Why is sadhna doing this:Mod's Final Note on PG16 - Page 5

Originally posted by: agun

I agree with you on Vinu's behaviour.....it is definetly not acceptable....but Sadhna being wrong is compeltely not true in my POV.

Any girl in her position would never go for help to a family in which every member have used her and thrown her out....Why should she go to Ragini when Ragini doesnt want to see her. Vinu who knows the whole situation should have informed Ragini. Sadhna as any person with an iota of self respect grabbed at the oppurtunity of the dance comepetition and is working hard to make it work. Only because she thinks about her sister (even now after all the drama) she made sure her sister's name is not in the list of participants.

Ragini should have followed up on her mother after she saw her sick....yes she was upset when she knew that her mom didnt tell her but what did she do about it....she didnt follow on her...visit her or even talk to her brother or father about it.....

Why do we expect only Sadhna to beg and be humiliated in Bidaai for other's happiness...is that the only way......I am very happy that for a change she thought to not beg any body for money...

Originally posted by: dharaa

@vishmewell, Sadhna didnt even told them about kaushi ji's illness...remember? Only that evening. The same night Vinu and Sadhana had a looong discussion about Kaushi's condition and the money part. Vinu confesses that he mortgaged the house to buy a house for Malti. So, Vinu knows he has to raise money, ifnot ghar ka girvi, office se loan tho ek optio tha hi...

When no one other than her knew about Kaushi ji, they only did not know there was a clot in the brain. But they do know she is very sick. Chal phir nahi paarahi hai and she faints ?
how could they inform Ragini? This is again wrong because Vinu knew it.
And she herself stopped Vinu from telling anyone about the ghar ki girvi part and of course if mamaji knew about it, then he would first want to mortgage his house. That was proved right today's epi mamaji wanted to girvi the house. Sadhna saved the day for Vinu again. So instead of created more problems, Vinu and Sadhna decided to raise money. Sadhana is trying to do everything to get money and Vinu did nothing.
so why would Vinu do that??? Why? Sadhana never uttered Ragini's name even once. because his mother is dying and as an older brother he had the duty. Not Sadhna. She was strictly ordered by Vasu and Kaushi not to even utter Raginis name.
Mamaji who stays with kaushi ji 24/7 didnt get to know about Kaushi ji, he is with her 24/7 thabhi unko ehsaas hone chaahiyetha ki something is really bad. Waise patha chaltha bhi, ghar me ghar ko leka hungama. That would have killed Kaushi right there because Dr. told Kaushi ko tension naho hone chahiye. Thats why Sadhana suggested Vinu to bring Malti and munna home so that if she is happy, problem jaldi badegi nahi at least until after the dance competition.
so how can we expect Ragini to understand that in few minutes??? She did ask them about kaushi ji, but they told that she has BP problems. You agree that they simply told Kaushi ko BP problem hai... person who is suffeing from BP should know very well that is not due to BP. They don't feel nausea. They chose not to tell Ragini because they wanted her to be khush w/Ranvir.

Originally posted by: dharaa

No one is blaming Sadhna here. We are just saying she could have informed everyone spcly Mamaji and Ragini as soon as she got the news. Ragini would def nt hv insulted her, cuz this time it was abt her mother's life. Things become easier when all our close ones are with us. One cant win every situations as a one man army.

Originally posted by: dharaa

@agun, if Ragini loses deliberately it wont surely be for kaushi ji's treatment cuz the treatment can happen even if Ragini wins. So that toh def wont be the reason and if Ragini is losing to make Sadhna win then there must be something really strong reason behind it. I just hope, the CT's compensate for every illogical things they showed. I want SaGini reunion to be shown in a very special way

Originally posted by: agun

Dharaa - I want the creatives to think about a good way to redeem Ragini before their union.....that is the call of the hour....Even if Ragini loses the mahotsav to make Sadhna win for the money...she is not doing it for Sadhna..She is doing it for her mother....so there is no way they can redeem her by just showing that. Ragini has dismissed a 20 year old relation and there should be solid reason why she wants that relation back....a person cannot disown thier sibling one fine day say them 100 things and cannot hug them the next day saying "Sorry"...it wont work that way in reality.

Originally posted by: kinny_ranvir

Ragini knows her mom has BP problem..not some major problem...so y blame her for not visiting personally her mom again..infact when she came 2 know , she felt bad and 2 make her mom happy n content..she danced n twisted her ankle by mistake...so y blame her...

Sadhana didnot intend 3 tell any1 ..not mamaji,not vinu...she thot she cud manage 5 lakhs within 4 -5 days all by herself...funny..
If she had told mamaji n Ragini at first place initially , though they feel bad n worry n hyper intially, by maintaining the self respect of mamaji, they cud have found many ways 2 arrange the money like loans, debts even competion..without taking from their sasural...that wud lead 3 the re-union of the sisters as well without degrading of the characters of the sisters... .purely maayka problem solved by both sisters...