Ridz, Sid's strategy VS Armaan's etrenal love

Ridz & Sid are representing 90% of society today which doesnt believe in etrenal love. They are too practical to understand the depth of true love. Armaan's character comes from that 10% who are left alone for standing for everyone in need & measuring world in black & white. He comes from the time where you love once & when you fall in love....you just breath, feel & embrace the eternal beauty of that pleasure to love someone more than urself...througout the AR journey he never questioned Ridz & always took every blame on himself. Ridz on the other hand kept on playing a loyal daughter, a good freind's role & gathered all the laurels for being a nice girl...she did all that at the cost of Armaan taking onus of all her wrong decisions...she kept on batraying Armaan at different times....Shashank is another character who misused Armaaan's goodness to the extent that after shooting episode he blamed Armaan for what happened to Ridhima....when Ridz took the shot on herself for Armaan....that is the only incidence where Ridz showed some deep connection with Armaan...
She never took the onus of what happened to Armaan after she doubted his loyalty & bubli's episode....poor guy lost his memory...she got him to jail at the beginning of the show...she conveniently forgot that it was cuz of Armaan she was alive today to be with Sid....she would have died during firework's incidence or may have been raped by goons if Armaan wasn't there...there would have been no Sanjeevni if Armaan wasnt there....
Ridz & Sid are those people who live in grey area & dont believe in B&w theory....Armaan is the only character who fell in love only once..he is not shifting loyalities...once he knew he is in love he was ready to live & die for the person he loved
Ridz on the other hand got married in a hurry inspite of knowing that Armaan may have died by now....not even thinking once that she might have missed his funeral....on top of all this she is accusing Armaan if he ever looked back to see if she is alive or not....even after knowing the truth why he left....she didnt go out again to look for him when she was so close in finding him...what kind of love is that
Shashank.....do you think he would have got Ridz married to Armaan if he had taken those bedroom photos...no.....why cuz in today's society no one wants to be with someone who believes in old values of love & affection....this is the only reeason Armaan is loved by kids cuz they understand his pure heart....
I feel Cvs have changed....the previous writer who sketched this beautiful AR story painted it with his heart whereas someone who has taken over is writing with his head but not heart....he is showing what most of the people do these days....no one has time for anyone..people hate to spend time with someone who talks about sincerity & values
I wish they should somewhere show Ridz confessing what wrong she did to Armaan instead of shielding her under pretext of being married or left alone by Armaan....
Armaan never left for his own pleasure....she knew the truth....
For Sid also this is his second time in love & Ridz has joined the bandwagon too....everyday we see that happening around us people are in & out of relationship....this is what they are showing in DMG now where as Armaan who is left alone with all the accusations on him who infact has been misused by his so called beloved Ridz & new friend Sid...this is the reality of our lives today....if you are like Armaan you will be left alone...people will make you scapegoat....which is a sorry state..

An awesome post!
So true!
all this change in the character's behaviour is definitely due to the change in creatives.
The new ones have completely made a mess of the show.. there is literally nothing that one can relate to in the story anymore!

Yes.. nice post 😃

Well for me, it's just that, if u leave ur gf just like that, u ought to live alone :( Becoz she aint supposed to wait forever for u.. Like what u said, that's more practical thing to do.. And not fairytale romance :)

Ok i read the first 5 lines of ur post and i stopped- Reason?

1) What is the basis of ur so called analysis of 90% in the society are like Sr and 10 % are like A?
2) Free advice- lena hain tho lo varna jaane do - Get out of ur dream land and take a look into the REAL world.

I dont have anything against u sweety , but u need a dose of reality.
Love
Bhavi

@topic maker:- I completely disagree with you on all your points. I don't think Armaan is like you have pointed out here.

First it was Armaan who took the decision to go away from Riddhima after the shootout even when Shashank asked him to re-think about his decision. Didn't Armaan think about what would happen to Riddhima. Fine he didn't want to bother her but still he could have told her the reason and asked her opinion. But he wanted to be Mahaan and wanted Riddhima to have a full life with someone else and so he went away. Riddhima became very bitter due to this but did anyone care for her pain. No. Not even the person who loved her to the ultimate extent. Then Riddhima finds out Armaan may have survived and tries to find him. I don't see Armaan trying to find out if Riddhima ever survived. Why. Didn't he want to find out what happened to his lover. How can he be called all great when he even didn't try to see what might have happened to Riddhima after he moved away from his life.

Next comes Panchagani. Riddhima became mad searching for him and what does he do. He leaves her and takes his payal and kangan and goes away. Again he could have stayed and got his love back but he preferred to walk away. So he also is responsible for losing his lover to Sid. Now all of a sudden since he is all fit and fine he thinks that Riddhima WOULD HAVE WAITED for him. Is he delusional. How long will anyone wait for someone. Especially one who has walked out of your life knowingly. If you were in the place of Riddhima then you would also not have waited for him and neither would your family. And correct me if I am wrong Armaan walked away from Riddhima in the first place because he wanted her to have a full life, a happy life with some one else right. So how come he is blaming Riddhima for getting married. This is what he wanted. So if Armaan expected his basket will wait for him even when he walked out of his life then he is surely mistaken.

And Sid did not force Riddhima to marry. He was solely trying to restore Riddhima's reputation in the eyes of society especially after Riddhima screamed Rape in front of everyone. He actually sacrificed his life so Riddhima could have some diginity and can return back to Sanjeevani with respect and even when he was married to her he never forced his husband rights on her. What is Sid's fault exactly. That he saved Riddhima's life a lot of times, that he saved her life at the cost of his reputation and dignity, that he married her even when she tried to commit suicide, that he made her saw what her death would have meant to her family, that he showed her the mirror of her life. Now Riddhima herself was getting comfortable with Sid and wanted to take her relationship to the next level. But Sid still got Armaan to meet Riddhima. And Sid didn't blurt out the marriage truth because that was Riddhima's decision.

