Practical Point of View

I don't understand one thing. Whomever is the "mother of the week" gets the chance to eliminate the kanya who she thinks is NOT suitable for her son right.. so why is it that Hitesh's mom never eliminates Gurpreet & Priyanka. I understand that Priyanka has been Bride of the week for many weeks so it wasn't an option, but this week it was. She takes priyanka as her "daughter" so she cant marry her with her son.. so she had the option to take her out of the show this week. Plus, Raj isnt there for priyanka to interact with. Again.. another option could have been Gurpreet. She doesnt interact with Hitesh on the "marriage'" level either. Pooja, i understand she was a target because she broke off all ties with Hitesh. But still.

I'm sure some of you noticed that from the beginning of the show.. which ever mom is mother of the week always has an excuse for eliminating certain girls. When they eliminate there exucuses are "all the mothers decided to take her out" but then when something doesnt happen in there favor.. they dont bother taking the other mothers views?

Hiteshs mom needed to be practical in certain situations.. like today. When Pooja was being eliminated. Gurpreet is still trying with Yash, Hitesh with Rumpa, and Pooja lets say with Vivek OR Yash. She has an option. But Priyanka doesnt have anyone to interact with along with going back to my previous point she is the 'daughter' and 'sister' of Hitesh and his mom.

Dont get me wrong here people, just thinking practical. I am a fan of both Pooja and Priyanka.

From the beginning the rule for being the mother of the bride was to choose Kanyas that arent suitable for their sons.. so what happened all of a sudden.

Pooja had the option with Yash and Vivek. She could have been on for ONE more week...to see how things went with them. Priyanka on the other hand didnt. Gurpreet was another girl that could have been out becuase going back to Nandita's elimination.. although things were flying high with Nandita and Yash/Vivek.. Hitesh's mom gave the explanation for her elimination as "Nandita doesnt interact with Hitesh".. well HELLO.. niether does Gurpreet. Atleast there is SOME interaction with Pooja and Hitesh even if it isnt good as before.

I think this show needs to be more realistic in a sense that people need to follow rules. And the mothers need to understand that there reason for elimnating Kanya has to be ONE "There not suitable for their son" nothing more than that.

Gurpreets comment on Friday (she was sitting with rumpa in the room talkng crap bout pooja) bout "Pooja ruining her house and coming close to Yash's mom" was really messed up... First off if shes so insecure.. she should take a stand and get closer to Yash's mom, and second WHAT HOUSE? She wasnt even an option for Yash'S mom in the first place.. so i dont know what she was talking bout there.. and last.. She has no right to talk bout someones beauty. Pooja is beautiful.. along with all the other Kanyas..in there own way..they justify different degrees to beauty..inner..outter.. character.. smile.. ect.

Rumpa on the other hand.. really needs to put trust in Hitesh if she wants him as a husband.. and one other thing thats eating me up is that.. she said she loved Gaurav? WHAT HAPPENED? Love finished? I wish Hitesh or SOMEONE on the show would ask her in front of Hitesh and his mom that "What would Rumpa do if Gaurav.. her "first" love came back.." How would she feel.. anyways..

And one other thing is that.. people have made nasty comments bout many of the contestants on this forum.. about why they entered the show.. for fame.. for attention.. and other disgusting reasons. Isnt it better for you to just leave them alone to cope with there own reasons... Put yourself in there shoes.. what if people pointed fingers at you for all the wrong reasons.. Even when people had "resons' to point fingers at you.. thats not what actually happened.

Have respect for others.. and thats how youll gain respect. Poeple don't have to know you personally to see how your mentality really is. Its easy to see through the screen as well. I have seen many comments and really who ever members on this forum have writen them.. i lost respect for them to some extent before even bothering to know them. You cant just talk crap about people without knowing them, you dont need to have good reasons. because the reasons you have maybe arent the right ones.. there most likely being portrayed the wrong way. Respect people guys.. and there emotions.

Sorry if this offends anyone in any way.. but i just needed to get my thoughts out because it was bugging me alot. I was upset with the behavior that was put forth during the elimination and the rules and regulations changing during each elimination time along with the behavior of Kanyas and forum members. Im not bashing peoples thoughts or there fan bases.. Just practical thoughts being put forth.

