decisions on her own.

Imagine if Sid would had stood up & saved Riddhima from this mockery by revealing the truth what would had happened?

Majority of people would had bashed Sid by saying that he thrusted his own opinion on Riddhima & he took away the freedom of Speech & thought from Riddhima.

Well you can really see the deep sea of pain in Sid's eyes when Riddhima's was facing such a intense situation in her life.

But Sid really did'nt want to thrust his opinion on Riddhima & put his authority on her.

Well Sid told Riddhima in that terrace scene that God always takes your test coz he knows you can fight.you have that strength.(i think last Friday's epidode)

Well Sid also said to Riddhima( i think last 2 days back) when Riddhima was looking in mirror & Sid came from back,

Sid :- "jin sawaalon ke jawab hum dhoonte rehte hain,unke jawab hamare paas hi hote hain".

I have included this dialogues to explain my topic with more justification.

Basically,Sid is trying to strengthen Riddhima's confidence by giving her the much needed motivation & boosting her morale.

This is where Sid is perhaps a different personality.

Sid really succeeded in building Riddhima's confidence.

You can see the result in front of your eyes how Riddhima told the whole truth of her marriage yesterday.

I have never seen Riddhima so confident & motivated.

For me,Sid & Riddhima both have strong shades in their character.

Sorry for Comparison but if you take Sid & Riddhima,Gunjan from MJHT & Avni from Love ne milla di Jodi,there is similarity in all of these characters.

These all characters look soft &sensitive from their outward appearance but deep inside & innate ,there is some metabolism in them which makes them strong & they face every situation of life with courage.These people don't run away with problems but face them & they don't fell succumb to problems.

Imagine if Sid had gone to pune to meet Riddhima,Riddhima would had fallen for him & perhaps they would have spent some quality time with each other & also celebrated their honeymoon once again.

But then it would be like Sid after looking Armaan in sanjeevani ran away with his wife & running away with problems of life.

But Sid did a better choice by facing the problem & also making Riddhima strong to face problems.

This is where Siddhima's duo is different.Their chemistrilicious pair takes them to a higher level.

Sid & Riddhima both know where there respective strength lies & they leverage on their strength & both of them back each other very well.

UPDATED ON 13/4/10.

Sid has hide his marriage from his Mother.. Becoz he realized that if his family comes to know about this, Riddhima will be under REAL pressure of obligations and all the rules of society which Sid has never imposed on her. And in a way Ridz will be forced to stay with Sid.Sid has never forced Riddhima for anything.

All Sid's decisions and activities have been a proof of how he's grown up mature man now😳 Though we miss the boyish part in him sometimes, but his innocence kills us🤗 Love and adore them to DEATH ! Siddhima have seen worst phases with each other.. And still their hearts go fonder for each other. It HAS to be SR all the way !⭐️

(Heartly Thanks to my Friend Prerna4Rishav for giving me this nice Suggestions & Ideas & helping me to make a broader analysis on Siddhima.Thanks Buddy.)👏👏👏

Siddhima certainly deseves a applause.

I really salute Sid & Riddhima for this.👏👏👏

Love you All!!!

IMP NOTE:-Stay away & refrain from bashing & just don't make this topic a battlefield.

Things can be said in nice way & if you don't have nice things to say then please stay away from this topic.

Edited by JATINTHAKKAR - 15 years ago

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*Reemz*

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Posted: 15 years ago

What is this 'haq haq' issue??? Haq ki baat hi nahi hai. Its about common sense for goodness sake. Even if he thought he has no rights as a husband, surely they knew that they had become friends? And as a friend, the least he could do is help his friend out especially when it was so clear that she didn't want to do all this. I don't even see this as an issue about his lack of right over her! You see a friend in need, you help them! You don't stand there looking at the tamasha!

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JATIN THAKKAR

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
What is this 'haq haq' issue??? Haq ki baat hi nahi hai. Its about common sense for goodness sake. Even if he thought he has no rights as a husband, surely they knew that they had become friends? And as a friend, the least he could do is help his friend out especially when it was so clear that she didn't want to do all this. I don't even see this as an issue about his lack of right over her! You see a friend in need, you help them! You don't stand there looking at the tamasha!

Your point is right.

But You can't thrust your opinion as a husband or friend.

You need to give the freedom to Riddhima & let her choose what she wants & whom she wants.

Due to Sid,Riddhima ha got the confidence of speaking up otherwise if everytime Sid will fight for her then it will be like making her handicapped.

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Posted: 15 years ago

But I'm not saying that he should thrust his opinion on her but at least he could have defended her against his mother. You don't need to have a right over a human being to defend them! It just comes from instinct. If you see wrong happening then your heart wants to help out the person in need (most of the time anyway).

For me its not an issue about claiming a right over anyone, its about speaking up for whats wrong!

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JATIN THAKKAR

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
But I'm not saying that he should thrust his opinion on her but at least he could have defended her against his mother. You don't need to have a right over a human being to defend them! It just comes from instinct. If you see wrong happening then your heart wants to help out the person in need (most of the time anyway).

For me its not an issue about claiming a right over anyone, its about speaking up for whats wrong!

You r right once again.

But there is one advantage of keeping Quiet that Riddhima got the strength to tell Armaan the truth of her life.

It makes a big difference when Riddhima confessed the whole truth.

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*Reemz*

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Posted: 15 years ago

Riddhima should have got the strength way back but she didn't for the reason that she couldn't handle facing Armaan. She feels guilty but won't admit it!

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JATIN THAKKAR

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: *Reemz*
Riddhima should have got the strength way back but she didn't for the reason that she couldn't handle facing Armaan. She feels guilty but won't admit it!

But the result is in front of our eyes.

Riddhima faced Armaan with confidence & told the truth.

Life calls you to take some decisions on your own.

When the going gets tough,the tough get going.

Riddhima showed her strength yesterday.

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*Reemz*

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Posted: 15 years ago

^Yes when she realised that Armaan is putting a mangalsutra round her neck when shes already married to someone else. It shouldn't have taken that long. Neither Riddhima or Sid treated Armaan with the respect he deserved and even now Riddhima feels she can talk to him however she wants despite knowing that she has wronged him!

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armaaniluvu

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: JATINTHAKKAR
Your point is right.
But You can't thrust your opinion as a husband or friend.

You need to give the freedom to Riddhima & let her choose what she wants & whom she wants.

Due to Sid,Riddhima ha got the confidence of speaking up otherwise if everytime Sid will fight for her then it will be like making her handicapped.

but as a "FRIEND" or as a "HUSBAND" or even as a lover u must stand up for dat person

u just dont turn ur head away(as sid did) wen d person u supposedly love is in trouble

it was vry clear how helpless ridhima was but sid did nothing but conviniently looked away