sajan and the importance of marriage - Page 2

Originally posted by: aashizin

hey gina superb post with superb thoughts, marriage is not abt commitment and promises you know, otherwise divorce has no space in it but we have a examples in our society, ppl make promises and then after marriage they forget their promises , i think marriage is not abt only promises and commitment but marriage means assurance of having your love in your life, marriage means one soul with two body, wife is called better half why bcz she is half part of his husband in his need , his support , his strength you r right gun being small town has a inferiority that she can't not deserve sam like boy who is cool dude and heart throb of college, from the first when she fell for him she never thought that sam will love her but the truth made her life worthy,having her love now she became more insecure as she watched her sis' s marriage and mess, her sis was queen of morena still she was suffering such a problem then being inferior how will she be not separate from her love sam ? here she became first time insecure n marriage lead in her mind first time, you know she herself found marriage in a solution
here marriage is solution for her but she deeply believes in this institution as she saw her parents successful marriage in her life and always marriage's talk from bui from childhood she also dreaming in one corner of her heart and now when right time came she became more and more eager to live with her love
otherside sam is victim of unsuccessful marriage of his parents, he got love from his parents when they were together but after that his parents got busy with their own life , so from childhood he is carving for love and searching for love which ended into gun's his chashmish's love
he loves her a lot but marriage's his phobia made him thought that marriage will end their charm of love and may be he never thought of marriage bcz he doesn't believe it

you r right both r married from their heart now only ritual r left for them to get licence of marriage, marriage means mutual understanding, trust, love for each other, faith and most imp loyality towards each other so we have all this quality in sajan

now i really want sam's pov abt marriage before and after accident , accident changed his mind only for his chashmish as he wants to be with her entire life together forever but still he doesn't believe in marriage is very acceptable

ya now gun is trying to avoid him and now issue is not marriage but now issue is true love for each other , when you love someone you want him/her deserve best thing , best person in his /her life and gun is doing the same thing hooking up her own cousin and sam proves her true love as she has given up hope and rise in her life as she can't walk with him

ya now issue is not marriage but issue is worthiness

Originally posted by: thornewood9

I have some stuff to say here! But Im making chaval at the moment! Will be back ASAP!

Aisha xxx😉

Originally posted by: aveksha

Gina, first of all a great post! You're right the way Samrat and Gunjan love each other, is selfless, dedication and respect for each other. Nowadays the way Samrat takes or starts taking good care of Gunjan, I am sure every girl would expect a BF like Sam. But in Indian society, a boy and a girl who love each other can't live together without a marriage. My thinking wouldl sound very different to you and other friends to some extent. Being married and grown up in India, though I am in USA right now the family- mom, dad, brother, sister everyone is connected with us. When Gunjan asked Samrat to get marry to her that is due to some insecurity or she wanted a commitment, in her place I would have done the same with Sam. Sam is not only good looking, smart, rich, but also very loving and caring, she does not want to lose him. But right now it is totally different scenario, since Gunjan thinks that Sam gets better match for him after her accident. I just wish that no hurdle comes in between and their love lasts forever!!!

Originally posted by: gina87

gosh what a reply aashi!👏.....I wanted to highlight some stuff and tell you what i liked the most but i cant cuz i loved everything you said...I agree with everything you said especially the last line

"the issue now is not marriage but worthiness"...very well said sweety!👏