Is it wrong to be a girl? (For AR/SR fans) - Page 2

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Posted: 15 years ago
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@miketa wid ur topic mujhe ek aur cheez yaad aagayi.............
u know this nt the ridz we know.she was a gal who use to tak no wrong..for eg.in the initial days of dmg wen these ppl went toa village there was agal who was burnt by her hubby n inlaws n ridz wa sthe one to tell her to satand for herself ,she wa sthe one who thot that maya(who accused ammy for the reason for her attempting suicide) has been tortured nby ammy n ammy did wrong to her,she wa sthe one to stand up for her.......... n sent ammy to the jail..........becoz she thot he was at fault.......bt then wen she came to know she wa sthe one who saved ammy or say.corrected her mistake...........bt nw this time wen sis stella wa ssaying rubbish abt her.n to her family couldnt they jus tell her to shut up as she has no bussiness in their lyf n she ha sno rite to comment on her..................as she ha snt done n ething wrong............n shashank the man of principles went weak on false accusations...............
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Posted: 15 years ago
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its ridz decision now
if she wnts she can go back to armaan usse koi kuch nahi kahega i guess
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Girls have all rights-that is the basic thing of the topic.There is no problem with girls choosing their first love if she wants to go back.Similarly there should be no problem when a girl chooses to move on.I have read zillions of posts where Ridhima was scorned and tainted badly because she chose to give the marriage a chance.

So yes Ridhima should have a choice-she being the girl should do what she wants but that liberty to make choice should not be only acceptable to us when she chooses Armaan (for AR fans) or Sid(for SR fans).She should not become a scarlet woman because she either chose her husband or her love-
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sjain

well ..Indian society ..doesn't allow a girl to take decision for her self ..I agree parents will never think anything bad about her daughter ..but sometimes ....unknowingly ....they do something which is so not gud ..parents always wants happiness of their children ..but fails to understand it..!!

ridz took decision to marry sid ..becos her parents convinced her to do so ..she agreed for marriage ..but she was not happy with it ...and still struggling with it !!!

i agree wid u
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Please before jumping into conclusion - answer my questions....

Theory - Armaan loves Riddhima... Riddhima loves Armaan, but also cares for Sid (cause he's her husband)... Sid started loving Riddhima without once thinking about his first love (Tammana).... Is it wrong to fall in love again. or is there a time limit , where only after a certain period of time a man or woman shud love again. would you be happy if sid grew a beard, became a drunkard and sang sad love songs. is that proof of loving. if people shud marry only there first love half of them on earth will end up being single.

1. Its alright for a man to seek other relation in his life if his first love returns, but when a girl tries to seek other relation cause her love is back is forced against laws of society and tradition? donno in which society or time you live but atleast here in india or bangalore to be precise its wrong to seek other relations when you are committed. and this holds eqally gud for all genders

2. If a guy can make mistake of having extra martial affair its alright, but when a girl thinks about herself its wrong or reminding of her limits as a daughter, sister, friend, wife, daughter-in-law, mother? Why isn't the guy tied with those titles of tradition by society? Would you agree if your husband, brother or frnd had a extra marital affair. the answer is ther in front of you. no-one in todays world says its alrite for a man to have extra-marital affairs. Or are u suggesting AR shud have a affair

3. Why should always girls are force to forgive their husband weather they commit mistakes, but if a girl commits same mistake its highly wrong and unforgiven? if you are asking thsi questions based on tellywood then the answer is bcoz of TRP's. if its in general, then today no girl is weak. havent u heard of the gal who rejected the groom on the eve of their marriage due to dowry issue. except in rural areas in most places girls enjoy freedom, and financial independence too

Why? Just because you are a girl... Girls have their right to live a life they deserve by breaking free for forced on relationship. Riddhima herself is example of a girl who always thought about her family before herself in return she only wanted love from a person who would love her. And when that person came in her life (Armaan) destiny took him away and certain situation forced her into marrying someone else (Sid). Is it wrong to listen to your heart for once cause any girl can understand Riddhima's pain. Even Riddhima's eyes speak out her heart. If you look closely to those eyes belong to Riddhima - they only shout out Armaan's name cause that's what her heart feels.

Than why can't Riddhima break out of forced relationship she's living in? No one is telling ridhima to stay married even if does not wnat to. even sid has given her a chance. its her decision and her life. we cannot dictate her to go to armaan. if she values her marriage and is willing to give it a chance its her decision.

in your words why cant a gal choose what she wants. shud ridhima break off her marriage just bcoz she loved sumone else before. doesnt she have the right to move on in life if she chooses to.


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