Pavitra Rishta Sucks in Many ways now - Page 2

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Tanyaz thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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these stupid creatives. First she was unreasonable, now it is his turn .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nikita what bugs the hell out of me is Manav chose to forgive Girish but not understand Archana .It doesn't make sense and is unforgivable . If he is angry with Archana ok , but show same amount of anger towards Girish too . Its not there .
I hope Archana really accepts this decision , stays in the chawl till Varsha and Satish get back together , and walks away leaving them to face their miserable choices . If Manav is stuck in a miserable marraige today its coz of his own CHOICE . No one squeezed his arm . Let him be . If he forgave Girish and chose to be hard on Archu........he deserves all he gets .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@Tanyaz: Tanyaz do you think the decision to marry is fair, rational, anything at all?? Cos I don't think so at all. And neither do the rest of the Deshmukhs.
In a weak moment, Manav is taking what is probably the worst decision of his life.. he feels his brother lost his life cos of his wife.. he is worried abt Shravani's future... and so is clearly taking a wrong decision... this marriage is not an attempt to move on in life at all...if in such a moment Archna will not point out his mistake, then who will... this is the same man who supported her uptil now and kept fighting for his marriage... everyone knows how much he has helped her family today if he is taking a wrong decision shudn't she help him correct it, cos this decision doesn't guarantee anyone's happiness... nt even the baby's.. what the impact of a loveless marriage on the baby wud be when it grows up u can imagine.
This attitude makes Archu look selfish as she is neglecting the plight of shravani... but the attitude I actually want from her is..'I'm not here to save my marriage, but prevent Manav from ruining his life... he wants to forgive me or not is a different matter... I don't want him to make the wrong decision of ruining his and shravani's life.."... just like when Savita gave Manav divorce papers saying that Satish's wedding was fixed with Archu, Manav said that he wud sign the divorce papers when he was convinced that Archana was happy with Satish and wanted to move on in life with him, just like when Manav went through abuses from Varsha regarding Ashwin's matter, not cos he thought it wud help in bridging the gap between Archu and him but cos it wud ruin the life of Archana's sister.
Unfortunately, we won't be seeing this attitude from Archana, which makes me sad. I guess that she too has succumbed under pressure.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@koolsadhu: Even i'm surprised why no one is pointing out Girish's mistake in the whole affair.. he deserves the blame...

Awww... come on.. don't be too hard on the guy.. he's making a wrong decision... and I want Archana to help him realise it... just like he's helped her so many times before... if she leaves after that I'm ok with it... I'm just not ok with him marrying Shravani and getting trapped in a loveless marriage and thus paying the price of being a 'responsible' brother.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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nikita if Archana opposes the marraige for Manav's sake , she will be misunderstood as selfish by lots of people , including Manav and Savita . They will not understand the depth of her wisdom and say how convenient for Archana for Manav''s sake indeed she is opposing this marraige ! Khud toh kuch sukh diya nahi aur ab bhi tang ada rahi hai ........blah blah blah . I think best for her now is to keep a dignified silence and later walk away . leaving Manav with the residue of his choice . Besides Manav is in no mood to even listen to Archana. I sincerely hope they show her focussing on her stufdies and leaving those horrible DEshmukhs after the three months .........We viewers need a break .
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@koolsadhu....nice to see someone taking up Archu's case...everyone here is a Manav fan (so m I)...Archu is going thro' hell>2 ppl whom she trusts n luv (Manav & Vinod) apart frm her mum hve gone against without her fault....I mean c'mon she's just a victim of other ppl's plotting...poor girl doesn't deserve this

As u said the creatives hve almost killed Manav's character...yes he 2 is a victim of circumtances.....but how can he b so mean towards Archu.....Imean she wasn't driving the vehicle that killed Sachin fr heaven's sake...n wat abt Girish...infact he's the one who is directly responsible...rem' wen Sachin was in an inebriated condition Girish told him that the wedding is over....n in a desperate bid to save his luv he ran out of the house n got killed.C'mon cvs hve some sense we want the old Manav back...
I agree Archana has committed her share of mistakes but not as much as she's blamed for...or maybe Ekta wants to show her heroine as the all sacrificing mahaan aurat who even after so much hatred n mistrust luvs her husband a la Tulsi, Parvati etc
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@guptill

I m not saying that Manav has no right to be angry.. he has all rights in world to be angry with Archu.. But marrying some1 else I m sure Archu also would ahve said yes if same happened to her.. BUt thats not the point wat m saying that saying yes for other marriage is totally wrong no matter if that person is Manav or ARchu....

We kept on blaming Archu for not clearing out misunderstanding about Manav n not listening to him.. But now Manav is doing same thing he just doesnt want to clear nething n he too is avoiding Archu completely.. SO back then we blamed Archu now i guess its Manav turn he also just doesnt want to clear out nething n now getting read to marry again...

