Originally posted by: navtour
I've been looking at some of the posts.
and its kinda sad to see that EVERYONE is taking ABHI's side.
No one is thinking about SIMI.
and everyone is calling her names like WEAK and SELFISH.
Well I just do not agree to this.
I think SIMI is only NAIVE and thats the reason why she can not stand up for her HAPPINESS.She's too bonded by responsibilities towards her family: First as a DAUGHTER and second as a SISTER thatshe chose to put her third role as a GIRLFRIEND on the side first while trying to resolve other issues.
She is thinking bout her FAMILY's HAPPINESS first before thinking about her own HAPPINESS and that definitely DOES NOT MAKE HER SELFISH.
She has such a good heart that everyone can FOOL her with their FAKE TEARS.
and i think its HUMAN NATURE that you think about your FAMILY first before you think about your BOYFRIEND.
Its sad to think that just because ABHI is the underdog at this moment
thats why EVERYONE is taking his side.
Just like in the reality shows were in PEOPLE win due to SYMPATHY votes.
i think ABHI is cute and charming but we should also try to put RATIONALE on Simi's doings right now.
First, I do appreciate your efforts to present a different angle to the story, perhaps one that the writers intended, but have done a very poor job of conveying to the audience with the current storyline.
If Simi has responsibilites, what are they? She has no financial ones as her salary does not put a roof over the family's head so her not living at house would not matter. Second, she is not responsible for Anuj or his actions; it was her father's decision to throw him out and for a theft from which neither Anuj nor Anita wish to take responsiblity. Also, Simi does not do any major household chores; her mother and Neetu take of those. Finally, she is not responsible for Mili who is probably the one who can take care of herself better than the whole family.
So exactly what are Simi's responsiblities other than to get married? NONE.
Also, no-one is responsible for the happiness of another person. That is a fact of life. If you feel that it is your job, then good luck, because that's a burden that only a fool would undertake as you will do more harm to yourself. After all, to what degree will a person go to make someone happy? We have already seen Simi risk herself for Rajeev Bhala. It was only after she realized it would hurt her father did se stop. Was she sincerely willing to spend the rest of her life with that toad? I mean, she would have to sleep with the guy, was she willing to go to that degree? Amazing. And do you think anyone would have cared? But someone did, and that was Abhi (and Mili).
Also, if Simi has responsibilites with her family, they don't see it and are marrying her off to Nukul. If she has responsiblities to take care off, why doesn't she tell Nukul, sorry, I can't get married until I bring Anuj home, stop my mother from straving herself to death and making sure my knocked up sister gets married. She has not stalled this marriage at all, but went along with her father to meet the family and then said she had no idea why she was visiting them. Is she that much of a dunce?
A good hearted person is generous but not a fool nor a sucker. A good-hearted person does not use someone (as in the case of Abhi) and take them for a ride. A good-hearted person is just and fair. If Simi wants to put her family first, then be honest to Abhi and tell him that she will never be able to do anything for him and stop using him whenever she is upset or needs money. That's unfair and really does show a person as selfish.
Also,we should all strive for balance in life. When you have someone who is willing to put his life and time on the line for you, that person is a gem and no-one in life like that is worth losing. Abhi is even helping her family. If you cannot ber good to him, then as I wrote, let him go. To keep him hanging is wrong.
Based on these arguements to call Simi weak and selfish would actually be correct as this is how she is presenting herself hence the majority here have taken this view. I do not see any of us blindly supporting Abhi because he is the underdog, but because he is being treated unfairly and unjustly.
Let me also add, Simi is the one telling him all the time she needs to get out of her house, so Abhi has gone this far to make it possible and then she says "no." Family responsiblities will always remain even after you get married, the question is to find a partner who will understand it but Simi fails to see this in Abhi. If she sees it in RB and Nukul, she should just marry them and let's see Abhi embark on another romance.
At this point, if Simi was written out of the show, I wouldn't mind.
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