Let me know how you guys feel.. or just make a comment saying that you arent hurt by my thoughts. Once again im sorry if i hurt anyone.. but i just wanted to get my thoughts out and share them with yout.

very sensible comments......👏👏👏
but yaar ppl around r blaming priyanka 4 not getting eliminated...i mean aft Raj's elimination she was made BOTW twice which makes virtually impossible 4 her to get eliminated.......secondly pri was ready to get eliminated remember she told pooja that my name is quite possible to be on the elimination list nd she is ready......
but that week when Raj spoke to her on gala round he requested her to fulfill his wish of her becoming perfect bride .....but even after that pri did not loose her dignity nd dint scooped to the level of pleasing gulabo to stay in the show.....
btw gulabo wants to get her son married on national tv she seems to be that kind of a person, since priyanka is no treat to her right now(as Raj is gone) so she choose pooja as she was afraid if her jodi wil be formed with yash or vivek....simple politics
dont blame Priyanka 4 that.....

nahi yaar.. im not blaming anyone. My comments aren't towards anyone. i really like priyanka. My main point of the note was that there made mother of the week for a reason.. to eliminate the kanya that isnt suitable for there son. and Priyank and Gurpreet fall into that catagory. hmm.. i dont know.. im just so upset the way things are going on this show.. everyones doing there own manmaani..

as raj is coming thats y she is nt eliminated.if she is eliminated then the show is flop.and pooja got eliminated by organisers and producers as she got bollywood films for which she came here.she got an offer with harman baweja in his home production

Originally posted by: umeye

nahi yaar.. im not blaming anyone. My comments aren't towards anyone. i really like priyanka. My main point of the note was that there made mother of the week for a reason.. to eliminate the kanya that isnt suitable for there son. and Priyank and Gurpreet fall into that catagory. hmm.. i dont know.. im just so upset the way things are going on this show.. everyones doing there own manmaani..

was not referring to u buddy....actually ppl in this forum r bashing priyanka 4 her not getting eliminated......anyways the elimination system in the show is flawed.....i mean the public should be given the right to vote out brides.....we can be more fair then MOW

Originally posted by: umeye

I don't understand one thing. Whomever is the "mother of the week" gets the chance to eliminate the kanya who she thinks is NOT suitable for her son right.. so why is it that Hitesh's mom never eliminates Gurpreet & Priyanka. I understand that Priyanka has been Bride of the week for many weeks so it wasn't an option, but this week it was. She takes priyanka as her "daughter" so she cant marry her with her son.. so she had the option to take her out of the show this week. Plus, Raj isnt there for priyanka to interact with. Again.. another option could have been Gurpreet. She doesnt interact with Hitesh on the "marriage'" level either. Pooja, i understand she was a target because she broke off all ties with Hitesh. But still.

I'm sure some of you noticed that from the beginning of the show.. which ever mom is mother of the week always has an excuse for eliminating certain girls. When they eliminate there exucuses are "all the mothers decided to take her out" but then when something doesnt happen in there favor.. they dont bother taking the other mothers views?

Hiteshs mom needed to be practical in certain situations.. like today. When Pooja was being eliminated. Gurpreet is still trying with Yash, Hitesh with Rumpa, and Pooja lets say with Vivek OR Yash. She has an option. But Priyanka doesnt have anyone to interact with along with going back to my previous point she is the 'daughter' and 'sister' of Hitesh and his mom.

Dont get me wrong here people, just thinking practical. I am a fan of both Pooja and Priyanka.

From the beginning the rule for being the mother of the bride was to choose Kanyas that arent suitable for their sons.. so what happened all of a sudden.

Pooja had the option with Yash and Vivek. She could have been on for ONE more week...to see how things went with them. Priyanka on the other hand didnt. Gurpreet was another girl that could have been out becuase going back to Nandita's elimination.. although things were flying high with Nandita and Yash/Vivek.. Hitesh's mom gave the explanation for her elimination as "Nandita doesnt interact with Hitesh".. well HELLO.. niether does Gurpreet. Atleast there is SOME interaction with Pooja and Hitesh even if it isnt good as before.

I think this show needs to be more realistic in a sense that people need to follow rules. And the mothers need to understand that there reason for elimnating Kanya has to be ONE "There not suitable for their son" nothing more than that.

