A Strong, Brave & Selfless Girl-Gunjan Bhushan!!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: ayesha_80

Well Mads, i'm glad that i added this pt which compelled u to write this reply.😉😉😉 U know na that i really treasure ur POV and this time also u r bang on..

Somewhere i agree wid u that one shud try and move ahead in life. I'm saying "try to" because, it's not always that easy. Some ppl live their whole life with old memories. I'm not defending this thing, neither am i saying that this is a practical approach, but it is how some ppl are.

In Gunjan's case, yes, she cud've moved on in life, mayb she even tried to do so, but what i feel is that in this case, Sam also loved Gunjan (though was ignorant of his feelings at that time). He cudn't bear the pain of losing her and constantly tried to talk to her, to befriend wid her, to make her smile. And when she cud see him all over the place, all the time, it became difficult for her to run away from him and to think of something else. Let me put it this way, he was physically wid Sheena, but his heart, soul, mind, emotions everything was wid his Chashmish. And mayb these unsaid emotions always connected them. They parted, but cudn't part. They tried to seperate their ways, but were on the same path and that too in the same direction. So, mayb the mere presence of Sam in front of her eyes made it difficult for her to look beyond him.

Another thing is that in such circumstances time is the healing factor. But these two didn't have time.. Before they cud move on with their repsective lives, they came back together and this time, not wid each other, but for each other.

I don't know whether i've able to put my thoughts accross, but i've tried..😊😊😊

@ bold : u are bang on ayesha .. well, let me confess it straight here .. my earlier post was out of my personal experiences, EXACTLY the reason why gunjan is soo much a REAL and ETERNAL part of me ... and when I did tht in my life, I was apalled why gunjan cudnt! 😳

but in this one .. u made me realise tht the circumstances were indeed very very different from mine .. yes, u are soo right ... he never left her LIFE completely, whether it was mentally or physically for her ... because it was this unspoken connection, like u said, that kept them together always ..yes, he loved her immensely too and he made sure he SHOWED it to her even tho he might not hav realised this then EVER ... mayb thats why she cud never "move over" tht phase in life ..

and again u are right, they didnt get any time to move on in life .. because the moment tht time came, they were back to being wit each other and FOR each other .. 😍

u hav lost me here completely, I can do nothing but agree wit u .. and thanks a lot for making me see this side of the story 🤗

Originally posted by: mads

@ bold : u are bang on ayesha .. well, let me confess it straight here .. my earlier post was out of my personal experiences, EXACTLY the reason why gunjan is soo much a REAL and ETERNAL part of me ... and when I did tht in my life, I was apalled why gunjan cudnt! 😳

but in this one .. u made me realise tht the circumstances were indeed very very different from mine .. yes, u are soo right ... he never left her LIFE completely, whether it was mentally or physically for her ... because it was this unspoken connection, like u said, that kept them together always ..yes, he loved her immensely too and he made sure he SHOWED it to her even tho he might not hav realised this then EVER ... mayb thats why she cud never "move over" tht phase in life ..

and again u are right, they didnt get any time to move on in life .. because the moment tht time came, they were back to being wit each other and FOR each other .. 😍

u hav lost me here completely, I can do nothing but agree wit u .. and thanks a lot for making me see this side of the story 🤗