Is rajinder's decision correct?

Hello,I'm a new viewer of KarolB. I have been watching KB since pretty long.I saw today RSethi creates his will where he gives his house to his 3 daughters totally depriving his son. Agree that his son had done wrong but was rajinder's decision right? I'm a parent myself and children do make mistakes,even BIG mistakes and parents show them the right way,not kick hin out of the house for ever and leave him alone.. he could have given his son a strict warning or asked him to return the money or ordered him to ask for maafi but rajinder sethi seems to be an over impulsive parent to me.in this way he will not only lose his son but also destro anuj who could be brought to right ways by his parents. what r ur views?

Originally posted by: Anuuradha

Hello,I'm a new viewer of KarolB. I have been watching KB since pretty long.I saw today RSethi creates his will where he gives his house to his 3 daughters totally depriving his son. Agree that his son had done wrong but was rajinder's decision right? I myself have 2 grown up sons and children do make mistakes,even BIG mistakes and parents show them the right way,not kick hin out of the house and leave their son like rsethi. he could have given his son a strict warning or asked him to return the money or ordered him to ask for maafi but rajinder sethi seems to be an over impulsive parent to me.in this way he will not only lose his son but also destro anuj who could be brought to right ways by his parents. what r ur views?

Anuj was also told clearly by his dad Tum Maag lethey paise would'nt I have given you !!

Children make mistakes and parents do forgive them and want all the happiness for their children but Anuj as an adult has done whatever he has done with full knowledge as to what he is doing is never somthing RS would think of forgiving !!
He dose'nt deserve the house or anything to do with RS's propertly unless he comes and apologizes and repents for what he has done!!

At an age where parents see some hope in their children and espically the Son of the house if he does somthing to hurt them then they will be hurt for the rest of the ir life atealst RS

RS is correct in his decision as there is no telling what AA will do to get hold of hi property. This way Anuj will know that he is disown by his dad for his wrong doing. and may be he will learn lesson. RS is not completely disowning him he is giving him a shop. So he is right in his decison as anuj is not worthy of getting anything but few slaps and kicks from both parents.

Yes,it's Important that Anuj comes and begs for forgiveness BUT I'm not sure what Rajinder will say;I believe that parents have a much greater role than children in the Parent-Children relationship. Like the saying goes You are what you eat,so it is with the parents & their children.How the children have been brought up depends on parents. I found Rsethi to be partial with Anuj, Manju is wrong but she was also shocked to hear her son had stolen,Manju only wanted to stop anuj from leaving 12/24 Karol Bagh. I wish RSethi had shown some more love & confidence towards anuj like he does with simi and mili(again,Neetu is going the wrong way as she feels less loved by her parents and taunted as jhalli ) if there was a strong father-son 'bonding' then anuj wouldn't have felt insecurev and haven't heard to his wife about stealing his parents' money!

I think RS is right.

Its so simple and doesnt need any explanation. YES RS is right throwing that dirt bag and young witch out of 12/24.

I had a somewhat same view that Rajinder's beahaviour including taunting his son was resposible for Anuj's weak character. even when anuj tried to help his papaJi Rajinder has always taunted him referring to Anuj as ManjuJi's beta😳

I agree with you, it's a big step, and he is only isolating him further. Afterall Anuj is his son, and not a tranger, for how long can he stay away from him. He has over reacted.

I agree Anuj is wrong big time but he wasn't like that always, once Anita came he got bad ideas from her. So he should be given one more chance, if that doesn't work either, then he can give all his property to his daughters.

Originally posted by: iamindian

I had a somewhat same view that Rajinder's beahaviour including taunting his son was resposible for Anuj's weak character. even when anuj tried to help his papaJi Rajinder has always taunted him referring to Anuj as ManjuJi's beta😳

It's true that how children turn out to be depends a lot on parenting. I

If a child lives with ridicule, He learns to be shy.

If a child lives with shame, He learns to feel guilty.

Isn't that what Anuj is? Manju Ji is not right in taunting her daughters,similarly Rajinder has also done a lot of harm to Anuj's character by continuous taunting.After all Parenting is Not easy!