Gurpreets comment on Friday (she was sitting with rumpa in the room talkng crap bout pooja) bout "Pooja ruining her house and coming close to Yash's mom" was really messed up... First off if shes so insecure.. she should take a stand and get closer to Yash's mom, and second WHAT HOUSE? She wasnt even an option for Yash'S mom in the first place.. so i dont know what she was talking bout there.. and last.. She has no right to talk bout someones beauty. Pooja is beautiful.. along with all the other Kanyas..in there own way..they justify different degrees to beauty..inner..outter.. character.. smile.. ect.

Rumpa on the other hand.. really needs to put trust in Hitesh if she wants him as a husband.. and one other thing thats eating me up is that.. she said she loved Gaurav? WHAT HAPPENED? Love finished? I wish Hitesh or SOMEONE on the show would ask her in front of Hitesh and his mom that "What would Rumpa do if Gaurav.. her "first" love came back.." How would she feel.. anyways..

And one other thing is that.. people have made nasty comments bout many of the contestants on this forum.. about why they entered the show.. for fame.. for attention.. and other disgusting reasons. Isnt it better for you to just leave them alone to cope with there own reasons... Put yourself in there shoes.. what if people pointed fingers at you for all the wrong reasons.. Even when people had "resons' to point fingers at you.. thats not what actually happened.

Have respect for others.. and thats how youll gain respect. Poeple don't have to know you personally to see how your mentality really is. Its easy to see through the screen as well. I have seen many comments and really who ever members on this forum have writen them.. i lost respect for them to some extent before even bothering to know them. You cant just talk crap about people without knowing them, you dont need to have good reasons. because the reasons you have maybe arent the right ones.. there most likely being portrayed the wrong way. Respect people guys.. and there emotions.

Sorry if this offends anyone in any way.. but i just needed to get my thoughts out because it was bugging me alot. I was upset with the behavior that was put forth during the elimination and the rules and regulations changing during each elimination time along with the behavior of Kanyas and forum members. Im not bashing peoples thoughts or there fan bases.. Just practical thoughts being put forth.

Let me know how you guys feel.. or just make a comment saying that you arent hurt by my thoughts. Once again im sorry if i hurt anyone.. but i just wanted to get my thoughts out and share them with yout.

First of all thanks buddy, for really taking the pain to pen down ur views in all these detailed way.

Really I was waiting someone to initiate this way, as I am not that good at putting things as clearly as u have done.

I agree very much with u, that in the first couple of weeks, rajbir's mom or vivek's mom whenever they used to be MOW, they used to discuss the elimination with all other moms and then take a unanimous decision.
But since when Sudeshrani started becoming MOW( I don't know how though) she is really controlling things on her will.. She is taking the decision basing on her own way.. either justified or not she never cared.On the first week after she became MOW , she eliminated nandita... just to take revenage on Yash, where as she knew very well, Priyanka was the strong contender for PB..Then she eliminated Pooja again, where as Priyanka still there.. As u mentioned Priyanka is in love with Rajbir and no matter what she will never compromise on that. where as Pooja had some feelings for Hitesh and even now they were sharing a very strong bond. But just to take her revenge she again eliminated Pooja.. very pathetic...

Even on the basis of who will suit her son most, she could have eliminated Gurpreet..

Now coming back to Gurpreet, I really felt sad when I saw the CD after she was eliminated.

For few days even I wished like many others that she should get back to the show.. But immediately after she came back, she started showing her true color... not only she is following Sudesh rani blindly, she also continued her attitude/ego as before.

Her feelings for Yash might be genuine.. but then love is something which should come from both the sides.. Like Priyanka and rajbir.. it should not happen that u should just go and asked somebody to love you or accept u because u r in love with him/her. She is excatly behaving the similar was as Hitesh and his mom behaved with Pooja.

If Pooja would have been fake, she would have hapily accepted Hitesh's proposal and later on would have rejected him after winning the title...

But she just told the truth..

Then secondly ppl keep complainging about her being an actress.
I would request all those ppl to go and check her profile in PB site.. It's clearly mentioned that she is an actress by profession.


Then Coming back to Rumpa.

