we all want abhi simi to be in love but

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Posted: 15 years ago
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I know we are looking forward to monday and we all want abhi simi to be together. but have we consider a cataosphy this relation can create? Let us look at some reality though Abhi acts so mature and try to be savior and uses his out of ordinaly or nonconventional ways to save her.
The facts are
1. Abhi is 4-6 years younger than SIMI in the society where it is ok for men to be much older even 10-20 years than women to marry them and it is still consider ok and no one objects. But if a woman even considers man few years younger than her it is like a big crime and every one talks about her and her family as if tehy have commited some horrible crime.😡
2. Abhi is a student who is still living under his father's shadow. he has nothing of his own. If Abhi's dad decides to disown him How will he supoort himself and Simi. True Simi does not need supporing. While Simi is standing on her own feet working for living. So if abhi is disowned would he leave his study and work or make Simi work while he is still in college. how would he feel then about himself as Abhi appears to be in charge kind of personality.
3, It is very likely Abhi has fallen in love mostly with Simi's outer beauty despite her chubbiness. I am not trying to say he is not admiring her inner beauty as well here.
4. Abhi has short of idealistic views about life and does not know what it takes as he has given and gotten everything so easily in his life and never ever have to struggle for anything, while Simi has experinced life and mostly her experiences are bitter with man and so she is very careful to form relation with any man as she has been mostly hurt by so many rejections
5. Simi will be thinking twice before forming any relation with abhi as she does not want Anuj Anita's rishta to be affected by her's and Abhis relation
6. Manju always cared and worried about what ppl say or do then her daughters happiness and I am sure simi will not want to hurt her one more time.
7. . Biggest obstacle will be Abhi's parents as for them Simi comes from ordinary family, she is older than abhi and fat looking girl in the society where only physical apperances is most importantly looked at.
8. Abhi should also be preapred tp be called by names when he goes out with Simi as Simi looks older than him any way you look at it.
9. They may fall in love and all but so far looking at every aspect they are an odd couple with nothing in common except that they both are good ppl who are willing to do anything for other's happiness.
So keeping all these in mind and may be more. let us see how this rishta will become possible
I am sure this is not going to be easy over night love transformation as it is completely out of ordinary one of a kind story which makes it so interesting.
I hope writers take it as one step at a time and develope love between them slowly but steadily and bring them closer with every passing obstacle in their way rather than marrying them soon and spoil the charm of such a wonderful issue few women face in this modern era where society is yet not ready to accept such relationships/ marraiges.
You can add to this or comment. what say?
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Gur.N.cool thumbnail
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I liked how you said that they are an odd couple. Nothing really is the same, and for them to fall in love is going to be veryyy slow, and then for them to get married it will be even slower.

I know from Abhi's side everything is fine but Simi has to think a lot before taking any step and it won't be easy for her.

I think the creatives will go smoothly and we might see Neetu's marriage before Simi's.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I agree with everything in your comments but I am thinking that it will be Abhi that will possibly make the first move in telling Simi about his feelings as I dont think Simi would even dare to think that a younger man would even think about her in a romantic way and perhaps she wouldn't even dare to think that a
beautiful person like Abhi would even be atracted to a chubby girl like herself so perhaps in her mind the thought of the two being in love with each other just isn't possible in her life and if she did have any feelings for him she would hide them deep down as it wouldn't be accepted. I personally think that they are amazing together and they seem to know each others mind so well but the fact is he is younger than her and no one can change that fact. Lets see what happens and how their feelings for each other grow to intense love because that is what I can see happening.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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All three of you have made excellent points and Ramas, I think you have put forward a number of conflicts upon which to build an entire year worth of episodes. I agree that Abhi will be the first to confess the love the two have for each other. Simi will be very reluctant and might even rebuff or even end the friendship. She is the elder one and will think in practical terms as she has more to loose than Abhi.
However, the scene where she does confess how she feels will be the one to watch and will definately have some awesome acting on Smitri K.'s part.
I think for now I hope the writers take this love story forward slowly and with enough of mirch and masala for us to enjoy. This relationship has been well developed that it has got me hooked and I swore I would NEVER in my right mind watch a desi drama.
The character of Simi is just too adorable not to watch and Abhi has turned out to be a real charmer of a guy.
Never say never.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i knw..howmuch ever we love their jodi..it cannot be denied tht their jodi would be different..unsual..and society is bound to speak abt it..bt at the same there r lot of such jodis which have been successful..regarding physical apperance..there r million of jodi were the girl is fat..and the guy is too thin..thn age factor..now we can see lots of girls marrying younger guys...and tht too is a success...infacti had read a story were a women of some age arnd 85 has married a 16 or 18yr old boy..can u imagine tht???so i think their jodi is jsttt perfect..infact simi thought is 4-5 yrs elder to abhi bt she has tht innocence which even a 16 yr old nowdays doesnt have.,..and as far as abhi goes..he is younger bt he has tht maturity and resposibility..so they r a perfect balance for each other..and i dnt think abhi is dependent on his dad for money..iinfact he is very opposite to his dad as we have seen..he doesnt believe tht being rich is everything..he is a normal guy who loves to live a normal life
so as u said i knw their relationship will face lots of obstalces and opposition and maybe they may lose hope too at some point of time bt finally it wld be successful..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i am speechless, well said ramas!!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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very well said raksha di! i see that you put in a lot of thought into the post & every word rings true.👏 abhi-simi will not have an easy time in making society accept their realationship.
your first point is SO true. the close minded attitude of the society will never change. an 16 year old girl can marry a 40 year old bhaijaan but if a 28 year old girl marries a 24 year old guy all hell breaks loose.😡 why is it that women are treated so unfairly? it's alright for a man to marry a girl who is young enough to be his granddaughter but if a woman begins a relationship with a younger man she should receive capital punishment. jeez..
point number nine itself contradicts all the other points beautifully. abhi & simi are both good people who are willing to do anything for other's happiness. if they are willing to make sacrifices for the people in their lives then imagine what they both are capable of when it comes to each other.😊
i am one hundred percent sure that abhi & simi will not have an easy life but as long as they share the mutual understanding that they seem to have and are willing to talk it out i don't think a relationship is impossibe. all relationships have their hurdles, abhi & simi just have more to cross than the usual relationships.
PS: i thought i had to add this in. what about the ex-girlfriend of abhi's anita mentioned in one episode? i wonder if the creatives will make this ex-girlfriend re-enter abhi's life & cause havoc for the abhi-simi relationship? i hope not. abhi-simi already have enough problems as it is without having an ex-girlfriend butt in & try to add fuel to the fire.🤔
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gur.N.cool

