Is it human to hate or is it perfectly okay?

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Is it human to hate or is it a failure on our part?
It seems pretty natural to have preferences and dislike for certain persons or things.
The strangest thing is that we seem to dislike and hate people even before meeting them.
So humans are basically created imperfect so that creation and destruction can take place.
Which means it is perfectly perfect to be imperfect.😆

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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think it is human to get any kind of bad feeling etc, but it is how one handles the feeling that makes one a gentleman or gentlewoman.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think Love and Hate are just like the negative and positive in electricity -- but it is electricity all the same....Hate is also a kind of love standing upside down...It happens for eg, we can forget your friend, bt we cannot forget our enemy. The enemy haunts you more than the friend....I think nobody pretends hate...but our mind capable to handle both...a small incident make people feel hate and love...all human behing are in middle of love and hate so it natural these kind of feel happen and its not permenant...😊

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: Summer3

Is it human to hate or is it a failure on our part?

It seems pretty natural to have preferences and dislike for certain persons or things.
The strangest thing is that we seem to dislike and hate people even before meeting them.
So humans are basically created imperfect so that creation and destruction can take place.
Which means it is perfectly perfect to be imperfect.😆



It's human to err. So, it's okay to hate someone if that someone has got you twisted. When someone ticks me off, I pretend to be indifferent. That's my way of showing hatred or disgust towards that person.
Yes, you can't please everyone. It's natural and completely human to rub some people the wrong way. I'd rather just be myself and not please everyone instead of actin like a goody two shoes, real or virtual.
Yup, perfection lies in all these little imperfections. Imperfection is what keeps the world going.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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life itself is a mystery.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think hate is a very strong emotion, very few people go to an extent of hating someone or being revengeful. Those who do have lots of time on their hands😆 and lots of clutter in their minds. Personally, I have seen people to be more forgiving. And who in the world has time to hate, its not even enough for loving someone so why to waste it;)
When I don't get along with someone then I just move on, no grudges, no hard feelings, just that I stop caring. Sometimes just a bad vibe is enough to tick me off, I am hot-tempered and I like patient people who can hear me bicker non-stop when I am not in a good mood, lol. I dislike people who take me for granted just because I am being nice to them or folks who are mean because they don't know any other way to behave and those too who are hyprocrites, back-stabber kinds. So yeah everyone has their own likes and dislikes and that doesn't mean they hate people they don't like😃
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: gumsum

I think hate is a very strong emotion, very few people go to an extent of hating someone or being revengeful. Those who do have lots of time on their hands😆 and lots of clutter in their minds. Personally, I have seen people to be more forgiving. And who in the world has time to hate, its not even enough for loving someone so why to waste it;)

When I don't get along with someone then I just move on, no grudges, no hard feelings, just that I stop caring. Sometimes just a bad vibe is enough to tick me off, I am hot-tempered and I like patient people who can hear me bicker non-stop when I am not in a good mood, lol. I dislike people who take me for granted just because I am being nice to them or folks who are mean because they don't know any other way to behave and those too who are hyprocrites, back-stabber kinds. So yeah everyone has their own likes and dislikes and that doesn't mean they hate people they don't like😃



@Bolded: That is sooo true. We often don't have time to spare for those who we love, let alone for those who we hate.
And if they do, they either have tons of loser time on their hands to kill or they're just taking the ones who they love for granted and are wayy too stupid to let hatred rule their life.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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When someone gives me dirty looks i smile back.

Anyhow, the answer for hate is not hate.
Edited by P1nk - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
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I think "hate" is a very strong emotion & used inapr many a time, when what we actually do is dislike something & not necessarily hate. A busy person usually has no time to indulge in neg feelings - at least not for long. As for an idle mind- it certainly is a devil's workshop ! My personal opinion is that by forgiving some1 we R actually doing a favour to our ownselves & not to the other person. Hating some1 means being preoccupied with a person we claim to dislike - is it worth it to let that person rule ur mind , emotion ? I agree its quite common to hate but one must try & rise above it for ones own good. Those who love themselves better not waste time hating others !😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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^^

naah its just the wrong usage of the word...

its okay to say you hate something.. you cant compromise your other work to sit and check if you've used the right words.

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