My take on today's episode

I liked today's episode very much.... I like Akshara's father how he stood for his daughter. from yesterday's precap... I was sure about this.... this is mostly what happens or at least what i have seen happen between in-laws from both sides.... it was much less calmer.... or may be this is just the start....

what can you talk about in-laws.... there is always this question I think of .... Is being a husband gives you the right to take a decision which you feel is right? and Do wife's family members always have to listen to them and nod their head....fearing that things will become worst..?

When you are looking for a girl and you find a girl you like you go through their family status how they are everything you ask people around you ... about how they are....and then finally you decide that you will go ahead and marry that girl to your son.... and when some misunderstanding comes....?? all you have is ego towards those people that they did not listen to you and they have a different opinion about the situation.

What happend to all that age that you have gained.... haven't that taught you something.... in so many years that .... for once..... you can never think from the other person's point of view..... Alas... if everyone could think of from other person's point of view all this would never have come in the first place....

Today I saw the real saas behind all the maa's attitude in Gayatri.... arrre... those people you are talking to are your daughter-in-laws parents.... don't you think you should give them some credit when they say that their daughter is not like that... and for god sake they have come to talk to you to solve the issue and you are taking out all your vehmon that you have kept in your heart in front of them... has she said one thing even to slove the issue.... has she said.... I really want akshara back home.... wouldn't that one sentence satisfy rajashri.... but no.... and why that.... because they are the in-laws of the boy.... and weather it be their fault or not the girl's parents always have to listen to them and they should be able to command on girls parents....

In one episode Gayatri was saying to her husband... when I came to my sasural.... I was only allowed to go to my home only for one festival.... But when you feel bad you were not allowed to shouldn't you be more supportive of your daughter-in-law.... or couldn't you sit with her and explain that.... things are different.... How will akshara understand anything when no one tells her how things work in this house.... Gayatri keeps on scolding akshara for every fault she does but has she ever taken the time to explain and make her understand any of the thingsand try to understand her feelings or get to know what is really happening... no...and why? because... she is mother-in-law and what she thinks is right and everything else is wrong....... She keeps insisting on the point that her bahu should not go to her mayka.... are what's the big deal both houses are in the same town.... she will vist for an hour when she is free and come back.....

Has naitik even once stayed back in akshara's house... it is his house too.... he can stay back.... with her and come along with her in the morning.... ohh I know... because he is a boy and a girl should adjust to the boy and his family but a boy doesnot have to adjust.... why? because he is a boy? ..... he is the husband?

Today by taking a decision that both akshara and natik should talk to each other and listen to each other and solve the problem I have more respect for Vishambar than I had till now....

and why is dadaji angry with this decision, because he wanted akshara to come back without any of their family members having to talk about it.... or discuss about it and then if akshara comes back on her own...that means she was the one that did the mistake in the first place.... and is obeying by coming back... and what about all the .... things they said to her when she was staying here... ok they are angry.... you are showing your anger on her that she hid it from.... but she has been repeatedly asking for forgiveness.... she had been crying in your house all night and day... If you are really looking at her everyday... you would atleast go and wipe her tears.... and say.... this is not what we were expecting from you.... ok agreed.... but sit with her and your daughter and listen to them atleast.... and correct them where they went wrong....

When she was here every person in the house avoided her... she cried... when her husband was angry she still tried to explain to him.... and cried.... and still continued... when your own husband thinks that you committed a mistake for which your punishment is to go out of the house?..... and why? because it is his house? or because.... he doesn't want you in his life for the time being...? and when time is good and nice...he wants you back in his life..?....

For now this is all.... I will write more..... I really feel for akshara and how she is being treated.....

Guys, please leave your comments and discuss more about this.... I will be waiting for your comments.... I really felt deeply hurt.... about this... and wanted to discuss.... So please leave your comments....

