How does dadisa inspire so much affection?

after all that dadisa did to anandi and her family she was still behaving like a mother teresa and was going to leave the house to keep dadisa happy. the same happened in suguna's case too...when dadisa was torturing her and bhairon took a stand against it suguna threatened suicide so that he stay on. suguna loving her grandmother is understandable...but during her year long stay at her sasra dadisa has been rarely affectionate towards anandi. at best she has taunted her...and at worst she kicked her out of the house and even kept quiet despite knowing what trouble she was in. still anandi has so much affection for dadisa? unbelievable!
btw as an aside anandi seems to have now completely taken after her glorious predecessors ie saloni, tulsi, parvati etc etc. the good bahu legacy lives on. sigh!

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

after all that dadisa did to anandi and her family she was still behaving like a mother teresa and was going to leave the house to keep dadisa happy. the same happened in suguna's case too...when dadisa was torturing her and bhairon took a stand against it suguna threatened suicide so that he stay on. suguna loving her grandmother is understandable...but during her year long stay at her sasra dadisa has been rarely affectionate towards anandi. at best she has taunted her...and at worst she kicked her out of the house and even kept quiet despite knowing what trouble she was in. still anandi has so much affection for dadisa? unbelievable!
btw as an aside anandi seems to have now completely taken after her glorious predecessors ie saloni, tulsi, parvati etc etc. the good bahu legacy lives on. sigh!

Originally posted by: diatoms82

So true!!!! I used to hope early on that anandi should grow up, should show some sensibility. Though, I've never wanted her to be 'TULSI MAIYA JUNIOR' . But my worst fears are turning into reality it seems 😭

agreed yaar she's becoming tulsi day by day

agreee with u..that girl is just too sweet i guess..or was trying to impress dadisa..

yep she didnt...but wud a 13 year old gal have so much sense to think on how to save families?

i always wanted 2 see anandi 2 stand aggainst the old age traditions n child marraiges n all tats bad practices been shown ..inshort aggainst dadisa who follows it...probably the right vs wrong not like tis as 2 wat is being shown

Originally posted by: kshreya2002

yep she didnt...but wud a 13 year old gal have so much sense to think on how to save families?

The answer is there in Anandi's reply that she understand the pain of getting out of one's home and the horror to be all alone in a house..as she herself has suffered the horror when she was locked in that kotri by dadisa..

Originally posted by: mehraan

i always wanted 2 see anandi 2 stand aggainst the old age traditions n child marraiges n all tats bad practices been shown ..inshort aggainst dadisa who follows it...probably the right vs wrong not like tis as 2 wat is being shown

Anandi will do the same, but only after taking dadisa into confidence. Dadisa might now allow Anandi to continue her studies and later they bond each other very weell and then Anandi can stand up to dadisa's wrong decisions.. but not before that..otherwise her fate will be the same.

Originally posted by: ammoos

The answer is there in Anandi's reply that she understand the pain of getting out of one's home and the horror to be all alone in a house..as she herself has suffered the horror when she was locked in that kotri by dadisa..

moreover it shhows her upbringing and her sanskaar... no girl would want the elder member of her sasurall to be left alone just coz of her...Anandi did the same thing.. and she is showing more maturity like never before.

yup...but my question is anandi is how old...13? would a 13 year old girl have so much sense as to saving families et al. wouldnt she judge ppl by the treatment they mete out to themselves and others. but anandi suddenly has become mother teresa. while her silly questions and behavior was annoying earlier but her behaving like a 60 year old woman(she has more sense than basant, bhairon and even maasa?) is also not palatable. if anandi did that for anyone else...suguna, sumitra even gehna it would have been more understandable cuz if she loves them they too have tried their best to love and support her. but kalyani? im not saying anandi shld have happily gone off with the rest of the family leaving maasa alone...but if someone older like basant, bhairon or sumitra solved the problem it would have made more sense. i dont want to see anandi turn into a tulsi maiyya at the age of 13.

Maybe her experiences taught her some lessons😉