I liked how you said that they are an odd couple. Nothing really is the same, and for them to fall in love is going to be veryyy slow, and then for them to get married it will be even slower.

I know from Abhi's side everything is fine but Simi has to think a lot before taking any step and it won't be easy for her.

I think the creatives will go smoothly and we might see Neetu's marriage before Simi's.

Ok for the fact I am living proof of what you can call an odd couple happily married for 30 years though ours was not a love marraige. .So I am not saying it is not possible. When 2 ppl love each other they derive a strength from each other to face any obstcle in their way, I am sure Abhi is already in love with SImi and that was obvious when he held her hand and won't let go and SImi ran away just before her wedding
Abhi may not yet know it or ready to accept it but he truly loves Simi and will do anything to protect her. it is matter of time before he admits it all and may be Simi is aware of similar feelings but she will deny it all. Abhi has already became Simi's strength for that matter,
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: jigglypuff726

very well said raksha di! i see that you put in a lot of thought into the post & every word rings true.👏 abhi-simi will not have an easy time in making society accept their realationship.
your first point is SO true. the close minded attitude of the society will never change. an 16 year old girl can marry a 40 year old bhaijaan but if a 28 year old girl marries a 24 year old guy all hell breaks loose.😡 why is it that women are treated so unfairly? it's alright for a man to marry a girl who is young enough to be his granddaughter but if a woman begins a relationship with a younger man she should receive capital punishment. jeez..
point number nine itself contradicts all the other points beautifully. abhi & simi are both good people who are willing to do anything for other's happiness. if they are willing to make sacrifices for the people in their lives then imagine what they both are capable of when it comes to each other.😊
i am one hundred percent sure that abhi & simi will not have an easy life but as long as they share the mutual understanding that they seem to have and are willing to talk it out i don't think a relationship is impossibe. all relationships have their hurdles, abhi & simi just have more to cross than the usual relationships.
PS: i thought i had to add this in. what about the ex-girlfriend of abhi's anita mentioned in one episode? i wonder if the creatives will make this ex-girlfriend re-enter abhi's life & cause havoc for the abhi-simi relationship? i hope not. abhi-simi already have enough problems as it is without having an ex-girlfriend butt in & try to add fuel to the fire.🤔

As I mentioned Jiggly in my post to you earlier (looking forward to see your second part by the way as I am sure are others), I definately think the writers are going to take this angle with Abhi as popular with the girls and Simi's anguish and fear that she cannot compete with them because of her age and her figure. Plus the return of Abhi's girlfriend (who I am sure they will make a good looking and slim girl) will add another twist to the story and more mirch masala.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: ginac

I agree with everything in your comments but I am thinking that it will be Abhi that will possibly make the first move in telling Simi about his feelings as I dont think Simi would even dare to think that a younger man would even think about her in a romantic way and perhaps she wouldn't even dare to think that a

beautiful person like Abhi would even be atracted to a chubby girl like herself so perhaps in her mind the thought of the two being in love with each other just isn't possible in her life and if she did have any feelings for him she would hide them deep down as it wouldn't be accepted. I personally think that they are amazing together and they seem to know each others mind so well but the fact is he is younger than her and no one can change that fact. Lets see what happens and how their feelings for each other grow to intense love because that is what I can see happening.

Simi always hides her feelings as she considers other's happiness before hers. She may know inside that she likes or loves abhi but she will keep denying it. But Abhi is expert in making her realize and getting his ways will do something drastic for her to tell it all and admit . That will be the point their love story will begin. Actually it has already started just that they are not aware, They both one minute calling tum and aap says they they have deep feeling for each other,

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