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Posted: 15 years ago
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I am sorry but I have to say this track is very unrealistic at the moment.If the sole purpose of the CT's is to show the rift they could have done so without changing the basic characteristics of one of the leads.Its simply unbelievable the way she was unable to grasp even his father's wisdom and words when she herself placed her parents esp her father above all.It was shown to us several times in the last 2 years and all of a sudden that accounts for nothing?!She faced many problems before but never once did she disrespect her father till now.So its hard for me to believe when people say after marriage husband would be the only main realtion and all other relations become secondary.Personally as an average girl myself I have never experienced it and I don't see it from the people around me and if people are like that indeed in RL I pity them cos every relation should have its own place.Personally I find it hard to even understand that logic.The father who brought you up for 20 odd years is nothing to you when compared to your husband?!I would have loved it if Ragini still retained that aspect.But hey,she lost her identity of 2 years in just a few weeks time and this is just another aspect of it.I wonder how they are gonna bring back to her old self again!!Cos it will really look weird if she starts sprouting all those heavy dialogues which are trademark dialogues for mamaji and Sadhana and previous Ragini and strangely Ranvir's too


At the end of all this what becomes glaringly obvious is that they have destroyed the character of Ragini.If as an average girl this is gonna be her reaction they they should have built the character that way from the beginning with little bit of father and more of mother,then we could may be digest this behaviour.

Edited by smitha80 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: smitha80

I am sorry but I have to say this track is very unrealistic at the moment.If the sole purpose of the CT's is to show the rift they could have done so without changing the basic characteristics of one of the leads.Its simply unbelievable the way she was unable to grasp even his father's wisdom and words when she herself placed her parents esp her father above all.It was shown to us several times in the last 2 years and all of a sudden that accounts for nothing?!She faced many problems before but never once did she disrespect her father till now.So its hard for me to believe when people say after marriage husband would be the only main realtion and all other relations become secondary.Personally as an average girl myself I have never experienced it and I don't see it from the people around me and if people are like that indeed in RL I pity them cos every relation should have its own place.Personally I find it hard to even understand that logic.The father who brought you up for 20 odd years is nothing to you when compared to your husband?!I would have loved it if Ragini still retained that aspect.But hey,she lost her identity of 2 years in just a few weeks time and this is just another aspect of it.I wonder how they are gonna bring back to her old self again!!Cos it will really look weird if she starts sprouting all those heavy dialogues which are trademark dialogues for mamaji and Sadhana and previous Ragini and strangely Ranvir's too


At the end of all this what becomes glaringly obvious is that they have destroyed the character of Ragini.If as an average girl this is gonna be her reaction they they should have built the character that way from the beginning with little bit of father and more of mother,then we could may be digest this behaviour.

I appreciate your logic, but would like to state my POV.
Ragini has been always an average minded character, with mentalities of act of balancing, except for one or two instances, that too before marriage. Because I feel she was more influenced by Mamaji and Sadhna's character that time, than the others in the family. Post marriage, she has faced more evil people, who took advantage of her simple nature, she probably missed the continuous influence of her father. She has been framed as a simple girl, who gets influenced and thus misunderstood as she could not speak out (Db's episodes, sometimes even Malti tried to provoke her against Sadhna).Now I dont want to bring the creatives/destructives here. Also, Look at Vineet's character--Vineet was sort of furious at Malti's mom and then afterwards due to his affection for his month-old son, he is mistreating his mother, although Kaushi has been always loving towards Malti and her grandchild. This is hard-core reality. I am not saying this act of balancing is bad.
As per my topic, we have many morals in life, but it is actually proven, when one faces a real life situation. Sadhna could even speak a lie, more than anything else, her one lie would have made her a Goddess in her family's eyes.
Ragini's inner self is coming out when she is facing this trouble in life, which she never had done before. She is facing a real-life situation, when she has to decide whether her father is right or her love for Ranveer is right. She already made her decision. Now this decision might not be good in my eyes, but might be good for someone else. God Knows, what I might have decided also, if I am put in such a situation as I am also an average minded girl.
Anyways, Smitha I always like my discussions with you... as I like your ways of sentence framing and its always flawless grammatically. My laptop gets infected by spywares from this site and hence I am not active in the forum these days.
Edited by Omshanti1111 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thank God I haven't faced that kind of situations till now either(touchwood)and I agree we really wouldn't know how we would react when faced with that sort of situations.But I had hopes regarding Ragini's character esp after it was mentioned by RS himself at his blog.I am still waiting for his definition of 'STRONG' lol.

Call me naive or too trusting but Vinu's behaviour surprises me.How can a person change his colours at the drop of a hat?Situations again I guess but still...

Thanks Bani!!!Coming from you is really great indeed since I always feel that your way of phrasing, writing and your English is excellent. I have problems with this site too cos it always shows an fatal attack msg and I had to keep my anti-virus running all the time when I am here!!
Edited by smitha80 - 15 years ago

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