Ragini and Mamaji

Originally posted by: Omshanti1111

Actually, I feel Ragini is passing through the worst phase of her life. Her pain has made her completely ignorant of good and evil. She can be upset with Sadhna, but she cannot doubt the love of her father. I am wondering the day she realises, she will hate herself, she does not need others to say bad... she herself will be in a very bad shape for all her behaviour.... I think this will bring her thoughts back to right track.

Originally posted by: Veritas

Ragini is a gone case after the miscarriage.
But frankly speaking Mamaji's behavior surprises me.
He hasn't been to jail even once to visit Ranvir.
Granted he is angry at the Rajvansh's ,but it not Ranvir's fault and he is his son in law.That is immediate family man.
Another thing he stopped Sadi from visiting Ranvir but he should know that will increase misunderstandings between Sa-Gini.Parents don't do that ..ego/self respect shouldn't count when your family is in trouble.

Originally posted by: chocolover89

Ragini has tolerated sharmaji's insult from Vasu before as well after she got married so it's not really anything new.

Yes, it will be really wrong if Ragini decides to doubt her father's love, but honestly it's not like Mamaji has been the best dad lately. In fact, imo he's not even close to it.

As a parent, he should try to knock some sense into Ragini but I don't even think he's bothered to properly share her pain since the hospital scene (please correct me if I am wrong, I haven't actually watched an episode of bidaai properly since a few weeks now). He knows that the people surrounding Ragini right now-Kaushi, Vasu- hate Sadhna and blame her, so it should be no surprise if they try to brainwash Ragini and since Ragini is going through a lot and is unable to think for herself and is falling for their words, he shuld try to make her understand. That's waht parents do, when their child is on the wrong path, they try to bring them on the right path. And honestly, Ragini has always listened to her father. I'm sure if he really tried, she would undertsand. Even if he doesn't want to go to RH, he should try to meet Ragini to not only knock some sense into her, but also to share her pain. What's really surprising is that he has not even once bothered to visit Ranvir in jail and offer words of encouragement. I'm sure he can't be that busy right?

Also, when 2 of your children are fighting, then you should try to resolve that fight but Sharmaji, even if unknowingly, is adding to Sagini's misunderstandings by not allowing Sadhna to meet ranvir. He, as an adult, should have known better and just let Sadhna go. After all, she was only going to meet his own son-in-law, not some lawyer for Ranvir or something.

Alok Nath's character is remembered everywhere as a mamaji, and he has again and again proved to be the BEST in that. I just wish that he would also remember that his own blood daughter is also going through a lot.