In such a case it is my opinion that the parents shud just let the son go , realising he has grown up and his life has started .
Whether his wife is right or wrong is not the issue here . The real fact is the parent's' role in their sons life is over .............he is learning to stand on his own in the world and has a blood family of his own and needs to branch out . This is how it always was.........even in the animal kingdom .
What remains is his responsibilities towards his parents......seeing to it that till the end they do not lack for food or medical attentiion . The emotional part varies with everyone according to their individual upbringing . Sometimes the emotional bonding is so strong that inspite of living seperately till the end that bond remains . Sometimes , duties r done , but emotionally the son outgrows his parents and bluntly finds more pleasure in his wife's company , his own children and sometimes even the wife's family whom he finds attractive for various reasons of his own . Like for instance , if his own parents r too strict , too traditional , too rigid and the wife's parents r more fun loving , jolly , modern in their outlook , if he can joke around with his brother in laws and sister in laws ..........he will simply not miss his own family as such . Each relation in this world is outgrown at some point or the other is the sad but true fact of life .
Manjusha is an extremely selfish and scheming individual who is totally under her mother's thumb . The family is not good..........just like there is a bad apple in an apple basket , there r some families who r just simply bad , and Manjusha's family is like that . They r bad blood ,pure and simple . Rasika , Ajit and Manjusha destroy innocents simply for the sake of it . The way Manjusha laughs silently ,covering her mouth is simply disgusting and shows what a petty , small minded woman she is . She goes scot free in this serial .........Like Manav commented that what diffrence does it make now when Varsha tells him that Archana did not do the complaint , similiarly a lot of Manjusha's wrong doings simply wont make a diffrence even if they r eventually pointed out as with the passage of time they will lose significance .
As a bahu she is selfish too ..........she uses her job as an excuse to shirk housework . She uses her daughter Punni as an excuse to extract maximum for herself .............by not contributing to the household expenses , or any event , and evades respobnsibility . But she does know how to extract the benefits of a joint family ..........free readymade dabbas of home food , readymade meals , no expenses and using salary for personal expenses only , and using daughter as an asset which she dangles before her aged saas sasur to shirk every work and responsibility .
She is lucky to get good saas sasurs . Her sister in laws r comparatively insipid and harmless compared to some real bitchy nanands in this world . Even Varsha hasnt really harmed her marraige with Vinod by telling him some horrible home truths about his seemingly goofy wife . Varsha's tiffs with her r really useless ones . In fact Manjusha has harmed Varsha more than vice versa . When Manju tells tales it hits the mark ..........She got Varsha thrown out of Vinods good books and Sulochana slapped her . Manju's politics gets RESULTS . Varsha's tiffs r nothing but getting the last word in an argument that only gets some ego satisfaction .
I waited to see if Varsha will expose Manju for what she is in a public event and get her slapped by Vinod and thrown out of the house forever . If at all a divorce is shown in PR I wanna see it between Manju and Vinod with him winning full custody of Punni . I want Varsha to gain this satisfaction as Manju WRECKED Manav and Archanas Life .
Maybe i went off topic .....but this was what came to my mind . Manju has every right as a bahu to move out , but i dont think she will excel as a wife , in house keeping skills , or even as a mother . Frankly i dont know what kind of a love marraige she even has with Vinod as she puts herself before him in every little or big thing . Manju loves herself more than her feelings for Vinod . In that sense , although i finf nothing wrong with her moving out decision , I dont see it as a wise move either as she is extremely inept to live independently .
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