bunmaska thumbnail
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Posted: 20 years ago
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My Dear Friends,

We are all shocked and hurt all the same by the sudden turn of events. I would like to tell here, its WE the members who rock the forums and sorry to say this and not cause of the Mods. I know the mods will not take a liking to this post and I may get a warning and that would be my last day here 😭, please don't do that 😳. Only when the events turn a little out of hand this type of WARNING messages are sent which we all must read. Not even once when many of us did the updates did the mods ever appreciate us...when the post which we made out of so much love and effort dissappeared all of a sudden not even one of the mods came forward may I say to give us a shoulder to cry ..offcourse you'll have better things to do and this small things would not matter to you'll but would make a world of difference for many ....plus there are lots of dos and donts imposed ( which we can understand to some extent and I am sure I am noone to teach you'll). But all this explains the reason many of my friends here are no more interested in posting here. This is the only source where we get some relief from the pressures we face in our life and if this itself adds to the pressure where will we all go .😭

Jings, Simi,CB, Twinks and Harsy too whatever has happened is very unfortunate. It is obvious since we are all entitled to our opinions. Noone over here, can teach us what is right and what is not for us to do. When the Disha77 incident happened I was so glad that I had all gutsy friends šŸ‘here who did not even once think of the consequences and came out openly with their views. I am glad and proud that me and my friends would not budge in standing up for our friends and for what is right even if it means being kicked out from here. Whatever it is we respect everyone's views and nobody tries to impose each other's opinions on anyone. At the end of the day we are answerable only to ourselves and noone else.

The day when Disha77 midday incident happened for many of us the TD section was not the same after that and now this is the last nail in the coffin. If you girls quit, I quit, period ( though not from IF offcourse since have got lots of fond memories from this place and made lots of friends here and we fall short of words to thank VijayšŸ‘ for the same ) … Its only cause of you girls that made me stay in this section for so long...but I am really sad that this came at a time when one of our dearest friend Nikki is the MOW... This is the third time I am heartbroken ( first when Dee left, second when some of our friends from KYPH left and now this) Girls my only request is if you'll could reconsider your decision to quit….its upto you'll but one thing is for sure I am with you'll…..

Signing off from here till we all meet again. Sorry mods I sincerely 😭apologise from the bottom of my heart if you'll have been hurt by my comments and not intended for anyone in particular, I am really sorry about it ……..but I had to take it out of my system..since morning I thought and thought a lot if I should post this message and I would be the last person to hurt someone…and I am noone here it would not matter to anyone if I am here or not.

And friends I am sorry if this long bhaashan post did not make any sense but I am sure my friends got the message, please come back.

Aadmi musaafir hain, aata hain jaata hain, aate jaate raste mein yaadein chod jaata hain...😭

Lots of Love and Luck

GOD Bless All.

Lata šŸ˜†

PS : Please for old times sake atleast my sincere request let this post not be locked.😭

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samy74 thumbnail
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hi

Lata you have go tme completely wrong the only reason a post is locked is becos we dont want arugments and fights on the forum I was away for a day and a post lead to becoming a major argument and difference and this has lead to vakued members leaving. Let me be honest with you Lata recently I posted a message on thanking updaters and all the great posts are always admired.

Lata also the fact I am very close to the members that are leaving and totally hurt by their decision but than recent events have been out of my hands. Lata we have been here for a long time and things have turned soar at times but these recent events show that people don't know where to put a stop and making direct attacks at members will not be permitted.

I would very much like all to stay and I hope for this forum they do as some of the bests post are posted by them and it would be a shame they left but Lata don't think we the Admin Team are not doing their work. We are tryig out best but this was something I couldnt control as I was away and this arugment led to members quitting as they were hurt.

I request all to stay calm and don't post messages on top of messages and Lata I won't close this topic and I would also appreciate if you stop thinking that I close Healthy Dicussion topics because that would be wrong as I only close topics which are tunring into pages and pages of chat or could lead to arugment as recently seen.

I appreciate your support..

IF Development Team
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Thanks Samy , and I know dear, and would be ashamed of myself if you or any mods would take this post otherwise or get offended as it would only mean I was not successful in putting forward my views. And you'll don't owe any explainations to anybody for that matter. and how dare I question the Admin team for the way they behave. I know the posts are locked when it becomes a chat post or goes out of hand but only request is to allow all the members to have their say thats all. Whatever here has happened I know Me and You are hurt the most as we have always been attached to this section from day 1.
I would pray and request all our friends to return and if my post succeeds in bringing them back I would be the happiest person even at the cost of being in the bad books of the mods 😭 but I sincerely hope I would not be 😳 thats all.
Cheers
Lata
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Dont be sad Lata. My posts i posted here in TD forum, were all closed by one of the moderators. i dont know who. i want to know also who? i was trying to make this Forum alive, coz i have been seeing through, that forum wasnt any fun, so thats why i started posting funny and nice posts here. i did that in YMLH forum too, thats coz that forum is abt to close foreva, and all the modz are not going to close it.

thank you LATA and SAMY74

~no1kfan~
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Posted: 20 years ago
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This TD Section has been a live-wire in IF. Even when the serial is not going good, this section is alive , all bcos of the dedicated loyal members of this section.