You want to see Armaan as the mahan lover then it is your point of view. But from my perspective if you leave something knowingly you lose all rights on that thing at that point. That's it. This is a age old rule which still school children follow. Just because you came back you can't stake your claims on the person you left.

I know most of the people who reply to this post may bash my POV but seriously I am not interested in the fights guys. So peace out.

how does AR become an eternal love story is what I have never been able to fathom. They have a love story like any other umpteen love stories happening around..may be the only difference is that they have stretched it for 2 years. Just like other couples , they loved, fought and made up with each other.

@sarada- I loved ur reply. But fans will never see armaan's mistakes.. they are busy searching for others'

Originally posted by: shamil

@sarada- I loved ur reply. But fans will never see armaan's mistakes.. they are busy searching for others'

Thanks Shamil. I never reply back to the posts because I know you see the world according to the color of the eyeglasses you wear. So then the fault doesn't like in the world but in your nazar. People need to know that the whole fault doesn't lie with Sid and Riddhima, Armaan is also at fault equally if not more than Sid and Riddhima.

Originally posted by: psarada

@topic maker:- I completely disagree with you on all your points. I don't think Armaan is like you have pointed out here.

First it was Armaan who took the decision to go away from Riddhima after the shootout even when Shashank asked him to re-think about his decision. Didn't Armaan think about what would happen to Riddhima. Fine he didn't want to bother her but still he could have told her the reason and asked her opinion. But he wanted to be Mahaan and wanted Riddhima to have a full life with someone else and so he went away. Riddhima became very bitter due to this but did anyone care for her pain. No. Not even the person who loved her to the ultimate extent. Then Riddhima finds out Armaan may have survived and tries to find him. I don't see Armaan trying to find out if Riddhima ever survived. Why. Didn't he want to find out what happened to his lover. How can he be called all great when he even didn't try to see what might have happened to Riddhima after he moved away from his life.

Next comes Panchagani. Riddhima became mad searching for him and what does he do. He leaves her and takes his payal and kangan and goes away. Again he could have stayed and got his love back but he preferred to walk away. So he also is responsible for losing his lover to Sid. Now all of a sudden since he is all fit and fine he thinks that Riddhima WOULD HAVE WAITED for him. Is he delusional. How long will anyone wait for someone. Especially one who has walked out of your life knowingly. If you were in the place of Riddhima then you would also not have waited for him and neither would your family. And correct me if I am wrong Armaan walked away from Riddhima in the first place because he wanted her to have a full life, a happy life with some one else right. So how come he is blaming Riddhima for getting married. This is what he wanted. So if Armaan expected his basket will wait for him even when he walked out of his life then he is surely mistaken.

And Sid did not force Riddhima to marry. He was solely trying to restore Riddhima's reputation in the eyes of society especially after Riddhima screamed Rape in front of everyone. He actually sacrificed his life so Riddhima could have some diginity and can return back to Sanjeevani with respect and even when he was married to her he never forced his husband rights on her. What is Sid's fault exactly. That he saved Riddhima's life a lot of times, that he saved her life at the cost of his reputation and dignity, that he married her even when she tried to commit suicide, that he made her saw what her death would have meant to her family, that he showed her the mirror of her life. Now Riddhima herself was getting comfortable with Sid and wanted to take her relationship to the next level. But Sid still got Armaan to meet Riddhima. And Sid didn't blurt out the marriage truth because that was Riddhima's decision.

You want to see Armaan as the mahan lover then it is your point of view. But from my perspective if you leave something knowingly you lose all rights on that thing at that point. That's it. This is a age old rule which still school children follow. Just because you came back you can't stake your claims on the person you left.

I know most of the people who reply to this post may bash my POV but seriously I am not interested in the fights guys. So peace out.

I didnt say Shashank asked him to leave but he did say that all Ridhima's problem are due to Armaan during the shootout when he was questioning Anjali how come Ridz was in the hospital....she was supposed be at home
Armaan did explain to Sid why he left Ridz ......he knew Ridz would never leave him even if that meant to lead rest of her life with someone with mental disorder....rest he did leave another letter at Panchagni & the reason was the same....if Ridz was so mad at him why didnt she showed that anger at Panchgni...she was more worried that she was not worth of Armaan anymore....
Ridz & Sid got married for all the wrong reasons....due to society pressure....then you see Ridz started having feelings for Sid within a month's time.....how is that possible when she had claimed to love Armaan more than her life....
From my POV Ridz should have looked for Armaan one more time before getting into wedlock....specially when he needed her the most....he was going through the low phase of his life where you need your own loved ones around you....even if he said that he was leaving Ridz for her good...if Ridz loved him so much she should have given another chance to convince him....
Rest....if Sid & Ridz had told Armaan after he came back about their marriage....things would have been different but they decided to keep their little secret.....Sid asked Ridz to pretend as Armaan's wife for the sake of their loved ones.....which means it is okay to play around with someone's feelings so that you can gain something for ur loved ones.....Sid took everyone's name while convincing Ridz to act as Armaan's wife except for Armaan as if he didnt exist & was a stranger to them whose feelings doesnt count....
Coming back to leaving Ridz.....Ridz did the same with Armaan when he lost his memory & she was trying to help him by exchanging papers....when her father asked her to leave Armaan for good....she did that without telling Armaan again when he needed her the most....but she is complaining now only cuz she decided to get married & is using Armaan as scapegoat to come out clean