How Hard Is It To Confront Your Elder Sister? - Page 2

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Posted: 15 years ago
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it depends on the closeness and respect u've towards that person .. I'm personally the eldest but still my lil's shout at me whenever m wrong, and I do the same .. Or it happens to me to confront the eldest too coz we r too close. I personally think it all depends on closeness. If u ain't that close to someone, u might b scared to hurt them, or u may not know if u r right and all ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i dont have elder sis so i dont know
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i totally agree wiv u ! :) x
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Posted: 15 years ago
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TOTALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY AGREE!!!!!!!!!!! GUNJAN IS AN EXCELLENT SISTER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you are right. we should look frm gunjan's pov! so all the people who think gunjan is a horrible sister, kindly back off.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well it is definitely a bit difficult to confront ur elder sis...as far as my case is concerned....i'm the elder one and i find it a lil more easier to confront my sis and ask her....
but she hesitates to do the same....maybe bcoz i'm the elder one and she kinda idolizes me...even though i dont understand wat is to there to idolise....😆.... and so she thinks i cant do nething wrong....ad my word is patthar ki lakeer and stuff....😆
she asks me questions just once and wen i dnt tell her she just stops asking.....understanding that i wnt be telling her.....younger siblings are always taken care of by their elder ones so the transition for them bcums difficult....coz they start thinking the 'chota muh badi baat' thingy....moral of the story is that if ur sis is as crazy and outspoken as nups her going into a shell makes u uncomfortable...but since she is the elder one u cant really push her to tell u sumthing...this thing always remain in the younger siblings mind......yeah thats about it.....sorry for the rambling.....😆
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Posted: 15 years ago
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awesome topic.........specially for sumone like me...i have a older sister too.....and i tell you i get damn scared to confront her.......even if shes sad....i always thought the older siblings are more smart....but after watching yesterdays episode i realised that it was the other way round!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i can just say this that Gunjan is a really caring sister,its just tht shes younger and it sometimes depends on the age factor too,may be she cant disclose her feelings and ya thts quite true coz even her feelings for samrat were always inside her heart,she never let them out in front of anyone so i guess in this matter too shes similar as well,but im so proud of Gunjan she atleast gave it a try,hats off to her and i simply loved her acting in this scene,she always brings tears into my eyes coz of her amazing acting.Awesome post Namzz👍🏼
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Nice topic Naima. I have an elder sister, perhaps 4 years older to me, and It's like we both completely despise each other. We argue every single day, and don't really share anything with each other. Well, that's how usually we are.

But in GunUr's case, they're extremely close to each other, And discuss everything with each other. They share a very huge comfort level with each other. It isn't that there's a vast age gap between them. It's just a year. I can confront any damn person who's a year older to me, so why not my own sister if I'm so close to her? Nupur is good at hiding her feelings, is that even a excuse for not knowing what your sister is going through? I'm sure if you're so close to your sister, you'd know when exactly your sister is going through a hard phase. If best friends could understand each other so well, despite them hiding their real feelings, why not sisters? Think. Either they shouldn't show GunUr so close, cause then it's obvious that Gunjan needs to understand Nupur better too, or they should show both sisters understanding each other very well. And seriously, it wasn't all that hard to confront Nupur. Gunjan should have avoided crying and tried to get it out of Nupur. She hardly tried.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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From my personal experience, I and my elder sis are really close...
I have confronted her if I see there is some problem...
I think between sisters it is easy to have heart to heart conversations...
We both confront each other...but our relationship has always been like this...Never really considered her an older sis even though we are 4 yrs apart...we are friends first and sisters as well...
Probably it depends on what kind of relaionship U share with your sis
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Posted: 15 years ago
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well it depends from sister to sister..... i have a brother but i have elder cousin sister whose really close and we kinda stayed together when was in another city.....both share everything with me....infact my sister is 4 years elder she used to tell me everything...if anything used to go wrong i wud ask bindaas wats wrong ans stuff and tried my best to find out....but it was upto her to reveal or not.....
but this mite not be the case with everyone.....there are many of my friends who are kinda scared and have the parental kinda respect for their siblings so may be its difficullt for them to ask.....it differs from househod to household.

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