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Ganga

@Avatarana09

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#11

Respect lies in the heart.

When Abhi was asked to comment about Nakul, he gave his opinion that Nakul was a decent guy. It shows he does respect him.

Respect can be commanded not demanded. It doesn't make sense if you dont respect and simply call them Bhaiya,Didi.

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Laila Banu

@Laila2009

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: iamindian

NO IT'S NOT! U CANNOT CALL ELDERS BY NAMES IN INDIA..... ABHI HAD BEEN TO AMERICA DOESN'T MEAN HE'LL TRY TO TURN INDIA INTO AMERICA WHERE EVEN THEY CALL FATHER-IN-LAW & MOTHER-IN-LAW BY NAMES!😳 THESE MIGHT BE COMMON AND APPRECIATED IN AMERICA BUT NOT IN INDIA AND FOR YOUR INFO. KAROL BAUGH IS IN INDIA NOT AMERICA😉

EVERY COUNTRY N SOCIETY HAS ITS NORMS AND ONE SHOULD FOLLOW THOSE.... HE SHOULD KNOW HOW TO BEHAVE WITH WHOM N I THINK IT'S PERFECTLY OK THAT NAKUL'S RECTIFYING HIS YOUNGER BROTHER EVERY TIME..!!

WOW, you definately have an anti-west streak there. First and foremost, my siblings and cousins address me by my first name. Some kids in the community call my by my first name while others call me "Laila" Baji or Apa. I am not picky. I called my boss who was a Dr and old enough to be my mother by her first name - she asked me too as well. My staff also calls me by my first name. Calling someone by their first name is not disrespectful. You gain respect in your character and your actions not simply by being an elder or by your status.

By the way, in the US, everyone calls their parents by mom and dad. I have never encountered a case where someone called their parents by their first name. In-laws is a complex situation for them and often they do start calling them by their first name or address them as Mr. and Mrs. It's part of their culture and not a sign of disrespect.

To me its a mute point if Abhi calls Nukul Bhaiya or not. It doesn't matter to me.

All socities have norms and values by the way and there are some that India has that are not healthy.

By the way, you do need to refrain from the capitals because it is considered as shouting in the world of IT communication. Did you know that? If you did, then you do need to stop.

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Bun Maska

@bunmaska

Dazzler

Posted: 16 years ago

#13

Nakul forgets that you command respect and cannot demand respect....

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ramas

@ramas

Alumni

+ 5

Posted: 16 years ago

#14

i forgot to mention this Me and my siblings called my mom by her first name because my dad and grandma called her that and being first born I learned that from them in childhood and no one stopped us, till I was 13 and visited my mausi for a month with my mom she was very old fashioned and scolded me every day and every time till I started calling my mom, mommy .

That does not mean I respected my mom less before .

calling mother by her first name out of love is not disrespcet to her by any means,

. Nakul should stop this as it is irritating to demand respect from abhi for himself and simi. I mean many ppl called there wife ji but abhi prefers to call her simi and not simiji. so why force him.

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neetu

@_Neetu_

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: iamindian
Waah..!! That's COOL to call Your Elders By name..... GOOD-GOOD!! May be it's a New Trend in India Nowadays......

dear,

everyone had a different point of view i mean u can't be me and i can't be u ..so chill..u walk on ur track and i will walk on my track...u can't drag me or other to ur track..!!!😃

i m too an indian and india allow all citizens to live their life with freedom ...remembered 15 august.....india too got changed now..i know there are lots of customs bt that still does'nt mean that tie urself with so hard knot that we forget ourself and lost ourself..!!!

i m sorry i totally opposes u..!!!

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Malini

@Rumii

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#16

yeah,i understand....rather i'm trying to understand.... haven't heard or seen of this though where I have lived in India.....can't agree100% either with the views in support of Abhi's not saying Bhaiya as I prefer the 'traditional' ways.....

Edited by iamindian - 16 years ago

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neetu

@_Neetu_

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: iamindian
yeah,i understand....rather i'm trying to understand.... haven't heard or seen of this though where I have lived in India.....can't agree100% either with the views in support of Abhi's not saying Bhaiya as I prefer the 'traditional' ways.....

thats fine dear its ur track..i can understand... thats fine..i think its sucking now so we should all patch up and concentrate on other topics as there are lots more present .."ryt frendz"😉

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