Well said.... i like each and every word written.......today singhanias showed their true colours...their attitude.....how they r ignoring their sons mistakes....and only blaming their bahu....and gaya3 she is the expert in it......i think all these people r mad.....it will be good for akshara if she will stay in her home for some times....really i liked vishwambars opinion..

i hope the elders of the house solve the problem

U r so right. Acha hua. Agar aksh aa jaati to usse aur tang karte. Aur saari zindagi dominate karte. Now thT vish gave them his own desicion they got a blow but soon they'll be fine and treat her like a human. Waisy bhi divorce to Kara nahi sakte. Izzat and all bs. naitik khud hi kuch din baad puppy dog ki targa dumm hilaata jaye ga bulaane ke liye. Meanwhile nandini and mohit can do some crazy stuff and dadda ji can sharam se doob marega. Then vish can tell him atleast we give our kids freedom and happiness and in the end they respect our desicions more. Haha!!

this is the most realistic analysation .....i have ever read.............it is relly worth reading..........nd jahan tak rahi akshi ke sasuraal walon ki baat...........they all are bloody hopeless.....stupid......senseless.....nd...mean people

Meanwhile vish shuld try getting some self confidence back in akshara. Agar gayee thi mayke to gayee thee. Be confident. Saara din tension tension tension. If she wants to spend time wid her hubby why get scared and break a glass and all. Just go. Koi affair thoree chala Rahe thee. Gol gappe khaye to dil cha raha tha. big deal.she shuld b confident and naani and vish shuld work on that. They shuld all go for a vacation To thailAnd. while dadda ji can get as irritated as he wants.

today's episode proved that singhanias are neither cultured nor matured.. they talk about the sanskaar which they gave to their son, hope no one up-bring their child they way he was been brought up.. he is one of the uncultured character in the show, whom the family so proud of..

though they are from the same community there is lot of cultural difference, which i am quite surprised to know..

Nicely put Bunny!

Seriously all that akshara bashing that was going around that its her mistake blah blah .. true all that but there has to be a mature way of solving things.

Maheshwaris are getting one thing right, that its time to solve this and vish rightly put the finger on the problem, that the marriage between Akshi and Naitik is full of misunderstandings and they have to talk it out.

If Akshara were to return to her sasural what will happen?

They will go back to treating her like some dirt thats on their neat floor which they really cannot get rid off.

It would have been impossible for Naitik to think straight with g3, BM , DJ all of them fuming gasses at Akshi at the very sight of her.

now that she is away he would think about what he has gained and what he has lost.

I hope Nandani elopes with mohit (lol ok thats a bit extreme) but thats what will bring DJ to his right senses. But then they will blame akshara too.

THe only way this problem will be solved is if, nandani and mohit get married by convincing DJ and BM that they are meant for each other.

Only then this whole Akshara blaming episode will finish and they will probably even thank her for being responsible for their daughter's happiness.

( Mohit's mum is another issue, I do not wish nandani such a saas, its better if they move out and live separately)

Originally posted by: bunny_fun

I liked today's episode very much.... I like Akshara's father how he stood for his daughter. from yesterday's precap... I was sure about this.... this is mostly what happens or at least what i have seen happen between in-laws from both sides.... it was much less calmer.... or may be this is just the start....

what can you talk about in-laws.... there is always this question I think of .... Is being a husband gives you the right to take a decision which you feel is right? and Do wife's family members always have to listen to them and nod their head....fearing that things will become worst..?

When you are looking for a girl and you find a girl you like you go through their family status how they are everything you ask people around you ... about how they are....and then finally you decide that you will go ahead and marry that girl to your son.... and when some misunderstanding comes....?? all you have is ego towards those people that they did not listen to you and they have a different opinion about the situation.

What happend to all that age that you have gained.... haven't that taught you something.... in so many years that .... for once..... you can never think from the other person's point of view..... Alas... if everyone could think of from other person's point of view all this would never have come in the first place....

Today I saw the real saas behind all the maa's attitude in Gayatri.... arrre... those people you are talking to are your daughter-in-laws parents.... don't you think you should give them some credit when they say that their daughter is not like that... and for god sake they have come to talk to you to solve the issue and you are taking out all your vehmon that you have kept in your heart in front of them... has she said one thing even to slove the issue.... has she said.... I really want akshara back home.... wouldn't that one sentence satisfy rajashri.... but no.... and why that.... because they are the in-laws of the boy.... and weather it be their fault or not the girl's parents always have to listen to them and they should be able to command on girls parents....

In one episode Gayatri was saying to her husband... when I came to my sasural.... I was only allowed to go to my home only for one festival.... But when you feel bad you were not allowed to shouldn't you be more supportive of your daughter-in-law.... or couldn't you sit with her and explain that.... things are different.... How will akshara understand anything when no one tells her how things work in this house.... Gayatri keeps on scolding akshara for every fault she does but has she ever taken the time to explain and make her understand any of the thingsand try to understand her feelings or get to know what is really happening... no...and why? because... she is mother-in-law and what she thinks is right and everything else is wrong....... She keeps insisting on the point that her bahu should not go to her mayka.... are what's the big deal both houses are in the same town.... she will vist for an hour when she is free and come back.....

