Pavitra Rishta Sucks in Many ways now - Page 3

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

@koolsadhu: Again I guess we have different views on this.. as I said to Tanyaz.. there is no doubt that if Archana asks Manav not to marry shravani she will be misunderstood... will it be any worse than what the situation already is... as I said, I want her to make it clear that she isn't saying this to save her marriage, she is ready to move out of Manav's life but doesn't want Manav to make the wrong decision and ruin his life... just like Damodar said... this is what will make Manav sit up and take notice that she still cares about him.. that she is ready to be the bad person to save his life and even Shravani's from what I call an emotional suicide... more than Archna tying a bandage on Manav's wounds.. this is what is going to affect him...it wud have come as a realisation of Archu's goodness and love just as it had been when Manav saved Varsha from disgrace even though he had to face Varsha's insults for the same..

Cos Archana walking away with a dignified silence and saying too much has gone wrong now... and nothing can be done attitude wont help matters here at all.. you are speaking of the scene at the chawl... Manav even though heartbroken and already signed the divorce papers got hope when she said she wanted to meet him... but the turn of events that day ruined everything.. even though things had gone wrong but still when his dad got evidence he got hope thinking he wud be able to save his sinking marriage.. at least prove his innocence (this when he knew Archana's wedding with Satish was fixed)... he didn't think that Archna is ready to move on in life now.. doean't care about me at all and probably I shud step back now... he thought of showing her the tape as one last attempt... and leave the decision to her. So why can't Archana do the same today???

Going separate ways here is going to spoil both their lives.. but Archana convincing Manav will solve most of the problems.. Manav will be convinced that Archana loves him...he will start trusting her.. and the rest of the things will fall into place. I dunno but I feel men are emotionally weaker and children within, they need love and care.. and it wud have been sweet to see Archana being Manav's support at this difficult moment... true to the title song

What we will be shown however, is Archana slowly getting convinced herself that Manav's decision to marry shravani is correct and a twist of fate. Who knows in the future she may be shown as herself telling Manav to go ahead with the marriage since she understands his 'situation'... that will be the day I'll shout 'What CRAP'

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I say the same here . Villians are getting away with murder . Look at Manjusha , she is getting exactly what she wants.

Savita, even after loosing her son, has not changed . Forget her being nasty to Archana , she is still on a mission to squeeze out more kurbaanis from Manav.

If she had her way she would sell him to the highest bidder.She is now a certified victim , hence even more dangerous.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

My dear nikita , the day Manav proposed to Shravani saying I will marry u was the day u shud have shouted 'what CRAP '.😆If you r gonna say ' what crap ' on the day Archana tells him to go ahead and marry Shravani ................the day her real unselfish nature , and some semblance of dignity as a woman is finally shown .............I wud find it really unfair . Strange that you dont find any of Manav's actions crappy but even the most noble of Archana's actions 'crap' .

Just look at it if u can from this point of view .

Savita has blamed Archana for Sachins death...........in the hospital , on his dead body , by visiting her house with a sari .Laid such tremendous guilt trips on that tongue tied girl . Kaka and Vandu hate her . Manav hates her too and it is Manav's personal wish to marry Shravani and to be part of that responsibility which isnt even his .

With what face , with what guts will archana or any girl in this case , when the divorce is in the final stages , even tell " Manav' you dont marry that girl ?" And pray , what earthly reason will she give for it , with what right when Manav has now taken all rights away from her ? The moment she does it , Manav will tell her u killed my brother and now u dont want me to set things right by taking responsibility ?

If she says the thing of what ur advocating ..........that it is unfair for two people to be locked in a loveless marraige , ur destroying ur own life and even Shravnis etc etc Manav will rebound and say Who the hell told u we r marrying for love ? We r marrying as a compro in the best interests of the child . The child wont get so much love from a total stranger like i wud love Sachins child , and Shravni is too making the child her priority . U see Archna , things have gone beyond control now , love and all have taken a backseat what looms ahead is only RESPONSIBILITY . That too ur telling me to deny , how horribly selfish you are ? Do u have any face whatsoever to even telll me this ? Under the name of ' protecting ' me ur telling me not to marry poor shravni........how convenient and womanly !

Not just that nikita , if u say that hey anyway they r all angry with Archana so whats this one more outburst , surely Archu can take this much too if her goal is noble ...............the question is , will she be listened to ? Even if Archana decides to brave this one more furrious outburst in effect will she be listened to ? Nope . So why open mouth and take this shit anyways ? Anyway he isnt going to listen , he is beyond listening . When person is not in a frame of mind to listen to reason , it is POINTLESS to even try and talk to the person as it WORSENS things .

But if she remains quiet , doesnt oppose to the marraige and is actually , keeping her womanly feelings aside , on a human level sympathetic to Shravani , her attitude will definetely affect Manav's hardened heart . He will understand what a gem she was and how grossly he misunderstood her .

If she quietly leaves him with Shravni at the end of the stay , some of her dignity will be restored for the poor girl has been humiliated enough for absolutely no fault of her own . Her character was stripped in public places , her relations with her own brother have been spoilt , she has been doomed to a life of no marraige and no children as she publicly declared her love for a man , and she has to watch her husband cold shouldering her and waiting hand and foot on a younger , pregnant girl . All for what ? Coz she didnt have the nerve to conjure up guts and talk to Manav ........two three times she ignored him and didnt talk to him ..............Big deal ! See the crime and see the ratio of her punishment ! And on the top , Manav fans want her to tell him Dont marry Shravni while Manav blasts her yet again and anyways goes ahead with his stupid actions .............in effect , Manav fans want her to have no dignity at all , they want her to grovel till the end before him !

And i ask .........Why ? Why the hell shud she suffer so much humiliation and to this degree yaar ? So two three times she didnt talk to ' poor Manav ' and sweetu Manav . For that why shud she be blamed for his brothers death , character assasinated , and subjected to the humiliation of watching her husband hovering around and waiting hand and foot on another woman under her nose ? Add to that , suffer the loathing of the full Deshmukh family as if she was vermin ? Was the Deshmukh family perfect ?

In my opinion as a viewer Archana has been humiliated ENOUGH . She shud regain her dignity by not opposing to the marraige and decide to focus on her education . I am sorry , I am not among those who just wants ARMAN moments any how , just getting them together SOMEHOW is not what pleases me as a viewer . If i see a woman who was just standing on her own feet , just getting back to studies constantly crying before a man for no fault of her own while he is in no mood to listen to reason and simply accepts her for old times sake , I feel anger as a viewer . The man has made some decisions , the woman now needs a spine as she too has been thru enough . Of course .........either the child is gonna die or Shravni , and Manav will eventually go back to her but I want Archana to have some dignity in this whole thing ............it can only be got by focussing on her studies , job , and giving the permission to marry Shravni .

Telling Manav not to marry Shravni will be the last tear in her dignity which has already been usurped horribly by Savita . Let the girl have some semblance of it . I understand ur point of ego not helping the situation it will only drive them apart but there is a fine line between ego and dignity here and Archana shud NOT be subjected to any more humiliation from Manav or Savita . Savita is playing the victim and Manav is playing the hero ...........the least they ccud show is her having some quiet dignity . And Manav seems to have controlled himself damn well when it comes to Girish . He hasnt blasted him or blamed him for being RUTHLESS .

Ur right nikita. our perspectives on this r diametrically opposite . But i like debating with u.........u understand in the proper spirit and u do not take offense and I do respect ur opinion although i view things diffrently .

totally, Pavitra rishta is getting bored nowadays. I do not like Manav with Sharavani. People want ARMAN together and they are drifting then apart MORE AND MORE.