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With due respect to everybody who blog & discuss their opinion...I am writing this post as I felt That these blogs & discussions are not for (weak?) people like me 🤢...who want to point out only Good things & positives in any given situation..I mean..I accept that NO ONE IS PERFECT & NOBODY CAN BE PERFECT ..and so I always try to see only what is shown good..May it be my life'situtations or may it be a film or a serial... Why I am telling this is...I had experienced this..emotional irritation when ..I first blogged here way back in 2004 during Jassi jaissi ...days because it was one of teh first serial that I got serious about & internet was very new then & I was so excited with teh show & was blogging here ..But as time passed I realised that..yes you get lots of like minded ver very sweet people..But also come across who dont match your POV & that really upsets the ..mind a lot..I mean..It dosent mean that I dont see any negatives in life..But I dont Highlight those negatives..I accept them & ignore them & move ahead...so once I realised that ..I was getting more emotionally disturbed because of these ...negatiev remarks..I completely stopped blogging..and was very happy with whatever opinion I had..and what ever little happiness I agained day to day in little little doses in the show... So I after a long time..I again got carried away with Santu & DM..& their love made me think OK let me try as I found lost fo people here..very very postive & like minded..But again...I am disappointed that...I have let down..myself...by coming here...in the sense..I dont blame anybody...what I am telling is maybe I am still not strong enough to accept crticism or negativity..& I am still living looking at only the positives in life..well it has not harmed me till now so I have faith it wont hurt me in future..too..
Why I am trying to point out here is that...When I was jumping around in excitement/...OF SanRAj's union...in whatever way the CV's thought was appropriate..I found that..there are more & more people here only discussing about ..what was wrong... where & how it should have been & etc etc etc..etc etc..with discussion still going..on & my thread of how happy I was with the scene is already locked..I dont care a bit that it is locked... god knows for what reason..what saddened me was...it spoilt all my happiness..& excitement..momentarily..I was so taken aback..when people started comparing the scene with some other show lead pairs etc etc..and old shows where RR was present earlier etc..
What I am surprised is ..how can every SR..be of the same intensity ..Each one of us is different & each characters in shows are different.....so how can every SR..be ...same..I mean....different people express or emote in a different way..& why not..have in on hay..some people were commenting..as to what if any passer by saw ..Dm & santu....there..It can be that..Nobody walks around at late nights in village also..na..!!..I mean ..sochne ko toh koi kuch bhi soch sakta hai..some people telling...Old man..young girl..blah blah..its really saddening..THAT SOME PEOPLE JUST DONT UNDERSTAND LOVE & in what circumstances life gets us into what all situations..there is nothing called IMPOSSIBLE in this world..LOVE HAS NO AGE BAR..and S** toooo..as long as it is with their consent..and will...WHO CARES....Actually i thought I will not say anything & be quite & get out..forever..from this place before it disturbs me more...But I thought I had to tell this..before leaving for my satisfaction..when so much..mistakes are being highlighted all over..for just one SR..of SanRaj..why not me too.. sorry guys..just my POV..I know either thsi post will be locked or deleted or there will be thousands..trying prove how childish or foolish I am..BUT REALLY DONT CARE...
Bhabhi Ji Ghar Pe Hain?
