i missed fri-sat episodes as i was on vacation, so i JUST watched 'em. anyways....
i can't believe sadi slapped ranvir!!!! i am so, SO disappointed at her. how f-cking dare she???? seriously, i was fuming when i first saw (though i'm better now) that scene. and i am a huge salekh fan; but what's wrong is wrong. at first, (before the whole slapping incident) i thought there would be no one more ungrateful and heartless than ragi if she eventually listened to all of dadi's poison against sadi, after all that sadi did for her. but now, i'm thinkin', can u really blame the girl...? i mean she slapped her husband infront of the entire family, what could be more, i quote alekh: "insulting" than that????!!!!! and, in case no one noticed, her husband was in the accident too, so its only natural that ragi was equally worried for her husband. can you imagine what anyone in her position was going through??? not only did her husband JUST survive a freak accident, but he was also insulted by a woman, and that too for whose husband he did soooooooo much for. yes, ranvir was wrong in letting alekh drive just like that, but that doesn't mean he deserved to be freakin' humiliated like that. whatsmore, its not like ranvir wasn't hurt at all. he too was injured just like alekh, plus alekh was partially in fault too for being careless.
i'm telling you guys, never in my life was i more shocked at a scene on indian television. i'm so SHOCKED mainly because i never, NEVER could've expected sadi of all people to commit such a grave, grave mistake. people have done far, FAR worse things to her than what ranvir did mistakenly today, yet, she never said a word or did anything against them. in fact, there were many times in the past when i was actually frustrated with her for letting people basically treat her like dirt; i was like, "you're not a helpless, silent puppet, learn to stand up for yourself". as mentioned earlier, i am just truly, very disappointed at her. and you know what the sad part in all this is...? i don't think sadi truly was sincere in her apology towards ranvir, deep inside. i think she just felt the fume of the entire family, esp alekh, and caved under pressure. plus, she loves ragi, so she did it for her as well. but i don't think she truly realized that "hitting" is never the answer, or at least, she didn't feel as badly about it as she should for insulting ranvir like that.
lastly, i would just like to add this: the reason why i was so fumed at sadi's actions, in addition to all the reasonings i have mentioned above, is because, ranvir did soooooo much for alekh, not to mention what he has done for the family. he is is such a nice human being. granted, there are times when he has been unnecessarily mean to ragi, but that's b/w him and ragi, and they're husband-wife for god's sake. however, ranvir has never, NEVER disrespected anyone else within the family. i don't think he ever even disrespected chotima. whatsmore, he practically is 75% of the reason alekh is where he is today. so again, how f-cking dare sadi do something like that??? seriously, after seeing what vasu did to cm, and now seeing sadi slapping ranvir, i can't blame dadi now for hating on sadi. yes, its wrong, but if i was in her shoes, seeing the things she had, its only natural i'd feel what she's feeling. from now on, whenever dadi will unleash her wrath on sadi, i will NOT be angry about it any longer. sadi deserves far worse, after what i think she got was just a "slap on the wrist". i mean on the pre-cap, ragi was saying she was mistakened too!!!! when i saw that, i was like, "WHAT THE HELL????!!!!!" and vasu didn't even say anything to her either.
anyways, i'm done. end of rant. lol