Has naitik even once stayed back in akshara's house... it is his house too.... he can stay back.... with her and come along with her in the morning.... ohh I know... because he is a boy and a girl should adjust to the boy and his family but a boy doesnot have to adjust.... why? because he is a boy? ..... he is the husband?

Today by taking a decision that both akshara and natik should talk to each other and listen to each other and solve the problem I have more respect for Vishambar than I had till now....

and why is dadaji angry with this decision, because he wanted akshara to come back without any of their family members having to talk about it.... or discuss about it and then if akshara comes back on her own...that means she was the one that did the mistake in the first place.... and is obeying by coming back... and what about all the .... things they said to her when she was staying here... ok they are angry.... you are showing your anger on her that she hid it from.... but she has been repeatedly asking for forgiveness.... she had been crying in your house all night and day... If you are really looking at her everyday... you would atleast go and wipe her tears.... and say.... this is not what we were expecting from you.... ok agreed.... but sit with her and your daughter and listen to them atleast.... and correct them where they went wrong....

When she was here every person in the house avoided her... she cried... when her husband was angry she still tried to explain to him.... and cried.... and still continued... when your own husband thinks that you committed a mistake for which your punishment is to go out of the house?..... and why? because it is his house? or because.... he doesn't want you in his life for the time being...? and when time is good and nice...he wants you back in his life..?....

For now this is all.... I will write more..... I really feel for akshara and how she is being treated.....

Guys, please leave your comments and discuss more about this.... I will be waiting for your comments.... I really felt deeply hurt.... about this... and wanted to discuss.... So please leave your comments....

Originally posted by: suchitra_1

Nicely put Bunny!

Seriously all that akshara bashing that was going around that its her mistake blah blah .. true all that but there has to be a mature way of solving things.

Maheshwaris are getting one thing right, that its time to solve this and vish rightly put the finger on the problem, that the marriage between Akshi and Naitik is full of misunderstandings and they have to talk it out.

If Akshara were to return to her sasural what will happen?

They will go back to treating her like some dirt thats on their neat floor which they really cannot get rid off.

It would have been impossible for Naitik to think straight with g3, BM , DJ all of them fuming gasses at Akshi at the very sight of her.

now that she is away he would think about what he has gained and what he has lost.

I hope Nandani elopes with mohit (lol ok thats a bit extreme) but thats what will bring DJ to his right senses. But then they will blame akshara too.

THe only way this problem will be solved is if, nandani and mohit get married by convincing DJ and BM that they are meant for each other.

Only then this whole Akshara blaming episode will finish and they will probably even thank her for being responsible for their daughter's happiness.

( Mohit's mum is another issue, I do not wish nandani such a saas, its better if they move out and live separately)

I agree with you totally if Akshara just goes back they will go back to ganging up on her and naitik will go aorund with his one expression he seems to be having since this mohini stuff. if Nandani does get married to mohit and her saas treats her like how gayatri and to some extent bhabi ma treat aksh then they singhania zoo might realise thant jaise karni vaise bharni. What they don't realise is that even thye have daughters and they too will be in the postion that maheshwari's are in right now, they are the girl's family.
I hate they way rajshri is when she speaks to gayatri and Bhabi maa, she's also ways stutring and say 'jee agar aap ko sahi lage to, jee nahi,jee main to asie hi kera hai ho...e.t.c. if thye can show attiutde to maheshwaris then maheshwaris should show thier confidence. I agree with the Topic Starter, just because you are the girls family doesn't mean you have less respect then the boy's side and i agree, naitik should to spend time with aksh's family why is it that she has to adjust all the time its like they are trying to change her as a person.
one more thing that gaytri said to rajshri today angered me.. she said that akshara ka mann wahi rehta hai, rajshree ben apne to hum apna lekin akshara.. well since when did you apno akshara? you always say tumahre yaha aise hoga par yaha nahi hota..when did you make her feel like she is a family member and not paraya. they expect her to do house work and take on responsiblity, when she did (redoing her bedroom) gayatri didn't support at all infact she was against it and was kinda wishing naitik wouldn't like it and she siad 'dekhan muuna ko pasnad nahi ayaga e.t.c..henece get annoyed with akshara. whats with the negative attitude? When someone tries to do something good something postive you should encourage it. since akshara's come to the zoo they have mde her feel like everything she does is a mistake.
there rant over!😆