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I know we are looking forward to monday and we all want abhi simi to be together. but have we consider a cataosphy this relation can create? Let us look at some reality though Abhi acts so mature and try to be savior and uses his out of ordinaly or nonconventional ways to save her.
The facts are
1. Abhi is 4-6 years younger than SIMI in the society where it is ok for men to be much older even 10-20 years than women to marry them and it is still consider ok and no one objects. But if a woman even considers man few years younger than her it is like a big crime and every one talks about her and her family as if tehy have commited some horrible crime.😡
2. Abhi is a student who is still living under his father's shadow. he has nothing of his own. If Abhi's dad decides to disown him How will he supoort himself and Simi. True Simi does not need supporing. While Simi is standing on her own feet working for living. So if abhi is disowned would he leave his study and work or make Simi work while he is still in college. how would he feel then about himself as Abhi appears to be in charge kind of personality.
3, It is very likely Abhi has fallen in love mostly with Simi's outer beauty despite her chubbiness. I am not trying to say he is not admiring her inner beauty as well here.
4. Abhi has short of idealistic views about life and does not know what it takes as he has given and gotten everything so easily in his life and never ever have to struggle for anything, while Simi has experinced life and mostly her experiences are bitter with man and so she is very careful to form relation with any man as she has been mostly hurt by so many rejections
5. Simi will be thinking twice before forming any relation with abhi as she does not want Anuj Anita's rishta to be affected by her's and Abhis relation
6. Manju always cared and worried about what ppl say or do then her daughters happiness and I am sure simi will not want to hurt her one more time.
7. . Biggest obstacle will be Abhi's parents as for them Simi comes from ordinary family, she is older than abhi and fat looking girl in the society where only physical apperances is most importantly looked at.
8. Abhi should also be preapred tp be called by names when he goes out with Simi as Simi looks older than him any way you look at it.
9. They may fall in love and all but so far looking at every aspect they are an odd couple with nothing in common except that they both are good ppl who are willing to do anything for other's happiness.
So keeping all these in mind and may be more. let us see how this rishta will become possible
I am sure this is not going to be easy over night love transformation as it is completely out of ordinary one of a kind story which makes it so interesting.
I hope writers take it as one step at a time and develope love between them slowly but steadily and bring them closer with every passing obstacle in their way rather than marrying them soon and spoil the charm of such a wonderful issue few women face in this modern era where society is yet not ready to accept such relationships/ marraiges.
You can add to this or comment. what say?
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