Why is sadhna doing this:Mod's Final Note on PG16

why sadhana doesn't tell ragini about mamiji's condition ..... it seems to me that she wants to be mahan in front of everyone ..... i think her purpose in life is to make ragini's life hell .... ragini has right to know about her mother's condition ...... since sadhna and ragini r not talking to eachother .... she should tell ranvir ...... sadhana is being unfair ..... sadhana is unable to collect all that money and ragini can help just because her personal problem with vasu she doesnt want to take the money ... its not fair to ragini aur mamiji .....

i think u should change ur wording here... sadhna doesnt intend to make ragini's life hell.... why would u say that??? infact its just situations they are in... i duno why ppl keep thinking sadhna is trying to be mahan? seriously there are such people in the world... if ur mother in law kept insulting u... and ur husband was not with u.. would u have enough guts to go and talk to ur brother-in-law??? i dont think so.. and anyways ragini knows her mom is unwell.. instead of worrying about her hubby who himself doesnt even want her to participate.. she should be living at her mom's place.. n the only reason why shes not living with her mom is because she herself is damn selfish... she doesnt want anything bad to happen to her as shes superstitious now that sadhna is only going to ruin her happiness if shes around her... really i think u should re-think your oppinion on sadhna.... im not saying ragini is a complete negative character.. its just that right now that is what the story demands... n sadhna is not being mahan at all.. if she was being mahaan she wouldnt have told vinu bhaiya.. but she did.. why cant vinu do anything??

Sadhana wants to be "Mahaan"......Why would she do that?? Does she ever brag about herself when she does something for others ? She is the most humble and selfless character in the show.

Originally posted by: trupat

why sadhana doesn't tell ragini about mamiji's condition ..... it seems to me that she wants to be mahan in front of everyone ..... i think her purpose in life is to make ragini's life hell .... ragini has right to know about her mother's condition ...... since sadhna and ragini r not talking to eachother .... she should tell ranvir ...... sadhana is being unfair ..... sadhana is unable to collect all that money and ragini can help just because her personal problem with vasu she doesnt want to take the money ... its not fair to ragini aur mamiji .....

Trupat, These kinds of posts have caused a lot arguments here.
First of all the creatives of Bidaai are supposed to be credited for this track.
This track, Ragini and Sadhana are going thro' a rift and not supposed to be talking or being anywhere near Ragini.And Sadhana knows that Mamji will never like to take his Dammada's help.
This has become evident from previous episodes
Again there are other people also who can also be blamed for not telling Ragini , starting with Ragini's own brother.

If Sadhana sees Mamji as her mother , then she has equal responsibilities and right to act like her daughter like Ragini.So what is she doing wrong here.Vinu knows he can also do something.
So why only blame Sadhana?
I know creatives have not done a good job convincing the situation here.Please just don't be so judgmental here, these words you have used will cause another argument here.

I wont comment about whether Sadhna wants to become mahaan or not but Ragini being a daughter has the full right to know about her mother's illness. Ragini wont ever overlook her mother's illness or would keep Ranvir before her mother who's actually hanging b/w life and death. Right now Sadhna should have kept aside everything and should have told Ragini about Kaushi ji. She is angry at Sadhna not at Kaushi ji, and she wont ever neglect
anything like this about her mother. So according to me the most sensible decision that Sadhna should have taken, was to inform Ragini about Kaushi ji.

Originally posted by: trupat

why sadhana doesn't tell ragini about mamiji's condition ..... it seems to me that she wants to be mahan in front of everyone ..... i think her purpose in life is to make ragini's life hell .... ragini has right to know about her mother's condition ...... since sadhna and ragini r not talking to eachother .... she should tell ranvir ...... sadhana is being unfair ..... sadhana is unable to collect all that money and ragini can help just because her personal problem with vasu she doesnt want to take the money ... its not fair to ragini aur mamiji .....

The topic without the bold part would have made so much difference.

Why is Sadhana not telling Ragini....OK...as per the storyline Ragini is in depression and she is just recovering. Vinu can also inform Ragini about her mother. But he has also not done that. So there must be a valid reason for them to hide this fact from everyone else including Ragini.

Originally posted by: --Anu--

You could have made your topic without the bold part. It would have made so much difference.

Agree!!!

the question should be why all the indian tv soap creative teams have the same damn idea of putting their lead through same kind of tyaag bull....I want to know, if any of those creatives have actually met such a person who, is always giving Bhashan, and doing so called tyaags...which are not really tyaags but stupidity without any extent...This problem could have been easily solved, just go to your damn husband Sadhna and tell him...or, go to Ranvir, or let Ragini know. Than Vasu will never have upper hand will she. But no, why use brain when we have balti full of tears...seriouslllyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy....Our Indian creatives arent creative at alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll....every channel it seems is showing the same thing....nothing new in their lead character...

Originally posted by: dharaa

I wont comment about whether Sadhna wants to become mahaan or not but Ragini being a daughter has the full right to know about her mother's illness. Ragini wont ever overlook her mother's illness or would keep Ranvir before her mother who's actually hanging b/w life and death. Right now Sadhna should have kept aside everything and should have told Ragini about Kaushi ji. She is angry at Sadhna not at Kaushi ji, and she wont ever neglect
anything like this about her mother. So according to me the most sensible decision that Sadhna should have taken, was to inform Ragini about Kaushi ji.

Dhara you are right, if Ragini would have known the situation she would react like a good daughter.
I too feel the CTs did not do justice by not telling Ragini.
It would have been much enjoyable track.