Why is sadhna doing this:Mod's Final Note on PG16 - Page 4

Originally posted by: dharaa

@purehearts, if I was in Sadhna's place I would have informed mamaji and Ragini sabse pehle. Mamaji is Kaushi ji's husband n Ragini is her daughter. And they both have the right to know about Kaushi ji. If I was in Sadhna's place, No matter what the most important thing for me would have been my mamiji's life. And by hook or by crook I would have done that. If Sadhna informed Mamaji and Ragini as soon as she got to know about this, things would have been different. There is def Vasu vs Sadhna thing going on but I dont think its bigger than Kaushi ji's life.

Originally posted by: Veritas

Well then mamaji should try and get the money on his own ,if he is not capable to get it then he should either lose his ego or lose his wife.
ANd I wonder where Vinu spends all his salary.They guy gets a salary of 50000 in a place like Agra,lives with his parents and has no big expenses
What did he do with all that money .
He should have arranged it from somewhere or maybe pawned Malti's jewelery.And if all failed ,he should have told Ragini/Ranvir.
Both Vinu and Sadhna's behavior is inexcusable.

Originally posted by: taral83

I understand your faustration and your POV. But I believe that this statement could have been written in a much nicer way. This appears as bashing Sadhna's character, which is strictly not allowed in this forum. Its my humble request that we think before we write so that we can ovoid fights and arguments on this forum. We are trying to make this forum more for Bidaai and eliminate any hard feelings towards jodis. So please, re-phrase your statement. Now back to your topic, I do agree that Ragini should know that her mother is sick. Whether that comes from Vinu, Vasu or Sadhna herself. I think it isn't Sadhna's only responsibility to make sure that Ragini knows, its also Vinu's and Vasu's responsibility that Ragini be informed. So to blame Sadhna alone is unfair. Secondly, Ragini has met her mother already and has realized that she is not feeling well. She should be following up on her mothers health on her own as well. In yest show, she wanted to go personally meet her mother for her blessings, but because Vasu said no indirectly, all she made was a call. Why would you not object to that with your MIL? There is a difference in getting blessings in person then over the phone. And what trouble is Vasu talking about, they live in the same city, and Ragini has practiced for hours on a twisted ankle, I think she has troubled her self enough. Those are obvious things that Ragini should have said when Vasu told her to call instead. So what is in for Ragini's character is beyond us viewers thinking, CTs are creating something for her, and we will have to just wait and watch.......

Originally posted by: Veritas

Well then mamaji should try and get the money on his own ,if he is not capable to get it then he should either lose his ego or lose his wife.
ANd I wonder where Vinu spends all his salary.They guy gets a salary of 50000 in a place like Agra,lives with his parents and has no big expenses
What did he do with all that money .
He should have arranged it from somewhere or maybe pawned Malti's jewelery.And if all failed ,he should have told Ragini/Ranvir.
Both Vinu and Sadhna's behavior is inexcusable.

Originally posted by: dharaa

@taral, i agree with u completely. Only Ragini's not siding with the truth in the court was justified other than that, every single thing shown was illogical. The only good thing abt this track was showing Ranvir as the only sane and sensible character left in the show. Right now all I want is to see SaGini together. Enough of misunderstandings and stuff. Now I really want to see some happy times in the foursome's life.

Originally posted by: agun

Dharaa - I want the creatives to think about a good way to redeem Ragini before their union.....that is the call of the hour....Even if Ragini loses the mahotsav to make Sadhna win for the money...she is not doing it for Sadhna..She is doing it for her mother....so there is no way they can redeem her by just showing that. Ragini has dismissed a 20 year old relation and there should be solid reason why she wants that relation back....a person cannot disown thier sibling one fine day say them 100 things and cannot hug them the next day saying "Sorry"...it wont work that way in reality.

Originally posted by: agun

I agree with you on Vinu's behaviour.....it is definetly not acceptable....but Sadhna being wrong is compeltely not true in my POV.

Any girl in her position would never go for help to a family in which every member have used her and thrown her out....Why should she go to Ragini when Ragini doesnt want to see her. Vinu who knows the whole situation should have informed Ragini. Sadhna as any person with an iota of self respect grabbed at the oppurtunity of the dance comepetition and is working hard to make it work. Only because she thinks about her sister (even now after all the drama) she made sure her sister's name is not in the list of participants.

Ragini should have followed up on her mother after she saw her sick....yes she was upset when she knew that her mom didnt tell her but what did she do about it....she didnt follow on her...visit her or even talk to her brother or father about it.....

Why do we expect only Sadhna to beg and be humiliated in Bidaai for other's happiness...is that the only way......I am very happy that for a change she thought to not beg any body for money...