How Hard Is It To Confront Your Elder Sister?

Hey guys,

i concur with each n every word of ur's naima
it's not at all easy 2 confront 2 ur elders... may it b ur sis or anyone

sry i'm in hurry, cant reply in detail... but i jus love ur topics

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gr8 topic naima.. !!!

and I guess thats the answer to why we thought gunjan was being "selfish" as she was never ther for nups the way nups has always been ther.. but I guess ya, when thers an elder sister, usually ther is this inhibition or some sort of a sister rekha ( like laxman rekha 😆 ) that cant be crossed or something?..I dunno, coz I dont hav ne real elder sister..but I do hav cousins..tho i think the bond b/w cousins is very diff from tht b/w real ones...

I think it mainly depends on the age difference.. if thers a diff of like 4-5 yrs or more..the younger one generally feels odd or uncomfortable to confront her elder sister..coz maybe she thinks that the elder one is always right..she belives in her elder sister and has maybe always followed her footprints..so automatically she believs when her elder sister tries to hide something from her..

but maybe if theres a diff of 1-2 yrs..then I think the comfort zone is a lot bigger and ther shudnt be ne prob for the younger one to confront..

in case of nupur and gunjan, i believ that even tho the age diff is soo less, gunjan has always been taken care of by nupur..and its not like she is needed to.. she jus is! and since they come from a very conservative family, even the age diff of 1 yr that exists b/w them is a large one to them..she is elder to gunjan n thats it..ther are no special considerations.. hence she calls her "di" even tho its not really needed wit such a small age diff..maybe.. and jus like a younger sister is, and also being quite innocent, she has always blindly believed in her elder sister..hence maybe she never openly confronted her..not now, n not even when she and mayank had started dating..she isnt the type to do tht..

I think thats why its all the more diffcult for her esp to confront nupur..

Yea, today I can't disagree.

I was actually very proud of Gunjan after I saw today's scene. =)

Very interesting question! I remember when my elder sister would get upset over a fight with her boyfriend (now husband), I would find it tough to ask 'whats wrong?' and my tone would go down really low. She is like my 2nd mother so there is that sense of respect even though we're really close to each other. In a way, younger sisters may try to live in their own world thinking that there is nothing their older sister can't handle.

I'm really glad Gunjan said what quite a few members had complained about. She asked how she didn't see Nupur's sadness in front of her own happiness. She admitted it and I think that just goes to show that Gunjan takes Nupur for granted but not purposely.

Nupur knows how much her sadness affects Gunjan. Remember in the initial episodes when Nupur used to be angry/upset about Mayank, Gunjan would start crying and she had a tough time consoling her. Thats when Nupur had to change the subject because she couldn't see Gunjan become weak.

Gunjan= Nupur's weakness
Nupur=Gunjans strength

This is why their relationship is so special to me! There is something very real about it and there is an underlying dependance between them.
I want Nupur to cry on Gunjan's shoulders tomorrow! They better not cut their scene!

Hey Naima.....first of all loved Gunjan today...Sanaya rocked........her expressions were awesome.....