sajan and the importance of marriage

Guys ever since this issue about marriage was raised between Samrat and Gunjan, I have been wondering what does getting married to someone mean exactly?....I know it sounds like a dumb question but the truth is it cant only be about making a commitment or a promise to be together cuz that is something we see people break all the time even after they get married…

So what does it really mean and is it really an issue between samrat and gunjan?...

In my opinion, its not an issue at all…..okay before everyone start throwing things at me for being so dense, hear me out.😆😆..

Even though I grew up in usa I come from a really traditional family so I can see where gunjan is coming from when she wanted to get married to sam…I think for her getting married was not about the commitment or the love cuz they already have that, it was all about a guarantee that nothing and no one can take sam away from her if they got married….and since she already felt that she wasn good enough for him the possibility of a separation was a real concern for her….

I can also understand where samrat is coming from…what with his childhood trauma, its really surprising that he grew up to be this awesome guy he is right now….anyways when he told gunjan that night about the circle of love and how he felt, he meant it….he is with gunjan, heart, body and soul……..so I think that in every way that counts he is already married to her….

After this accident, everything changed for gunjan…not because her trust was broken but cuz now her belief that samrat deserve something better got stronger so she gave up even the idea of staying together…..I really think that if this shooting thing hadn happened, gunjan would still have stayed with samrat and waited for him to get ready……I would have if I was in her place cuz no rasam can be as imp as the kind of love they share….

So guys looking at these two characters I don't think marriage is an issue here at all……cuz as far as I am concerned they are already married….because in my opinion marriage is a promise of hearts to stay together thru thick and thin…...and they have already made this promise to each other and now they are trying to keep this promise in their own way....by being strong and selfless for the other's sake and smile even when all they want to do is cry...by trying to find a happier life for each other by any means they can…

So what do you guys think about this?😊

lovely post.. yar i agree.... i really have nothing much t say coz u have said it all...

totally agree gina.. 👍🏼
very beauuutifully explained..

wellllll lovely topic gina.....n u have written so beautifullly that i almost forgot wat i wanted to write....will collect my thots n cum back in five min....but one thing my view is a little diff here hon....

hayeee😍....wat a romantic post gina!....im blushing reading it😆LOL....but i agree...

@ pragya, kiely, farhan, miyah – thanx guys!

@ meens – sweety take your time replying…cuz I really wanna know what you think about this issue…

mindblasting post i totally agree with u

hey gina superb post with superb thoughts, marriage is not abt commitment and promises you know, otherwise divorce has no space in it but we have a examples in our society, ppl make promises and then after marriage they forget their promises , i think marriage is not abt only promises and commitment but marriage means assurance of having your love in your life, marriage means one soul with two body, wife is called better half why bcz she is half part of his husband in his need , his support , his strength you r right gun being small town has a inferiority that she can't not deserve sam like boy who is cool dude and heart throb of college, from the first when she fell for him she never thought that sam will love her but the truth made her life worthy,having her love now she became more insecure as she watched her sis' s marriage and mess, her sis was queen of morena still she was suffering such a problem then being inferior how will she be not separate from her love sam ? here she became first time insecure n marriage lead in her mind first time, you know she herself found marriage in a solution
here marriage is solution for her but she deeply believes in this institution as she saw her parents successful marriage in her life and always marriage's talk from bui from childhood she also dreaming in one corner of her heart and now when right time came she became more and more eager to live with her love
otherside sam is victim of unsuccessful marriage of his parents, he got love from his parents when they were together but after that his parents got busy with their own life , so from childhood he is carving for love and searching for love which ended into gun's his chashmish's love
he loves her a lot but marriage's his phobia made him thought that marriage will end their charm of love and may be he never thought of marriage bcz he doesn't believe it

you r right both r married from their heart now only ritual r left for them to get licence of marriage, marriage means mutual understanding, trust, love for each other, faith and most imp loyality towards each other so we have all this quality in sajan

now i really want sam's pov abt marriage before and after accident , accident changed his mind only for his chashmish as he wants to be with her entire life together forever but still he doesn't believe in marriage is very acceptable

ya now gun is trying to avoid him and now issue is not marriage but now issue is true love for each other , when you love someone you want him/her deserve best thing , best person in his /her life and gun is doing the same thing hooking up her own cousin and sam proves her true love as she has given up hope and rise in her life as she can't walk with him

ya now issue is not marriage but issue is worthiness

I have some stuff to say here! But Im making chaval at the moment! Will be back ASAP!

Aisha xxx😉

Gina, first of all a great post! You're right the way Samrat and Gunjan love each other, is selfless, dedication and respect for each other. Nowadays the way Samrat takes or starts taking good care of Gunjan, I am sure every girl would expect a BF like Sam. But in Indian society, a boy and a girl who love each other can't live together without a marriage. My thinking wouldl sound very different to you and other friends to some extent. Being married and grown up in India, though I am in USA right now the family- mom, dad, brother, sister everyone is connected with us. When Gunjan asked Samrat to get marry to her that is due to some insecurity or she wanted a commitment, in her place I would have done the same with Sam. Sam is not only good looking, smart, rich, but also very loving and caring, she does not want to lose him. But right now it is totally different scenario, since Gunjan thinks that Sam gets better match for him after her accident. I just wish that no hurdle comes in between and their love lasts forever!!!