Sudha........a true story --- 1

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A Broken Doll
I was in Class III when a little girl was brought into our class. We were thirty girls. We were curious about her because we could make out she was different. We stared shamelessly at her. She had a ragged doll in her hand and she continuously chewed on the corner of her hanky. Her head was tilted to one side as if it was a bit heavy for her neck. She wore a different uniform. Most of us thought that was because she had changed her school. In fact she had come to our school after being to a special school. She created a ruckus when her mother made to leave. So her mother sat with her.
"Miss......," asked someone, "will this girl sit with us?"
"This girl has a name dear," replied the teacher, a middle-aged lady called Mrs P. "Why don't you ask her her name" the teacher suggested.
"What is your name?" asked Shanti.
The girl turned her face away not wanting to interact. Shanti looked to Mrs P for help. Mrs P obliged. "This is Sudha, she is new to our school."
"Is her mother allowed to sit in class?" asked Ramona, another student.
"Yes."
"Why?"
"Because Sudha is new here."
"But my mum doesn't sit with me......"
"Sudha is special."
"Special? Why?"
"It is a sad story............but when Sudha was a baby, she fell down and her head was injured."
"Her head broke?" gasped Shanti. A murmur of shock ran through the class.
"No, it didn't break. But in our head is a brain which helps us to think. Her brain got hurt."
"Does it pain her?" I had the courage to ask this question.
"No, it no longer pains her. But there is a scar on her head." Mrs P walked to Sudha who shrank from her, her face full of fright. Mrs P stopped.
"Sudha is new and has no friend here. You can see how frightened she is."
"Is that why she's crying?"
"Yes perhaps."
"Tell me children, how many of you still play with dolls?"
We all put up our hands.
"And how many of you have old dolls?"
"Miss," said Dolly, "Mummy says I am now old so no new dolls for me."
"Yes.....same here," said the majority.
"Miss .... " said Rhoda, "my doll is old and broken."
Mrs P shrewdly picked up the link. "Why do you keep such a doll? You should throw it away!"
"Noooooo ...... '" said Rhoda quited shocked. "I love her."
"That's right............you love her even if she's broken, don't you?"
"Yes."
"Sudha is also a broken doll ........ and we must all love her and keep her safe. She is a special doll."
There was silence in the class and thirty pairs of eyes were studying Sudha.
After a while, Mrs P asked, "Will all of you do that? You have to take care of her and love her."
Thirty pairs of eyes shifted to Mrs P.
"I am going to take care of her and when I am out of class, will all of you take over?"
A few nodded here and there.
"I can't hear you...." said Mrs P
"Yes," was the chorus.
According to our roll numbers, we were allotted our day to take care of Sudha.
It was so simply and beautifully told to us that Sudha was special. Although comparing her to a broken doll may sound harsh today, but I guess that was the easiest way my teacher could explain to her class of 6-7 year olds.
Every teacher when she studies to be one has to also study the needs of the special child. Mostly it is the teacher of the "normal" school who detects the malady and reports it to the parent and Princi. The child is then reverted to a "special" school. The special school prepares the child to eventually integrate into a regular school (if its possible).
What have we seen in AKA?

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anna44 thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wow..beautiful story...
It is so wrong of us as society to ignore the children with special needs.... I hope this show will enlighten other folks like me to understand people with special needs and to love them for who they are.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Being a mother to special child...I can releate so many things. Good post, it is very touching
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Posted: 15 years ago
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lovely story👏 i know what its like i myself have a autistic child
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: anna44

wow..beautiful story...

It is so wrong of us as society to ignore the children with special needs.... I hope this show will enlighten other folks like me to understand people with special needs and to love them for who they are.

I am glad Anna that you read the story and appreciated it....................... Thanks
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Amazing Skep...I am speechless, you explain the most difficult situations in the simplest of ways that is so touching!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Thanks Skepi for a heartwarming and sensitive story. I too thought it was harsh to compare to a broken doll but perhaps as u said we tend to get judgmental on the method forgetting the target. For that age it was right.
In AKA its sad but true thats its the REAL side of most schools.By showing Adi fighting for Antara they will make people think abt the integration of such children into the mainstream. I hope this is portrayed effectively. THere are very few good special schools and perhaps we need to have more of them. THe labeling of special school raises eyebrows which needs to go fro acceptance of children & teachers there.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Its a very heartwrenching story skep...m speechless at the moment..will add up after a while
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Very touching indeed..Thanks for posting such a wonderful story..
I quite agree wth 'realitybites'..Whatever is showed in AKA is what happens in REALITY. Teachers like that mentioned in 'Sudha's story' are very rare. Even in AKA, there is this nice teacher who feels for Antara whereas there are so many who are against her.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree............ to some extent that not all teachers are sympathetic. While teachers like Mrs P were exemplary, there were those who completely ignored Sudha. But no one was ever cruel or mean to her. Now this was probly because that was the policy of my school. Obviously our Princi and the committee members were very avant garde in their views.
We use to sing during assembly every Monday....."Bless my school" among other hymns. But you don't know how often I sing this song in rememberance. And I feel proud to be a product of this institution. "Bless my School" .................
Thank you all for taking time out, reading the story and interacting. Bless all of you too. 🤗 😆 😆

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