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A.hemalatha.kini

@TOTAL-ROMANTIC

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Posted: 16 years ago

With due respect to everybody who blog & discuss their opinion...I am writing this post as I felt That these blogs & discussions are not for (weak?) people like me 🤢...who want to point out only Good things & positives in any given situation..I mean..I accept that NO ONE IS PERFECT & NOBODY CAN BE PERFECT ..and so I always try to see only what is shown good..May it be my life'situtations or may it be a film or a serial... Why I am telling this is...I had experienced this..emotional irritation when ..I first blogged here way back in 2004 during Jassi jaissi ...days because it was one of teh first serial that I got serious about & internet was very new then & I was so excited with teh show & was blogging here ..But as time passed I realised that..yes you get lots of like minded ver very sweet people..But also come across who dont match your POV & that really upsets the ..mind a lot..I mean..It dosent mean that I dont see any negatives in life..But I dont Highlight those negatives..I accept them & ignore them & move ahead...so once I realised that ..I was getting more emotionally disturbed because of these ...negatiev remarks..I completely stopped blogging..and was very happy with whatever opinion I had..and what ever little happiness I agained day to day in little little doses in the show... So I after a long time..I again got carried away with Santu & DM..& their love made me think OK let me try as I found lost fo people here..very very postive & like minded..But again...I am disappointed that...I have let down..myself...by coming here...in the sense..I dont blame anybody...what I am telling is maybe I am still not strong enough to accept crticism or negativity..& I am still living looking at only the positives in life..well it has not harmed me till now so I have faith it wont hurt me in future..too..

Why I am trying to point out here is that...When I was jumping around in excitement/...OF SanRAj's union...in whatever way the CV's thought was appropriate..I found that..there are more & more people here only discussing about ..what was wrong... where & how it should have been & etc etc etc..etc etc..with discussion still going..on & my thread of how happy I was with the scene is already locked..I dont care a bit that it is locked... god knows for what reason..what saddened me was...it spoilt all my happiness..& excitement..momentarily..I was so taken aback..when people started comparing the scene with some other show lead pairs etc etc..and old shows where RR was present earlier etc..
What I am surprised is ..how can every SR..be of the same intensity ..Each one of us is different & each characters in shows are different.....so how can every SR..be ...same..I mean....different people express or emote in a different way..& why not..have in on hay..some people were commenting..as to what if any passer by saw ..Dm & santu....there..It can be that..Nobody walks around at late nights in village also..na..!!..I mean ..sochne ko toh koi kuch bhi soch sakta hai..some people telling...Old man..young girl..blah blah..its really saddening..THAT SOME PEOPLE JUST DONT UNDERSTAND LOVE & in what circumstances life gets us into what all situations..there is nothing called IMPOSSIBLE in this world..LOVE HAS NO AGE BAR..and S** toooo..as long as it is with their consent..and will...WHO CARES....Actually i thought I will not say anything & be quite & get out..forever..from this place before it disturbs me more...But I thought I had to tell this..before leaving for my satisfaction..when so much..mistakes are being highlighted all over..for just one SR..of SanRaj..why not me too.. sorry guys..just my POV..I know either thsi post will be locked or deleted or there will be thousands..trying prove how childish or foolish I am..BUT REALLY DONT CARE...

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bumtrinket

@bumtrinket

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Posted: 16 years ago

Aww Hema 🤗

If you enjoyed it, then that's all that matters. Forget the rest. 😊

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Mallika113

@Mallika113

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Posted: 16 years ago

Don't be upset dear! Nobody is holding grudges against you. We all put our points of view and everyone should respect each other's views. I am also very positive person like you and only look at the good side of things. But I don't let anyone's views sway my happiness. I also respect their views and don't take it to heart. You be happy with what you believe in. This is not our life dear, it's just a show and we put our opinions whatever it maybe. Negative or positive, it gets discussion going and we learn something along the way. We may not agree with everyone, but we should appreciate everyone's honest opinions.

I am not lecturing you dear,so don't take it in the wrong way. They sometimes close threads because they can be discussed in existing threads, it's nothing against you or your opinions. Do share your opinion in this forum, don't take anything personally, ok😊

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anna

@anna44

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Posted: 16 years ago

oh hema.... I love your POV....I too want to focus on the positive thing only; there are too much negativity in the world and we can easily get suck into it.

Every one has difference POV ....but we all should respect each other's thoughs and ideas....don't go ...hang around ... we all are virtual friends her....

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Khalrika

@Khalrika

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

I am like u. I look for the positives in every situation. To me a glass half filled with water is always half full and never half empty. I see life the same way. I was very thrilled with the SR and loved every moment of it. But, people are different with different views on life. Everyone has a right to voice their opinion, negative or positive. We should not make a different POV too personal. Just my 2 cents.

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chalia

@chalia

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Posted: 16 years ago

Ok here i go. Soon people are going to run away when Chalia logs on. I am not going to get preachy my dear.

1. Your enthusiasm is contagious and it makes the forum lively.

2. You are a very good human to be able to see only good things in every situation. It is indeed a blessing.

3. However, you must remember that "different strokes for different blokes" is the rule of the game here. We all gather around and give our own opinions. There is no right or wrong in this context. It is just what a certain person thinks about a situation.

4. The meaning of the word "opinion" is "a personal view, attitude, or appraisal". That means to say that you are going to get as many different views as there are people.

5. Bandini is where all of us meet to just have some fun. You love what i write and appreciate my posts and poems right? I have people telling me about how childish they sound. Do you seriously think i care? I will still write because it makes me happy to do so. Childish, amateurish, crappy? people can use a million adjectives and even close my posts. I will still write till the cows come home because i want to.

6. Forums and Blogs are for you and me Hema, visit us. You promised to comment on my poem and reserved the space. I open my poem everyday to read your appreciation because to me it matters. I AM STILL WAITING!

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rpmenon

@rpmenon

Rocker

Posted: 16 years ago

Hema! Dont you dare leave....I am not going to let you,you will see.

If YOU enjoyed it,thats all it matters.I saw the thread you are talking about.There will be people talking about their favorite show,and that to be the best.So,what?Why do we care?? Let them! This is our favorite show,and thats all there is to it.Just dont care about what other people say.Its not worth loosing your mental peace.

Now,come back and start posting.ASAP. 🤗
There are people who care for you,for them,do come back. 😈

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gawker

@gawker

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

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a big hug to you. there are going to be a lot of views thrown around here, don't let them bother you. your views are your own. express them. we will all be richer for them.

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Mallika113

@Mallika113

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 16 years ago

Yep, we are all here because we adore Bandini! I don't care what other shows people boast about, Bandini is number 1 in my heart right now. I also watch other shows or read updates, and nothing even comes anywhere close to Bandini. The people in this forum are the best, believe me. I have been to so many other forums, and no other forum makes me feel this comfortable.

So Hema, don't leave your home. Stay right here and post to your heart's content.😃

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A.hemalatha.kini

@TOTAL-ROMANTIC

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Posted: 16 years ago

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Love you one & all..here who have answered my rant...I got hooked in this forum only because of all you sweet people..But I will take time...as for Chalia your poem..I will reply to that..for sure ..I Need a break..yaar ..seriously...

By the way..I want to tell ..I know each has a different opinion..but to go on on..with same negativity..is soooooo...not worthy...I mean even I dont like everything or every scene in Bandini or any show..but what is the need to dig on it...we shoudl have some patience..complain once & look forward to the positives ...bot go on & on and make fun..as this is a forum and it hurts others views too... rp mallika gawker..anna..bumi..chalia...khalrika..I am touched by your sweet words..and I mean it..

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