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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey i guys i was wondering how he will set up the
mandap i mean if rahul sets up all three mandaps (caus harpreets punjabi, dimpy bengali n nikunj hindu)
so there will be three types f mandap or what n if there re three mandaps
then it would be so insulting to those two mandaps

sry for the mistakes my englsih is not so good

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Honestly, there is some abshagun that is happening on this show if a marriage is really taking place.

The old people used to say that once a wedding clothes is put on, if the wedding does not occur then this is abshagun.
The madap should be respected and for it not to be used, this was also considered abshagun.
the Haldi, Mehndhi, etc is all taking place, but for the two girls who it doesn't work out for, then this in the old days would have been considered abshagun.
If Rahul is so supersticious that he consults kundalis, etc. then his pandit should be thinking of these things - or maybe he doesn't care about what the old people used to say is in auspicious ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I too think that on the 5th, they should select the bride by the end of the program, and on the 6th, they should do all of that.
There should be no haldi or mandap for the girls who aren't marrying. Mehendi, only if the other 2 girls don't mind celebrating the marriage of the 1 who Rahul picked.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Vrisha

Mehendi, only if the other 2 girls don't mind celebrating the marriage of the 1 who Rahul picked.

The only thing that I would say is that as I know it, the Mehndhi Rasam for a girl who is getting married is different than for those who are just friends and family. And, the patterns are different - There are some things that we do for the bride like the ceremony, the type of mehndhi, and even writing the groom's initials in the mehndhi ... so the mehndhi should also be left for only the girl is marrying.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes- I am totally agree, Rahul shuld pik the bride on 5th and save hurting other two brides and their famillies feelings and respect,
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Posted: 15 years ago
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So how will it work?? Will all the 3 girls will be decked up and all on 6th March...And Rahul would walk around in the line and put the garland in the neck of the girl he likes??😲
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Posted: 15 years ago
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umm...i knw..but maybe the marriage will be according to Rahul's traditions...so maybe his culture :)
but then..i too feel..they should have done an engagement..and then show any 1 celebration whole heartedly..tok abt
chat mangni pat byaah...hehe
😆 😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: coldy07

umm...i knw..but maybe the marriage will be according to Rahul's traditions...so maybe his culture :)
but then..i too feel..they should have done an engagement..and then show any 1 celebration whole heartedly..tok abt
chat mangni pat byaah...hehe
😆 😆

Even in Rahul's tradition (Marathhi, Brahmin) this superstition holds true..😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i also think that they shouldn't have shown the mehndi and sangeet for all three girls.but if the girls and their families don't mind then what can we say..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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because if he sets up all three mandap n after that he walks in a line n puts the garland on that girls neck who he wants to marry it would be such a insult
i dont how hindu marriges are but as far sikh marriage is i know that they dont have
a mandap they put guru granth sahib n do the pheres around it so if he doesnt pick harpreet it would be such a big insut to guru granth sahib isnt it

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