Initially I had lots of respect for this girl, I thought she is introvert, but a genuine girl, especially after she declared her love for Gaurav, but within few days, when she realized Pooja has said NO to hitesh, she could clearly see an opportunity of winning the Title.. and immediately sidelined herself with Hitty and her mother and totally started telling bad things about Pooja.


Can u beileve these are the true colors of these girls, I hope the new girl will win the show.

All these girls should just feel frustrated..

Originally posted by: smagish

was not referring to u buddy....actually ppl in this forum r bashing priyanka 4 her not getting eliminated......anyways the elimination system in the show is flawed.....i mean the public should be given the right to vote out brides.....we can be more fair then MOW

i know right.. 😊

Originally posted by: jyothiram

as raj is coming thats y she is nt eliminated.if she is eliminated then the show is flop.and pooja got eliminated by organisers and producers as she got bollywood films for which she came here.she got an offer with harman baweja in his home production

Understand that SHE IS AN ACTRESS BY PROFESSION. 😊 You cant possibly make a comment on WHY she came here. because you are NOT related to her in any way and dont know her main reasons. Respect her reasons for whatever they maybe please.

i read in an artical yaar.even i like her.

Originally posted by: t2004sachin

First of all thanks buddy, for really taking the pain to pen down ur views in all these detailed way.

Really I was waiting someone to initiate this way, as I am not that good at putting things as clearly as u have done.

I agree very much with u, that in the first couple of weeks, rajbir's mom or vivek's mom whenever they used to be MOW, they used to discuss the elimination with all other moms and then take a unanimous decision.
But since when Sudeshrani started becoming MOW( I don't know how though) she is really controlling things on her will.. She is taking the decision basing on her own way.. either justified or not she never cared.On the first week after she became MOW , she eliminated nandita... just to take revenage on Yash, where as she knew very well, Priyanka was the strong contender for PB..Then she eliminated Pooja again, where as Priyanka still there.. As u mentioned Priyanka is in love with Rajbir and no matter what she will never compromise on that. where as Pooja had some feelings for Hitesh and even now they were sharing a very strong bond. But just to take her revenge she again eliminated Pooja.. very pathetic...

Even on the basis of who will suit her son most, she could have eliminated Gurpreet..

Now coming back to Gurpreet, I really felt sad when I saw the CD after she was eliminated.

For few days even I wished like many others that she should get back to the show.. But immediately after she came back, she started showing her true color... not only she is following Sudesh rani blindly, she also continued her attitude/ego as before.

Her feelings for Yash might be genuine.. but then love is something which should come from both the sides.. Like Priyanka and rajbir.. it should not happen that u should just go and asked somebody to love you or accept u because u r in love with him/her. She is excatly behaving the similar was as Hitesh and his mom behaved with Pooja.

If Pooja would have been fake, she would have hapily accepted Hitesh's proposal and later on would have rejected him after winning the title...

But she just told the truth..

Then secondly ppl keep complainging about her being an actress.
I would request all those ppl to go and check her profile in PB site.. It's clearly mentioned that she is an actress by profession.


Then Coming back to Rumpa.

Initially I had lots of respect for this girl, I thought she is introvert, but a genuine girl, especially after she declared her love for Gaurav, but within few days, when she realized Pooja has said NO to hitesh, she could clearly see an opportunity of winning the Title.. and immediately sidelined herself with Hitty and her mother and totally started telling bad things about Pooja.


Can u beileve these are the true colors of these girls, I hope the new girl will win the show.

All these girls should just feel frustrated..

Your welcome.😊 I just needed to get everything out. I really don't know the reasons for the state of mind with the Kanya's and mothers. Whatever there reasons may be.. it doesn't justify taking revenge on one another to kick them outta the show. This show is about the Perfect Bride.. not the Perfect couple. Sure.. your here to find a bride.. if your son isnt compatible with someone then take them out if your given the opportunity, BUT if the Kanya is getting along with someone else.. KEEP them on this show, who knows this maybe the right couple. Get rid of the Kanya that isnt compatible with all the Grooms..like really this show clearly has lost its touch. They just couldn't manage to keep everything the same. 1 reason for elimination Kanya's, No revenge just truth was needed. People are busy in making other lives messed rather then fixing there its. People gotta be more sensible then that. Really.. we are given brains for a reason.. use it.