Is rajinder's decision correct? - Page 2

NAVTOUR- First of all, u only TAUNT someone if he or she is WRONG now about MANJU, she always TAUNT Simi for no reason at all.... Isn't that contradictory in itself....😳HUH..?? Actually parents do taunt a particular kid because the parent prefers the other kid... U know,Parents are humans after all.... it's not that they're right all the time .... If Anuj has been selfish ,tell me why did Milli go to fight with her brother about taking away all the money that milli could've used to go to london..??Wasn't that selfish too????????????? How about Neetu????????????? I haven't seen Rajinder after Neetu like he's been after Anuj.... and frankly speaking if you see around ,do you see 100% perfect Sons?? I personally DID NOT SEE ANUJ TO BE SO BAD till he started getting Anita's Evil ideas........ Actually I think NEETU is also a very practical example..... Well,isn't Simmi li'l selfish nowadays?? She knows Very well that Rajinder is proceeding talks with Nakul Singh's family.... what'll happen to Rajinder's honour if Nakul comes to know later that she was just acting with him n she had an affair with His younger Cousin Abhi secretly..?? What'll Nakul's Dadi say who's even given her Bangles?? They seem to be such good people at least till date...... WHAT DID SALONI of SAAT PHERE do in such situation was RIGHT.... She liked Neel but as her parents wanted her to get married to Nahar,she followed her parents' wish n married Nahar .... Isn't it true that SIMI's RELATIONSHIP with ABHI,Who's Younger than her Younger brother is WEIRRRRD????

SUMMARY IS NOBODY IS PERFECT .... Kids are good or bad , a mixture of Good and Bad but they're kids and it's parents' job to MEND them,teach them the right ways...n Please don't say ANUJ is Not a kid anymore.... In india parents show us ways till THEY live.....

Originally posted by: iamindian

NAVTOUR- First of all, u only TAUNT someone if he or she is WRONG now about MANJU, she always TAUNT Simi for no reason at all.... Isn't that contradictory in itself....😳HUH..?? Actually parents do taunt a particular kid because the parent prefers the other kid... U know,Parents are humans after all.... it's not that they're right all the time .... If Anuj has been selfish ,tell me why did Milli go to fight with her brother about taking away all the money that milli could've used to go to london..??Wasn't that selfish too????????????? How about Neetu????????????? I haven't seen Rajinder after Neetu like he's been after Anuj.... and frankly speaking if you see around ,do you see 100% perfect Sons?? I personally DID NOT SEE ANUJ TO BE SO BAD till he started getting Anita's Evil ideas........ Actually I think NEETU is also a very practical example..... Well,isn't Simmi li'l selfish nowadays?? She knows Very well that Rajinder is proceeding talks with Nakul Singh's family.... what'll happen to Rajinder's honour if Nakul comes to know later that she was just acting with him n she had an affair with His younger Cousin Abhi secretly..?? What'll Nakul's Dadi say who's even given her Bangles?? They seem to be such good people at least till date...... WHAT DID SALONI of SAAT PHERE do in such situation was RIGHT.... She liked Neel but as her parents wanted her to get married to Nahar,she followed her parents' wish n married Nahar .... Isn't it true that SIMI's RELATIONSHIP with ABHI,Who's Younger than her Younger brother is WEIRRRRD????

SUMMARY IS NOBODY IS PERFECT .... Kids are good or bad , a mixture of Good and Bad but they're kids and it's parents' job to MEND them,teach them the right ways...n Please don't say ANUJ is Not a kid anymore.... In india parents show us ways till THEY live.....

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Originally posted by: iamindian

NAVTOUR- First of all, u only TAUNT someone if he or she is WRONG now about MANJU, she always TAUNT Simi for no reason at all.... Isn't that contradictory in itself....😳HUH..?? Actually parents do taunt a particular kid because the parent prefers the other kid... U know,Parents are humans after all.... it's not that they're right all the time .... If Anuj has been selfish ,tell me why did Milli go to fight with her brother about taking away all the money that milli could've used to go to london..??Wasn't that selfish too????????????? How about Neetu????????????? I haven't seen Rajinder after Neetu like he's been after Anuj.... and frankly speaking if you see around ,do you see 100% perfect Sons?? I personally DID NOT SEE ANUJ TO BE SO BAD till he started getting Anita's Evil ideas........ Actually I think NEETU is also a very practical example..... Well,isn't Simmi li'l selfish nowadays?? She knows Very well that Rajinder is proceeding talks with Nakul Singh's family.... what'll happen to Rajinder's honour if Nakul comes to know later that she was just acting with him n she had an affair with His younger Cousin Abhi secretly..?? What'll Nakul's Dadi say who's even given her Bangles?? They seem to be such good people at least till date...... WHAT DID SALONI of SAAT PHERE do in such situation was RIGHT.... She liked Neel but as her parents wanted her to get married to Nahar,she followed her parents' wish n married Nahar .... Isn't it true that SIMI's RELATIONSHIP with ABHI,Who's Younger than her Younger brother is WEIRRRRD????

SUMMARY IS NOBODY IS PERFECT .... Kids are good or bad , a mixture of Good and Bad but they're kids and it's parents' job to MEND them,teach them the right ways...n Please don't say ANUJ is Not a kid anymore.... In india parents show us ways till THEY live.....

My final words on this Topic is I Agree with GUR N COOL's post...... I do not agree to the fact that Rajinder is against Anuj's coming home.... if he expects Anuj to ask for forgiveness,he needs to let his son at least come face to face ...... I've seen such problems in lots of families but fathers DO Not handle the problem as Rajinder is doing.... ie.... Isolating n Ignoring Anuj totally..... Parents generally try to bring children back in the right path..... AND TO ME THAT'S RIGHT !!!!!

Originally posted by: iamindian

My final words on this Topic is I Agree with GUR N COOL's post...... I do not agree to the fact that Rajinder is against Anuj's coming home.... if he expects Anuj to ask for forgiveness,he needs to let his son at least come face to face ...... I've seen such problems in lots of families but fathers DO Not handle the problem as Rajinder is doing.... ie.... Isolating n Ignoring Anuj totally..... Parents generally try to bring children back in the right path..... AND TO ME THAT'S RIGHT !!!!!

I do NOT agree with RS' decision to remove him from the will. But I don't agree only because this was an act done purely based on emotions which are high in rage at this time from what Anuj did as well as what Mr. Tanejay said about selling 12/24. And from experience of others around me, any actions done in extreme rage and done quickly without thinking later turns out to be a bad decision.

I would have liked RS to allow Anuj to come home, not to live but to ask for forgiveness. After which RS should forgive him. This doesn't mean that Anuj would get a free ticket back home. I'm a Christian so I believe that we are supposed to forgive all who do wrong against us just as God has forgiven us for all the wrong we do to him. But God doesn't say to forgive means that the person can be your best friend. It just means that the you are no longer angry or revengeful towards that person.

I agree with other members that the upbringing of these children has been done incorrectly .. with Manju always taunting/yelling at her daughters and RS always taunting/yelling at his son. That would have an affect on how the children behave later on for sure. And the fact that Manju and RS are going their own ways and not being a team also allows full freedom for the kids to go their own ways because they see this as okay. Also I don't think Simi should be hiding so many things about her siblings from her parents. I once did post that I did the same thing with my siblings but for small things. If it was something big I would convince them to tell our parents for sure. She is also hiding things from her own sister, Mili who has supported her, which she shouldn't do either.

WOW,SUR AUR TAAL,That's a Matured View of yours.... Love it👏

RS is correct in his decision .