Wat I m trying to say that both are them are at fault before Archu was n now Manav is... He has right to be angry but has no right to get married again...
All m saying is that the original touch of show.. The love the emotion n unsaid love is lost now....

I m not saying Manav is wrong n Archu is right.. Both of them are at fault n in equal proportions...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Really interesting post/discussion going on here.

Your points are really thought-provoking, I would have never even thought of the fourth one if you hadn't written it.

The story right now is really frustrating me. These "twists" are so useless. They may seem to take the story further, but the real story has been stuck at the same point ever since Archana signed the divorce papers and then realized that she still loved Manav. I can't stand this Sachin is dead and Shravani is pregnant track, its not getting us anywhere. I understand that a show needs drama, but this is just so superfluous. I get that for a few days they show some rona-dhona and stuff, but I want to see something substantial and NOW. The "story" is getting pettier each day. At one point the main problem was Archana walking out on Manav when he was accused of being characterless. Then it changed to the divorce and Manav doubting Archana's relations with Satish. Okay, I understand until that point, as it was all still salvageable, but all of this drama in December is beyond me. Then the problem becomes that they were in jail and Archana was somehow responsible which made Manav hate her. Then the problem became that Sachin died, due to Archana of course, which increased Manav's hate. Now the problem is Shravani's pregnancy and Manav marrying her due to some overwhelming responsibility of his. I rarely say this but, WHAT THE HELL? All of those issues remain unsolved, along with all of Savita, Manjusha, Ajit, and Rasika's crimes, for which all four need to be punished.

I'm not so sure on which character's actions are "right" or "wrong" because I understand both sides of the argument and don't have much to add anyways. What I do know is that I want the above problems to be solved somehow. The truth about ALL of those situations and villains should unravel soon. Maybe not next week, but in a realistic timeframe. I also don't want to see anymore "problems". There are enough as there is and adding more twists will be even more useless. They need to work towards giving justice to both Archana and Manav's characters.

I realize that it is just a show and that most of this won't happen, but what I fail to understand is why the creatives wouldn't want to fix the problems that they have created. That can be dramatic too. Anymore "twists" and they'll probably start losing viewers. I don't want this show to lose its original charm (a path that it is already on).

I guess this doesn't have much to do with your original points, but I felt like this was the right topic to finally just say all of this in.

Edited by toothbrush13 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@koolsadhu: Again I guess we have different views on this.. as I said to Tanyaz.. there is no doubt that if Archana asks Manav not to marry shravani she will be misunderstood... will it be any worse than what the situation already is... as I said, I want her to make it clear that she isn't saying this to save her marriage, she is ready to move out of Manav's life but doesn't want Manav to make the wrong decision and ruin his life... just like Damodar said... this is what will make Manav sit up and take notice that she still cares about him.. that she is ready to be the bad person to save his life and even Shravani's from what I call an emotional suicide... more than Archna tying a bandage on Manav's wounds.. this is what is going to affect him...it wud have come as a realisation of Archu's goodness and love just as it had been when Manav saved Varsha from disgrace even though he had to face Varsha's insults for the same..

Cos Archana walking away with a dignified silence and saying too much has gone wrong now... and nothing can be done attitude wont help matters here at all.. you are speaking of the scene at the chawl... Manav even though heartbroken and already signed the divorce papers got hope when she said she wanted to meet him... but the turn of events that day ruined everything.. even though things had gone wrong but still when his dad got evidence he got hope thinking he wud be able to save his sinking marriage.. at least prove his innocence (this when he knew Archana's wedding with Satish was fixed)... he didn't think that Archna is ready to move on in life now.. doean't care about me at all and probably I shud step back now... he thought of showing her the tape as one last attempt... and leave the decision to her. So why can't Archana do the same today???
Going separate ways here is going to spoil both their lives.. but Archana convincing Manav will solve most of the problems.. Manav will be convinced that Archana loves him...he will start trusting her.. and the rest of the things will fall into place. I dunno but I feel men are emotionally weaker and children within, they need love and care.. and it wud have been sweet to see Archana being Manav's support at this difficult moment... true to the title song
What we will be shown however, is Archana slowly getting convinced herself that Manav's decision to marry shravani is correct and a twist of fate. Who knows in the future she may be shown as herself telling Manav to go ahead with the marriage since she understands his 'situation'... that will be the day I'll shout 'What CRAP'
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@koolsadhu:
I am not defending Manav or Archana... I just want to say that both of them are at faults, but more than that circumstances are wrong, no body is perfect, every1 commits mistake.... Manav anger is justified, but saying yes to marry shravani is wrong....
You are right that villains get away and death of sachin was useless..
i also posted sumwhere when i was missing scenes of sachin and vandu teasing manav in front of archana, now unfortunately, the real taste of PR is misssing, thats why i find it monotonous becoz not evwen single misunderstanding has been cleared.....'
@mitts:
Agree with you completely.....

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