I have realised forums .. is not a place for me - Page 3

Originally posted by: HAOOY

With due respect to everybody who blog & discuss their opinion...I am writing this post as I felt That these blogs & discussions are not for (weak?) people like me 🤢...who want to point out only Good things & positives in any given situation..I mean..I accept that NO ONE IS PERFECT & NOBODY CAN BE PERFECT ..and so I always try to see only what is shown good..May it be my life'situtations or may it be a film or a serial... Why I am telling this is...I had experienced this..emotional irritation when ..I first blogged here way back in 2004 during Jassi jaissi ...days because it was one of teh first serial that I got serious about & internet was very new then & I was so excited with teh show & was blogging here ..But as time passed I realised that..yes you get lots of like minded ver very sweet people..But also come across who dont match your POV & that really upsets the ..mind a lot..I mean..It dosent mean that I dont see any negatives in life..But I dont Highlight those negatives..I accept them & ignore them & move ahead...so once I realised that ..I was getting more emotionally disturbed because of these ...negatiev remarks..I completely stopped blogging..and was very happy with whatever opinion I had..and what ever little happiness I agained day to day in little little doses in the show... So I after a long time..I again got carried away with Santu & DM..& their love made me think OK let me try as I found lost fo people here..very very postive & like minded..But again...I am disappointed that...I have let down..myself...by coming here...in the sense..I dont blame anybody...what I am telling is maybe I am still not strong enough to accept crticism or negativity..& I am still living looking at only the positives in life..well it has not harmed me till now so I have faith it wont hurt me in future..too..

Why I am trying to point out here is that...When I was jumping around in excitement/...OF SanRAj's union...in whatever way the CV's thought was appropriate..I found that..there are more & more people here only discussing about ..what was wrong... where & how it should have been & etc etc etc..etc etc..with discussion still going..on & my thread of how happy I was with the scene is already locked..I dont care a bit that it is locked... god knows for what reason..what saddened me was...it spoilt all my happiness..& excitement..momentarily..I was so taken aback..when people started comparing the scene with some other show lead pairs etc etc..and old shows where RR was present earlier etc..

What I am surprised is ..how can every SR..be of the same intensity ..Each one of us is different & each characters in shows are different.....so how can every SR..be ...same..I mean....different people express or emote in a different way..& why not..have in on hay..some people were commenting..as to what if any passer by saw ..Dm & santu....there..It can be that..Nobody walks around at late nights in village also..na..!!..I mean ..sochne ko toh koi kuch bhi soch sakta hai..some people telling...Old man..young girl..blah blah..its really saddening..THAT SOME PEOPLE JUST DONT UNDERSTAND LOVE & in what circumstances life gets us into what all situations..there is nothing called IMPOSSIBLE in this world..LOVE HAS NO AGE BAR..and S** toooo..as long as it is with their consent..and will...WHO CARES....Actually i thought I will not say anything & be quite & get out..forever..from this place before it disturbs me more...But I thought I had to tell this..before leaving for my satisfaction..when so much..mistakes are being highlighted all over..for just one SR..of SanRaj..why not me too.. sorry guys..just my POV..I know either thsi post will be locked or deleted or there will be thousands..trying prove how childish or foolish I am..BUT REALLY DONT CARE...

Originally posted by: Opti

Looks like it is my thread which has got you all touchy and worked up. But let me make things clear here. Just because I posted my views on a particular scene which may appear as negative to some, I am not a negative person who looks at only negative things. There are plenty of things I appreciate about this show and have been expressing them from time to time. A certain scene may have appealed to you but may not have appealed to me. So, it is not necessary all of us have to feel the same way, does it? I guess each of us have our own yardstick to measure things and that does not say much about our characters, either.

A person making a critical comment does not automatically become a person who can only look at negative things. It is not that I or the rest who made the critical remarks do not believe in love. It is love that makes the world go round. But each of us have our own idea of how that love gets expressed. Why should we not? I surely do not want to rob you of your joy at what you got from the scene but I do have the freedom to lament that I did not get what I wanted. Why should that be construed as negativism?

As to your comment about who will be walking around the village at night, all I want to say that anybody can go walking anytime. It is not like there is a curfew in the village that nobody can go out at night. You may not find many people walking around but the possibility of atleast someone passing by cannot be ruled out.

Many of my friends and I had made similar comments about the Michi c-night shot on the beach at the time. Some even joked about satellite pictures being taken of it, since it was so public. There Milind was a hotelier and that beach could have been his own private beach for all we know but still some one us found the venue unrealistic for such an intimate act. Here the matter related to the Maalik of the village who holds a respectable place amongst his people which is why it seemed out of line for someone of his stature to be out in the open. Guess everything can be justified in the name of entertainment. While you did not mind it, some of us found it odd. Here neither you nor I are right or wrong for the way we feel. Both of us have the right to feel the way we do and also express our opinions about it.

I hope you take everything it the right spirit and move on. My thread clearly stated my view on the title itself. If you find such threads negative and spoil your happiness, you need not even bother visiting them or you can visit them and put forth your counter point. Afterall this is a discussion forum and not a concurrence forum where everybody should see everything in the same way.

In my opinion, this forum is more fun than the show itself and you all know how much I adore Bandini!

Nobody needs to justify or defend their opinions as long as forum rules are followed. In our case,all are legal and I actually invite different opinions, because it makes us to think and grow.

So everybody cool down, and let's have more fun😃 We have lot of things to look forward to😃