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Ridhima's behavior now a days is beyond anyone's comprehension. Frankly I just can''t figure out what she wants and what she is feeling because every scene of her looks like a stand alone scene without any relation to her emotions before. Its soooo contradictory that it has boggled my mind.
So here I'm just putting down what she is supposed to be feeling now n trying to make some sense of it (I know its of no use but still.....) šš
1. IS SHE REALLY ANGRY AT ARMAAN????????????????????????
This is one thing I just can't figure out. š She is suppossed to be angry at him for leaving her "to die". But her actions in the past don't seem to suggest that.
Lets take her behavior since the time the said incident happened.
After the "body heat" incident when she was at the hospital she was still fighting wid her dad bout armaan. As far as I rem she even left sanjeevni again to find armaan (before sid saved her from some accident). Also before her so called "wedding" she was still very much in LOVE with Armaan to the extent she tried to kill herself for him. All this while she WAS NEVER SHOWN TO BE ANGRY at him for leaving her.
After that she had partial amnesia and seemed to have forgotten about Armaan till KSG's return was decided. Once we knew Armaan was returning voila we suddenly had Ridhima talking to Naina on the phone (completely out of the blue š) and blaming Armaan for leaving her and made us all wonder "where did that come from????"
Then comes the time when she meets him for the first time. She was shocked, stunned, sad, happy but never angry in that scene. But BOOM next day in Sanjeevni she is all mad at him and blaming him for leaving her. After that she has pretty much been consistently angry at Armaan. (The only consistent thing since Armaans return)
But I don't get this behaviour of her's now when she showed no such anger when he actually left her šš.
Some of you might say that she is not angry at him but at herself and is just showing her frustration blah blah.....
But then someone PLSSS tell me why the hell have they NOT showed her FEELING GUILTY for HER BEHAVOIUR towards ARMAAN.
If she is not angry and all this is just a pretense then why in the numerous scenes where she is crying by herself and .feeling sorry for herself they haven't once showed her apologising to Armaan (atleast in her mind) for the way she is treating him. By not showing such a thing the CV's are making us think that she is actually angry at him.
But I just don't understand WHY???????
2. What exactly IS her Confusion??????????
Ok. i know everyone will say that it is whether to choose Ar or Sid but somehow for me her confusion just does not seem to be justified.
The very fact that there is a confusion in her mind to me is proof enough that she STLL LOVES ARMAAN. because if she had moved on then there would be NO confusion and she would simply tell him that she is married and move on with Sid. Considering the fact that she is not doing that it is very clear that her heart still loves Armaan. There is NO other reason other than LOVE that is binding her to Armaan and hence this confusion.
The other way need not be true. With Sid the binding factor is Marriagle and Not love. Because if Love was present with Sid then there would be no confusion. Because If you love someone and you are married to him then where is there a choice that you have to make??? So its clear that with Sid its marriage, committment, respect, obligation, liking but NOT LOVE.
So her confusion is LOVE vs MARRIAGE.
The "Marriage" ( I don't think this can be called a marriage but giving it the benefit of doubt) part I can understand.
But the Love is something I can't understand. We know she loves him because of what we have witnessed over the last 2.5 yrs.
But I have NOT SEEN ONE OUNCE OF THAT LOVE SINCE HIS RETURN.
She has not shown one bit of concern for his feelings, health, happiness, reputation etc since he has come back. Where is that care for him??. She has been practically ill treating him, hurting him and playing with his feeling knowing very well that the poor guy does not know anything and is ignorant about the situation. If she can't show these emotions in front of him for whatever reason then atleast they can show her feel some of these things alone. I mean instaed of her constant self pity (which is getting on my nerves now) why have'nt they showed her once be:
- happy that Armaan is ok and alive,
- guilty for the way she is treating him and hurting his feeling,
- guilty that she din't wait,
- concerned about how he will react when he knows the truth
- Concerned about his reputation in front of the others
- once admit to herself that she still loves him and is sad that she can't be with him etc.
Without all this we are still expected to believe that she LOVES him?? One moment she is being rude to him and next moment she is crying that whom should she choose.
Pls tell me IS THIS LOVE??????????????????????
If it is then WHAT KIND OF LOVE IS THIS??????????????
CV's if u'll are showing nonsense then its ok , but atleast justify the nonsense...
Ridhima's reactions have been soo contradictory that I don't understand her character at all anymore. Hope u'll can help me shed some light on this.
Pls do comment and give ur views about this.
PS: I know its too long and I've rambled on but had to get it out of my sytem.
