Treat Disability with Dignity - a Gr8 Message

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Posted: 15 years ago
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alright i m not gonna lie i am really disheartened at the condition our sweet Gunjan is being made to go thru she's a gr8 gal, a good human & so sweet yet this befell her

but i suppose amidst all this 1 thing what i liked today was d 1 Msg d show & d Cv's r trying to give us

yes Gunjan was sorry 4 herself , she says when life becomes so perfect - when i had a gr8 sis like u , d whole dreamful journey of morena - mumbai , such gr8 friends & family , love & Samrat in my life perhaps i was too filled with happiness & i think d only outlet for such an extreme amt of everything was tears

but later she goes on 2 proceed asking nups has she said it to all , ans me truthfully & later wants a promise of her DI ALWAYS LOVE ME, BUT NEVER PITY ME - that i suppose was d moment i was not only proud of Gunjan & saw what a brave person she is but felt good 4 d msg it sent

yes ppl with unfortunate accidents in their lives often 4 no fault have to bear the consequences of 'em at times 4 days, at times 4 life, thr's n ans why , no reasons for what just simple sheer truth & 1 explanation to end it all - Fate, Destiny or Karma

we have no other ways of answering this just these words

but yes 1 thing beyond these that really is more hurting & heartbreaking is d sheer feeling of helplessness & pity that comes along with it , with emotions like anger, hatred etc

u can calm down ur anger, cry it out talk , break a few things , yell & yes ultimately it'll be out , 4 d hatred u can nurture it beyond belief - go bitter, cold , harsh, mean

but there's no way of dealing with Pity & d helplessness other ppl make u feel - yes ur emotions are 4 u own to control & restrain but u cant say d same of others & it hurts even more when those ppl are your very own

i loved d simple msg - that in simple sweet words Gunjan said aloud 2 her Di nups - never treat me any diff from what u always did , just be d same as i wont be able 2 take it otherwise

& d brave gal that she is loved d smiling face , d brave front she put up as she entered in d last scene

yes thx Cv's 4 d wonderful msg u r sending across - u may lose ur hopes, u happiness , may lose certainly a lot of things & everything - but never ever lose ur pride , ur Dignity

Edited by aahana86 - 15 years ago

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Posted: 15 years ago
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ya dear... i completely agree wid you.... i just love mjht for what it is... however it is...!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree!!! Gunjan rocks!!! Shes becoming a lot strong!!! 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Aahana, I was waiting for ur post dear.. Today i'm sooooo proud to be a Gunjan fan (i always say this, but have to repeat it again today).. Even a standing ovation wud b nothing for her.. I was worried that the Cvs don't ruin her character now.. But her spirit made me totally speechless.. What if she's paralyzed, she can still rule the world.. I can tell u from my personal experience that if there's any sort of disability in a person, he/she can deal with everyone but what hurts the most is that if ur loved ones start pitying u.. It really kills, because like always, this is the time when u need them to be ur strength, rather than they making u feel that u're not worth doing anything..
I feel so many similarities b/w myself and Gunjan but this track of her's is so so close to my heart. Today, it seemed as if i was in place of her.. But I've never had these many guts.. I thank the CVs for raising this issue.. And what can i say abt Sanaya.. Hats off to her..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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aahana
was out for the whole week and caught up the whole of v;nite and last week episode just today.. and the end todays... i was emotional drained out.. 😭
but the last conversation of gunji and nups that love me as you always did but don't pity me was great.. i have no words for that line ...👏👏
i have know few of people who are strong and do not want people to pity them.
they had the courage to accept that life is can't be same, but still i have to live and if i have live i better live with pride ...
Gunji just exhibited that few people who accepted and dealt with her insecurities .. just as she says how do i look etc.. and the best part what i liked was that she told nupur that she will tell the news to everybody.... that show how strong she is .
This strength will be seen also when sam is heartbroken tomrow. and am sure this strength of hers will be the guiding force for the gang to fight against the injustice . in the gunji style... 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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absolutely aahana. i saw only tht scene and i was overwhelmed. I never thought tht cvs wud convey us such a gr8 message. its so true, when ppl go thru such a phase, others treat them differently, with pity and all, only very very very rare ppl understand the point tht theres nothing wrong in being like tht, n it feels sooo bad to the disabled person when everyone starts treating him/her differently.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I jus .. I jus dunno what to say...right now my heart is swelling..beaming wit pride ..for my gunjan ... she jus proved again, jus how BEAUTIFUL she is ... and jus how strong she is ...

I really hav no words to speak right now coz I m VERY VERY emotional ... jus wanna say ... gunjan didnt jus make ME proud right now...but also ALL those disabled ppl in this world who hav lived down wit self pity...she is an inspiration for THEM too ...

and ayesha..u are right, even a standing ovation wudnt b enuf for what she has shown today ... esp in the last scene where she comes in on her wheel chair on her own ... THAT is my gunjan ... and I LOVE HER SOO MUCHH !!!

ok..I really cannot say anything more right now ... wil prob update this thing later ...

gunjan...u simply ROCK !!! 🤗🤗
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Posted: 15 years ago
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really yaar..even i was thinking da same thing..!! luved ur post-thnks for sharing
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes aahnana it was a gr8 messgae that do not feel pitty for the disability instead make them to fight against it
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i simply loved gunjan today...her strength of character....the way she said she doesnt want sympathy..the way she accpeted her disability..totally awesome..am proud of her....

Best was the way she entered the Bhushan house with a smile on her face....i loved it..everyone was looking unhappy but her..it takes so much of mental strength to do that...being wallowed in self pity is easy...to act normal is very difficult..hope she recovers soon and has a normal life....

Am looking forward to her interaction with the family...especially with Samrat...Samrat must be planning something special for her..lets see how he acespts the news...

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