12/10- Abhi-Nikki : Is loving enough?

Hi darlings and daffodils,🤗

Having dumped my tissue box alongwith some fifty soggy tissues ( need to keep a super saver pack ready as Nikki's state hurts like nothing worse these days ) , I am trying to see where Abhi , Nikki and that horrendously dressed in a red curtain cloth Jee-Ka-Janjaal Jiya Rani are standing and where they should go from here. 😕

I am sorry but Abhimanyu is no longer the Abhi we fell in love with. He did not have clay feet like this one and he had a solution - a sensible and sometimes insensible but brave solution to everything. I believe him with all my heart when he tells Nikki like a trapped rabbit that he loves Nikita more than his life and breathes a rare breath of relief as she hugs him in sheer emotional turmoil.... but the question is..... Is loving enough? Is a promise of a possible future together with no effort or hope in the present enough? Is the mere glimpse of the one you love enough to spend an entire lifetime enough?...... I think NO. Not in Nikki's case.As much as I try to sympathize with Abhimanyu.... I think NO.

Before Abhi chased Nikki around tables and pinned her to walls to leave no other door open for her except fall into his arms screaming I love you! I love you! .....before he promised stars and heaven to her... before he made her fall in love with him with a madness to an extent that it drained her out of any other emotion possible.... did he forget that he had a wife back home? Did he forget that it was fundamental to acquaint Nikki with his circumstances and situation before letting her take a single step towards him? It may appear as the eternally convenient 'fear of losing' but in the real world ... it is EMOTIONAL COWARDICE.

Today , when Nikita wants to get out of this vicious circle and move ahead in life, Abhimanyu should not even think of stopping her. You love her, right? Then , how can you tie her to a pole that is never going to move from it's place? How can you even tell her that you love her when you didn't have the courage to stand up for her? Nikki has every right to move out of this mess and sort out her life and mind - learn to smile and laugh again . If this tattered Nikita is what was to happen, then , she is better miles away from Abhimanyu.

Abhimanyu.... Loving is not enough. It never is. If you cannot stand up for the one you love at the right time , the right moment - it is a colossal waste- a humiliation of self and the one you love. You have failed the test of fire and your virtues and your love stand in the criminal circle.

I know there are a million explanations for Abhi's situation .... And i buy them but what I don't buy is Nikita's ruined state because of him.

Nikita did not deserve this..... definitely not Nikki.

luvd dat scene xx

Originally posted by: khushi909

that scene was really gud

Yeah.😕😭.... but it broke my heart to see Nikita sob like that.

seriously niki does not deserve this at all, specially not after stabilising herself in her life and career and for whom abhi meant the world.abhi needs to act fast and strongly because now if he fails he stands to loose niki who if gone now will never return or look back.this should not have happened to niki...she is a strong girl and with passage of time will come out of it but its abhi who will loose all,on one side his so called wife whom he does not love and on the other niki whom he loves from the bottom of his heart. go man go !!!!
as for the question-is loving enough??? no dear one needs courage also to love, to acheive it , to accept it in front of the world and to stand for it.
b/w niki rocked that sequence...brilliantly done.

Originally posted by: mrs.sharma

seriously niki does not deserve this at all, specially not after stabilising herself in her life and career and for whom abhi meant the world.abhi needs to act fast and strongly because now if he fails he stands to loose niki who if gone now will never return or look back.this should not have happened to niki...she is a strong girl and with passage of time will come out of it but its abhi who will loose all,on one side his so called wife whom he does not love and on the other niki whom he loves from the bottom of his heart. go man go !!!!
as for the question-is loving enough??? no dear one needs courage also to love, to acheive it , to accept it in front of the world and to stand for it.
b/w niki rocked that sequence...brilliantly done.

Hi there!

Well said. When Nikita has everything perfect in her life , then , why should she suffer this emotional mess? It is tearing her apart. Nikita has shown more courage than Abhi and it takes a herculean effort to face the man you love and cannot be with every single day.

Originally posted by: nitica_82

Hi there!

Well said. When Nikita has everything perfect in her life , then , why should she suffer this emotional mess? It is tearing her apart. Nikita has shown more courage than Abhi and it takes a herculean effort to face the man you love and cannot be with every single day.

thanks. forgot to mention that i loved your"darlings and daffodils"sounds fresh.

It's really sad to see wat has become of Nikki...but both are to be blamed for the situation they find themselves in...Abhi more than Nikki...he had no right to go chasing Nikki all the while knowing he had a wife albeit a seriously disturbed wife....Nikki after having found out he was married shudv distanced herself from him there an then...easier said than done I know but had she done so then she wudnt be in the predicament she's in now....having said that, Nikki is handling the situation brilliantly though we've lost the old Nikki somewhere along the way...an Abhi wat can I say...he's like a whipped puppy these days

Originally posted by: nitica_82

Before Abhi chased Nikki around tables and pinned her to walls to leave no other door open for her except fall into his arms screaming I love you! I love you! .....before he promised stars and heaven to her... before he made her fall in love with him with a madness to an extent that it drained her out of any other emotion possible.... did he forget that he had a wife back home? Did he forget that it was fundamental to acquaint Nikki with his circumstances and situation before letting her take a single step towards him? It may appear as the eternally convenient 'fear of losing' but in the real world ... it is EMOTIONAL COWARDICE.

Abhimanyu.... Loving is not enough. It never is. If you cannot stand up for the one you love at the right time , the right moment - it is a colossal waste- a humiliation of self and the one you love. You have failed the test of fire and your virtues and your love stand in the criminal circle.

I know there are a million explanations for Abhi's situation .... And i buy them but what I don't buy is Nikita's ruined state because of him.

Nikita did not deserve this..... definitely not Nikki.

Originally posted by: nitica_82

Today , when Nikita wants to get out of this vicious circle and move ahead in life, Abhimanyu should not even think of stopping her. You love her, right? Then , how can you tie her to a pole that is never going to move from it's place? How can you even tell her that you love her when you didn't have the courage to stand up for her? Nikki has every right to move out of this mess and sort out her life and mind - learn to smile and laugh again . If this tattered Nikita is what was to happen, then , she is better miles away from Abhimanyu.

I have nothing to add, Nitica. You summed it all up in just a few sentences.

If anything, I hope a new guy comes along, bringing back her laughter and breaking down the cold walls she's built. Maybe someday down the road, when Abhi solves his problems, Jiah's reality becomes obvious to him and he does something to get out of the 'chakrviyu' he's stuck in...AN can pick up from where they left off. Here and now though, promises are not enough...Abhi is stationary himself, but he asks for too much if Nikki is to freeze her own life down for him.

A debate can be opened with this Abhi-Nikki situation.