PPS: Pls this is about the character of Ridhima and NOT the actress to pls don't get them into it. Also this is NOT about AR or SR ao pls stay away from that discussion too.
So here I'm just putting down what she is supposed to be feeling now n trying to make some sense of it (I know its of no use but still.....) šš
1. IS SHE REALLY ANGRY AT ARMAAN????????????????????????
This is one thing I just can't figure out. š She is suppossed to be angry at him for leaving her "to die". But her actions in the past don't seem to suggest that.
Lets take her behavior since the time the said incident happened.
After the "body heat" incident when she was at the hospital she was still fighting wid her dad bout armaan. As far as I rem she even left sanjeevni again to find armaan (before sid saved her from some accident). Also before her so called "wedding" she was still very much in LOVE with Armaan to the extent she tried to kill herself for him. All this while she WAS NEVER SHOWN TO BE ANGRY at him for leaving her.
After that she had partial amnesia and seemed to have forgotten about Armaan till KSG's return was decided. Once we knew Armaan was returning voila we suddenly had Ridhima talking to Naina on the phone (completely out of the blue š) and blaming Armaan for leaving her and made us all wonder "where did that come from????"
Then comes the time when she meets him for the first time. She was shocked, stunned, sad, happy but never angry in that scene. But BOOM next day in Sanjeevni she is all mad at him and blaming him for leaving her. After that she has pretty much been consistently angry at Armaan. (The only consistent thing since Armaans return)
But I don't get this behaviour of her's now when she showed no such anger when he actually left her šš.
Some of you might say that she is not angry at him but at herself and is just showing her frustration blah blah.....
But then someone PLSSS tell me why the hell have they NOT showed her FEELING GUILTY for HER BEHAVOIUR towards ARMAAN.
If she is not angry and all this is just a pretense then why in the numerous scenes where she is crying by herself and .feeling sorry for herself they haven't once showed her apologising to Armaan (atleast in her mind) for the way she is treating him. By not showing such a thing the CV's are making us think that she is actually angry at him.
But I just don't understand WHY???????
2. What exactly IS her Confusion??????????
Ok. i know everyone will say that it is whether to choose Ar or Sid but somehow for me her confusion just does not seem to be justified.
The very fact that there is a confusion in her mind to me is proof enough that she STLL LOVES ARMAAN. because if she had moved on then there would be NO confusion and she would simply tell him that she is married and move on with Sid. Considering the fact that she is not doing that it is very clear that her heart still loves Armaan. There is NO other reason other than LOVE that is binding her to Armaan and hence this confusion.
The other way need not be true. With Sid the binding factor is Marriagle and Not love. Because if Love was present with Sid then there would be no confusion. Because If you love someone and you are married to him then where is there a choice that you have to make??? So its clear that with Sid its marriage, committment, respect, obligation, liking but NOT LOVE.
So her confusion is LOVE vs MARRIAGE.
The "Marriage" ( I don't think this can be called a marriage but giving it the benefit of doubt) part I can understand.
But the Love is something I can't understand. We know she loves him because of what we have witnessed over the last 2.5 yrs.
But I have NOT SEEN ONE OUNCE OF THAT LOVE SINCE HIS RETURN.
She has not shown one bit of concern for his feelings, health, happiness, reputation etc since he has come back. Where is that care for him??. She has been practically ill treating him, hurting him and playing with his feeling knowing very well that the poor guy does not know anything and is ignorant about the situation. If she can't show these emotions in front of him for whatever reason then atleast they can show her feel some of these things alone. I mean instaed of her constant self pity (which is getting on my nerves now) why have'nt they showed her once be:
- happy that Armaan is ok and alive,
- guilty for the way she is treating him and hurting his feeling,
- guilty that she din't wait,
- concerned about how he will react when he knows the truth
- Concerned about his reputation in front of the others
- once admit to herself that she still loves him and is sad that she can't be with him etc.
Without all this we are still expected to believe that she LOVES him?? One moment she is being rude to him and next moment she is crying that whom should she choose.
Pls tell me IS THIS LOVE??????????????????????
If it is then WHAT KIND OF LOVE IS THIS??????????????
CV's if u'll are showing nonsense then its ok , but atleast justify the nonsense...
Ridhima's reactions have been soo contradictory that I don't understand her character at all anymore. Hope u'll can help me shed some light on this.
Pls do comment and give ur views about this.
PS: I know its too long and I've rambled on but had to get it out of my sytem.
PPS: Pls this is about the character of Ridhima and NOT the actress to pls don't get them into it. Also this is NOT about AR or SR ao pls stay away from that discussion too.
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