We Mods are not cross over you on seeing your post. Please do not feel bad at all. But, Lata, recollecting old bad memories will only hurt all here. So let us just forget what has happened, let us hope and pray that we get all our dear members back in TD. We have always lent you all a supporting hand, whether it be for Updaters, or when the post got missing... I need not want to explain that further , asto how we Mods were there with you all, when such things happened in the Section. We have faced many big challenges in this Section in the past. So i am confident that we members will be able to hold on to our ground even now, come back to TD section where we belong...

This TD section has dedicated members who we do not want to lose. I was away, so could not check the posts earlier. I read the entire post wherein the arguments took place. I agree to the Mods here that this thread had to be locked. This thread could have resulted in more and more members being hurt. I agree that we need to give space to all members, to express what they have in their mind. But, there is always a thin line , which when crossed, might hurt one person or the other. The Mods and Viewbies closed this thread only for that reason. They had to look at the Wider angle of having a cool atmosphere in the section and between the members.

I appeal to all who are thinking of quitting the TD Section to be back. Jingu, Twinku, CB, Rm, please do come back.Harsy, please do not have ill feelings about whatever happened. Everything happened in the spur of the moment. We are all friends, belonging to the same family. So, we need to forget and forgive what happened. So, i request the members who have thought of quitting the section to return. This Section needs you all. You have been the most dedicated, loyal members of this Section. So you have to come back. You can take this as my Request, plea or Order😳 But we all want you back, dear friends...

Sree

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Posted: 20 years ago
#6
Latadi, Samy, Sree & other forum friends

We 4 are not quitting IF, but only TD forum. As it is I, Jings n Sim don't watch TD anymore & Twinku was watching it only for the sake of updating & I think last night she might have got sound sleep with the decision of no more TD updates for her. Whatever knowledge we had about TD was thru the updates & the highlights posted.
We are not abandoning our forum friends, but just moving to other forums on IF, coz we solely visit IF for "FUN" & for us visiting IF is a stress buster. We can't stay without visiting IF 😊 .
We thank Samy for being so understanding & tolerant with us, despite her numerous reminders, I wouldn't say "Warning" as she always kindly requested us not to convert topic to chat platforms. Trust me Samy we never ever took your closing of topic seriously. You are the best locker any forum can have šŸ˜† ; coz u closed the topic only after we were done with our masti & us crazy lots were back to square one next day. Now do you think we ever learnt from your reminder šŸ˜† . Now its time to give Samy a break & disturb the peace of some other viewbies & Mods….you see we can't stay without having FUN & to have FUN in TD forum is not possible as we don't follow the serial. Hope you understand.

Laila
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Posted: 20 years ago
#7

This TD Section has been a live-wire in IF. Even when the serial is not going good, this section is alive , all bcos of the dedicated loyal members of this section.

We Mods are not cross over you on seeing your post. Please do not feel bad at all. But, Lata, recollecting old bad memories will only hurt all here. So let us just forget what has happened, let us hope and pray that we get all our dear members back in TD.

Thanks Sree, so right you are and I wish I can change this habit of mine...I forgive easily but can never forget these things so easily...and thanks a lot for understanding...i am really relieved to hear these words šŸ˜†

I appeal to all who are thinking of quitting the TD Section to be back. Jingu, Twinku, CB, Rm, please do come back.Harsy, please do not have ill feelings about whatever happened. Everything happened in the spur of the moment. We are all friends, belonging to the same family. So, we need to forget and forgive what happened. So, i request the members who have thought of quitting the section to return. This Section needs you all. You have been the most dedicated, loyal members of this Section. So you have to come back. You can take this as my Request, plea or Order😳 But we all want you back, dear friends...

yes I second that wholeheartedly and this post was made only for that purpose šŸ‘šŸ¼

Please come back friends .šŸ˜›

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Lata, please just what is happening to our family. Please do something and stop our friends from leaving. They are the jaan and shaan of this forum. As it is, most of our friends have stopped coming here altogether and now if Twinku, CB, Simi and Jingu will take this step, there won't be any fun left. Harsy, you too please reconsider your decision. What has happened has happened on the spur of the moment. We all visit the TD forum for a lighter moment which helps relieve the stress of our day to day life. Achha lagta hai, when we can interact on a broader level with likeminded friends from across the globe. So please my dearest friends, please reconsider your decision. What has happened, has happened. Let it be in the past. Time heals what reason cannot. Aaj se hum ek nai shuruaat karenge. Happiness is the only good. The time to be happy is now. The place to be happy is here. The way to be happy is to make others so.

Since We Became Friends..., Wonderful Friend E Cards

That's what I feel about each of you my dear friends. So please, don't go.

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Posted: 20 years ago
#9
yes Viddi don't worry they will come back for my/our sake atleast I am sure about that, they have to 😭 if they love us 😳 šŸ˜›
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Posted: 20 years ago
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lata it was a touching posts of yours.😭some things can't be revived ,i wish those good old days where back unfortuantely it hasn't


regarding the closed topics:

yesterday i closed all the old topics (old out of contest)and those which were controversial ones , infact no1kfans posts has been put to avatar and siggy section , i haven't deleted any posts.

if u think i have done a wrong ,u can remove me from viewbieship

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