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parisbynight

@parisbynight

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Posted: 15 years ago

NOTE : this is not a bashing against anyone so please dont take it too heart...its just what i felt when i tried to relate the mjht situation to me in real life...

Bui was shocked to know nupur was in love with mayank.She called her various name ,blaming her that she was putting shame to the family and so on...gungan was listening..sometimes trying to defend her sister but nothing much...

Then Bauji came... he was dumb enough to think mayank was another sort of flirty guy...he blamed his daughter for putting shame on his education...for disrespecting him..for not being a good daughter...he hates her for loving mayank...and he thinks nupur has purposely hurt him...again gungan might have defended her sister and mayank once or twice but nothing more...

Moral of the story,in Bauji eyes,gungan is the perfect daughter who can never dare to do anything wrong while nupur is bashed laft right for being wrong !!

So Im very upset with gungan,I mean she should have told about her and samrat too...come on..she is in love with a guy too... she knows her father think she isnt doing anything as such so i think she sould have said it..i mean at least it would have reduced the insults eh throws to nupur..maybe the father would have realized that there is nothing wrong in being in love..and both his daughters are seriously in love and not just messing arround.

I mean if i was nupur and all that happened with me..i would have been mad at my sister for freely and happily being and romancing with her boyfriend while I have been disown from the family despite religiously marrying my lover.

i dont know if any of you understand my point of view but yeah....

do share your feelings about it....!!

Edited by DramaholicVibes - 15 years ago

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wickedangel

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Posted: 15 years ago

i am sorry but i dont agree with you at all...so you are saying that if nupur is miserable about this then what will make her happy is if gunjan is miserable along with her?....i really dont think nupur is sad because her dad thinks that gunjan is perfect....that has nothing to do with this whole situation..nupur is sad cuz her dad doesn understand her..its not a competition between the two sisters...she would never want her sister to suffer like her cuz she loves gunjan as much as gunjan loves her....and how can gunjan tell her dad about samrat right now...isn this problem big enough...what is the use of makin it even bigger and worse?..that wont solve anything....gunjan knows that ofcourse she will have to tell her dad about samrat soon but right now when he is already down and angry is not the time for it....that would make this situation worse for both sisters not better...and seeing gunjan in the same boat as her will only make nupur sad...not happy......no offense...

Edited by gina87 - 15 years ago

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aswathy

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Posted: 15 years ago

i can partially relate to u...

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parisbynight

@parisbynight

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Posted: 15 years ago

what you wrote is true also..but from nupur's pint of view...i know nupur would want her sister to be in the same position...but they should have shown gungan at least think or attempt to tell her father about samrat...
i mean it worse for the father to know later on that gungan had kept quiet about her boyfriend all this long,espc that samrat was there with her all along wedding, dont you think he will be like gungan played along with my feelings...at least nupur faced the reality...she at last accepted defeat and was ready to marry raj also for her father's sake..but she never lied about her true feelings and thats what i love about her...be honest with your parents...they might hate you at that moment but later they will realize that my kid never put in in the dark..and was honest with me... dont you think??

Edited by parisbynight - 15 years ago

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ramramramram

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: parisbynight
what you wrote is true also..but from nupur's pint of view...i know nupur would want her sister to be in the same position...but they should have shown gungan at least think or attempt to tell her father about samrat...
i mean it worse for the father to know later on that gungan had kept quiet about her boyfriend all this long,espc that samrat was there with her all along wedding, dont you think he will be like gungan played along with my feelings...at least nupur faced the reality...she at last accepted defeat and was ready to marry raj also for her father's sake..but she never lied about her true feelings and thats what i love about her...be honest with your parents...they might hate you at that moment but later they will realize that my kid never put in in the dark..and was honest with me... dont you think??

I agree with you about the point that she should not have kept her father in the dark but at that time Samrat and Gunjan were not even properly talking to each other so how can she take such a big step. Also if she told her father about samrat then who would support Nupur and help her bacause she would have broken down herself. And lastly being a sister myself i can feel at the moment she wanted her sisters problem to be solved so how can she be selfish and put her problems forward.

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aa123.80

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: parisbynight
what you wrote is true also..but from nupur's pint of view...i know nupur would want her sister to be in the same position...but they should have shown gungan at least think or attempt to tell her father about samrat...
i mean it worse for the father to know later on that gungan had kept quiet about her boyfriend all this long,espc that samrat was there with her all along wedding, dont you think he will be like gungan played along with my feelings...at least nupur faced the reality...she at last accepted defeat and was ready to marry raj also for her father's sake..but she never lied about her true feelings and thats what i love about her...be honest with your parents...they might hate you at that moment but later they will realize that my kid never put in in the dark..and was honest with me... dont you think??

I'm sorry to interrupt... But wasn't Nupur contemplating running away with Mayank a few days back? Was that what you call facing reality?
And Nupur did not tell Bui about their relationship but they were caught by her on the phone. To make matters worse, her father caught them talking about running away.And how was she honest? She was the one who made the whole plan to act like Phool and not Nupur in front of Adhiraj who was, in fact sent by Bui to Mumbai. So yes, she did keep her family in the dark.

Edited by aa123.80 - 15 years ago

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parisbynight

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: sayankgunur

I agree with you about the point that she should not have kept her father in the dark but at that time Samrat and Gunjan were not even properly talking to each other so how can she take such a big step. Also if she told her father about samrat then who would support Nupur and help her bacause she would have broken down herself. And lastly being a sister myself i can feel at the moment she wanted her sisters problem to be solved so how can she be selfish and put her problems forward.

i really like what you said but its strange how people think differently...you see i started this topic because i was thinking..being a sister..i would hate my father to praise me or even think that only my sister is wrong(even if i disagree with him) i would feel bad and i would tell him that even i am in love with a guy so in that case im wrong too..i wouldnt be able to stand there and act as if i have no one in my life..i would have felt selfish....

its like my dad scold my sister for failing her exam and i know thta i failed as well but my father doesnt know...if i stand and watch it would make me feel selfish for not admitting that i too have failed...
dont know if i make sense...

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parisbynight

@parisbynight

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Posted: 15 years ago

Originally posted by: aa123.80

I'm sorry to interrupt... But wasn't Nupur contemplating running away with Mayank a few days back? Was that what you call facing reality?

reality in the sense that she admitted that she loved mayank only...
(running away solution was stupid of her...thankfully she had mayank and sajan to explain her this was wrong..)